International Parental Alienation Day
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Sun 22nd April 2007
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A deadly syndrome
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Onward - Jim
Comment by JimBWarrior - HandsOnEqualParent — Sun 22nd April 2007 @ 5:08 am
I am into my sixth year of parental alienation .
Comment by dad4justice — Sun 22nd April 2007 @ 9:10 am
Many a separated Grand Parent has gone to an early grave because of PAS
Many a non custodial Parent has ordered their own death because of PAS
NZ-Family Caught gives carefully SPIN Doctored lip service to this heinous deliberate manipulation of Kids and the perpetrator for the benifit of those who deliberately damage the **Whole-NATURAL-Biological-FAMILY**.
I. E. NZ-Govt for which ALL MP’s in the last 20 maybe 30 Parliaments are responcible for.
I say cause law to Prosecute all who damage the **Whole-NATURAL-Biological-FAMILY** starting with MP’s, Judges, Lawyers, Bureacrats and their hirelings
Current systems to disapline these bastards has never worked and never will
We can’t keep raising Don Quixote’s to fight the wind we must CAUSE Law to save our FAMILIES.
I say again CAUSE law and Social Policy that will PROSECUTE all who damage our **Whole-NATURAL-Biological-FAMILY**
Couragious BOTHERING/REMINDING will build the ARMY needed
The COLD WAR must be brought to a head
Without courage our Kids WILL LOSE THEIRS
Onward - Jim
Comment by JimBWarrior - HandsOnEqualParent — Sun 22nd April 2007 @ 9:33 am
Parental Alienation Day
Tomorrow, 25 April 2007, is International Parental Alienation Day .
“Parental Alienation behaviours are behaviours done by a 3rd party, which interfere with the normal parent-child relationship. These behaviours may be done by the other parent, extended family, courts, or social services. They may include such behaviours as speaking negatively to or about a parent in front of the child, interfering with communication and visitation, and sharing inappropriate information with the child.”
There are few cases that I am aware of where Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), or Hostile Aggressive Parenting was not a feature in the breakdown of family relationships after separation, and the involvement of the Family Court almost guarantees that PAS will not only be present, but will be a part of one parent’s strategy of “winning” the children, family home and child support.
There is now a vast amount of research into PAS and its destructive consequences, but with the exception of very few cases, Jayden Headley springs to mind, the Courts and associated “professionals” have ignored the pleas of the alienated parent, and in some cases the children.
The reality is that few judges accept PAS as a form of child abuse, and in most cases the abuser is rewarded with full custody of the affected child. Likewise, Court appointed psychologists, despite being trained in the field of psychology, either don’t accept PAS as an abuse, are unable to link developing behaviours in affected children with PAS, or simply don’t listen or report on allegations or descriptions of PAS.
Over the years there has been the development of a network of affected parents, researchers, consultant social workers, doctors and others to bring about awareness of PAS and encourage the courts and associated professionals to take the behaviour and tragic results seriously. There is no doubt that PAS is child abuse, and therefore the Courts must be encouraged to intervene as soon as possible.
Parental Alienation Day is a time to bring about awareness of PAS, and to reflect on the millions of effected children and parents internationally.
Campaigners in the US have initiated a Petition to the United Nations 1503 Human Rights committee. The Petition reads;
“I/we the undersigned call on the 1503 Committee to investigate this systematic destruction of the rights of children and families by states and government agencies throughout the industrialised world”.
The Petition can be found at; http://www.un1503petition.com/tF/iTF.htm
Many may question the ability and commitment of the United Nations to address such an issue, but the Human Rights Committee’s recent slamming of the New Zealand Family Court is very encouraging. Read NZ Herald report; http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10435016&
More information about International Parent Alienation Day can be found here; http://www.parental-alienation-awareness.com/PAAD2007.asp
Comment by xsryder — Wed 25th April 2007 @ 12:35 am
this is a joke. my former husband is a dab had at PAS to the extent that he has managed to get two out of three children turned against me and our esteemed family court just wrings it hands. I know there are women out there who make false accusations against men but come on guys it goes both ways. any advice would be appreciated as he has the support of jim bagnall (who i doubt actually knows what kind of a man he is really) would be appreciated before the kids are totally messed up. Thanks in advance
Comment by yeahr1te — Wed 17th October 2007 @ 5:32 pm
PAS is virtually an all female activity !
Comment by martin swash — Wed 17th October 2007 @ 9:20 pm
Dear yeahr1te,
This is the wrong place to put down Jim Bagnall. He is pretty much a God to many men and women.
Comment by julie — Wed 17th October 2007 @ 9:46 pm
Dear Yeahr1te,
I spent some time constructing advice to provide positive assistance yet your return address bounced.
If you are for real and have qualms, I am sure that you will respond to address the situation between yourself and ex-partner to find unison for your progeny.
I am always available to give guidance from an independant perception along with Jim to solve hostilities and increase enjoyment of parenthood.
Kind Regards
Paul Catton
East Auckland Refuge for Men and Families (09) 940 6236
Comment by Paul Catton — Wed 17th October 2007 @ 10:07 pm