You say ‘how does one get proof when they are too terrified to ring the police ?’

Good grief! Where have you been?
It’s a terribly sad fact of NZ life these days that women don’t even need proof to get a protection order against a man.
A women only need to make an allegation that a man was ‘abusive’ and that they ‘feel scared’. The fact that he is completly innocent is niether here nor there! If you don’t believe that just ask and I’m confident lots of guys who post here will confirm it.
I’m astonished. I imagined that would be common knowledge amongst NZs womenfolk by now. I’m certain those in the refuge movement would know that after all it’s there in black and white in the DV Act.

You say ‘don’t get angry with the refuge movement’.
However many of us guys are righteously angry with the refuge movement because they continually demonize all of us speading propoganda with grossly overinflated statistics about male DV. Some are even paranoid enough to believe that all men collude with each other to keep women under the heel of a supposed ‘patriarchy’. How whacko! And they do all this at the taxpayers expense to boot. Talk about creating a trail of destruction and adding insult to injury!

True…women are also violent..

I know that its hard for those that are inocent…but dont forget there are women out there and men that are being badly abused every day…not only them but there children.

How does one get proof when they are to terified to ring the police knowing that within 24 hours they will be released to asault again, only next time it may be there death.

I say dont get angry at women or refuges,..Get angry at those that are physically abusing women.

Seeing these events unfold from afar is terrifying and sad beyond words.
Thank God I’m not in NazZi now. As a male I feel much safer for it. I can even sit next to kids on public transport, imagine that!

Good Luck and my very best wishes

David Currie

False Alligations = False Alibi

False Alligations are Not Investigated RE: Domestic Abuse / Violence.

False Alibi IS Investigated

“There is no excuse for violence. The responsibility for violence lies firmly with the abuser. They make the choice to abuse.”

Translation: when men are violent they are responsible. They are to blame.

“But the causes and effects of women’s violence are often different than men’s violence. Sometimes women who are being abused also act violently in self-defence and this can include ‘pre-emptive strikes’ when the abuser is vulnerable i.e. when they are drunk or asleep.”

Translation: When women are violent, men are responsible. Men are to blame.