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Sat 30th December 2006

East Auckland Refuge for Men and Families (09)940 6236

Filed under: General — Paul Catton @ 12:40 am

Since “Officially” announcing the instigation of the Refuge, I (not Opal) have been assailed publicly on this website and personally via my e-mail.
I (not Opal) posted comment defending attack by an American (presumably a VAWA fanatic) under two previous postings which John prematurely deleted.

We again will Post these attacks to emphasise the level of hostility that one faces Internationally, trying to expose misandric activity.
(The silver lining is Menz is read worldwide and his contributors against misandry are considered a somewhat threat).

Name: sick to death in USA! | E-mail: cursed_owl_eyes@yahoo.com | IP: 141.158.122.237
No it just shows that Men want to stay in charge and get away with abuse.
Funny how you never mention how your ex-wife got a VALID PFA for her and the children.
How there has to be proof of abuse to get them.
You are a abuser and thats all that matters in this case. A abuser that still is abusing.
You make me sick. I have hate beyond hate for you.
Posted Dec 28, 2:46 PM

And

Name: sick to death in USA! | E-mail: cursed_owl_eyes@yahoo.com | IP: 141.158.122.237

Oh man Paul You make me sick to my stomach. They don’t give PFA’s out of a gumball machine. A abused woman and her children have to have valid proof of such abuse to obtain such an order. You knew you were not allowed to see your son. Yet you force him home and make him live in crap. Just to control your wife some more. You are a joke. A cruel and wicked man. You do not care for your children and never have or they would not be in this. And you would not still be torturing them. And to read what you say to your child on here. Man you are your manipulating children trying to use heart ache and pain against them and belittling them. You DO NOT LOVE YOUR CHILDREN! You are just some sick messed up human with nothing more to do in life but cause heartache and pain!! Your time will come. And to his Ex-Wife and Children Fight to the death! You need to get away from this sick pig!
Posted Dec 28, 2:38 PM

Further to these I am getting abusive personal e-mails.

I have had no reservations about my publicizing my own case file as the “Truth will out”, Judge Jim O’Donovan thinks I should be somewhat muzzled.

Regrettably or Fortunately “cursed_owl_eyes”, perhaps, now provides a recourse for full exposure of the biased family court in exposing the detail of my proceedings to the “General Public-Worlwide” to negate hate correspondence and threat currently endured.

We have two websites active, most of the regular readers will be aware of
familycourtnewzealand.

Our other site is a result of our jointly rebuking Family Court bastardization.
Catton/Larsson united as Family apart.

We no longer have to provide a position of defending me or my integrity.
We therefore, are now regarded to have my position recognised as being altruistic.

Let us reflect on our achievements and capatilize, then in 2007 banish attempts of “gender warfare” by being unison in anti-male propoganda and supplying support and confidence in all measures being undertook to dispel misandry.

We wish all a Happy New Year.
East Auckland Refuge for Men and Families.
Paul & Opal

5 Comments »

  1. Paul,

    Shite, I don’t know what to say for I have also given you a hard time. But, hang in there for attitudes will change. Just today I heard a man say to me that he is going to support men because (in his words) “Men don’t complain but when they do, you know something is wrong. Women, well, we expect that but when men complain then something is very wrong.” He also went on to tell me of another group of men complaining and that is the Islander men. The women have roles in the Islands but when they come over here the men and the women quickly learn that men cannot aubse women but the women are now abusing the men and badly. Apparently this went to air on TV, so he told me.

    By the way, do you have a men’s refuge up and going now?

    Comment by julie — Sat 30th December 2006 @ 1:12 am

  2. It is interesting what you find on google…

    Out of curiosity, I did a search for “cursed_owl_eyes”, and found that our self-professed hater is a 30 year old american female, who gives her name as Darby Daly, and who is into “black metal”.

    I found this on “Encyclopaedia Metallum”, on which her user name is Mucklebones88.(Other users have names like “Christkiller” and “Sodomatic Slaughter”).

    See: http://metal-archives.com/userprofile.php?user=Mucklebones88

    It is quite clear that this lady who whines “You DO NOT LOVE YOUR CHILDREN!” knows nothing about love; and rather than Paul being “some sick messed up human with nothing more to do in life but cause heartache and pain”, this probably is a reflection on herself. The poor thing is one very screwed up individual.

    Comment by Darryl — Mon 1st January 2007 @ 11:30 pm

  3. Dear Darryl,

    Thankyou for exposing who is behind the attack.

    An example of further attack on my e-mail by the same is as follows

    You are still a sick “censored”! That will never go away.

    Once an abuser always an abuser.

    No matter what words you try to type to fix the mess you have made with your family.

    It does not change the fact you are abuser and a sorry pathetic human.

    The truth hurts doesn’t it?

    I hope some day you get it all in return.

    Needless to say I was starting to get a little concerned as to our safety from this individual.

    To answer Julie,“East Auckland Refuge for Men and Families”, is small scale compared to externally funded “Women’s Refuge” but we are able to provide temporary emergency accommodation for the most pressing of cases where fathers need to seek refuge with their family to escape abusive situations.

    We are then able to utilise the extensive knowledge resource of various individuals, Mens Groups and sites, and the almost reticent Govt. Agencies in providing strategy for both short and long term solution, hopefully devoid of the normal acrimony.

    Details of the Refuge is understandably restricted hence only the contact number (09) 940 6236 being distributed.

    It is hoped we can further establish a network of safe houses (any person with a spare room/s and can perhaps be supportive company with access to IT resource) to expand our capabilities.

    Wishing all a Happy New Year.

    Paul

    Comment by Paul Catton — Thu 4th January 2007 @ 12:38 pm

  4. Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.

    “Let us reflect on our achievements and capatilize, then in 2007 banish attempts of “gender warfare” by being unison in anti-male propoganda and supplying support and confidence in all measures being undertook to dispel misandry.”

    I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.

    Comment by chiz — Wed 2nd April 2008 @ 3:33 am

  5. my name is manish sood i am looking to move into a mens refuge as i am having domestic abuse of my girlfriend and i am not safe in the area that i am living in at the moment if you could send me some information to my email address please it would be very much appreciated thankyou very much

    Comment by manish sood — Sun 17th August 2008 @ 3:31 am

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