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	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 20:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Teresa</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-186661</link>
		<dc:creator>Teresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 04:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there.I no what you are going through, we are in the same boat, crap lawyer, no witnesses aloud, girl thinking this is really funny and made the most of the attention she had through the trial, the personal hell you feel every day, the hapless feeling of not be able to do anything, and yes we have thought of suicide.
We had an appeal on sentence and convictions, they dropt the major charge but still left the sentence as 12 years, our new lawyer was slapped down because he critisied our old lawyer and you are not aloud to do that, friends and family are still trying to find another loop-hole in the system to try for yet another appeal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there.I no what you are going through, we are in the same boat, crap lawyer, no witnesses aloud, girl thinking this is really funny and made the most of the attention she had through the trial, the personal hell you feel every day, the hapless feeling of not be able to do anything, and yes we have thought of suicide.<br />
We had an appeal on sentence and convictions, they dropt the major charge but still left the sentence as 12 years, our new lawyer was slapped down because he critisied our old lawyer and you are not aloud to do that, friends and family are still trying to find another loop-hole in the system to try for yet another appeal.</p>
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		<title>By: kasey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-175219</link>
		<dc:creator>kasey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 01:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Martin, Thanks for your comment and Thanks to You All for the support. It has helped our family immensely to know that we have people here that listen to our nightmare and offer support. The hardest part now for my Brother and our Family is living each day as a continuing or never-ending nightmare. We are hoping that the Appeal will be heard ASAP but I won't hold my breath on that one as I have already witnessed how SLOW the JUSTICE SYSTEM works. Anyway THANKS AGAIN to ALL BYE for now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Martin, Thanks for your comment and Thanks to You All for the support. It has helped our family immensely to know that we have people here that listen to our nightmare and offer support. The hardest part now for my Brother and our Family is living each day as a continuing or never-ending nightmare. We are hoping that the Appeal will be heard ASAP but I won&#8217;t hold my breath on that one as I have already witnessed how SLOW the JUSTICE SYSTEM works. Anyway THANKS AGAIN to ALL BYE for now!</p>
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		<title>By: martin swash</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-174792</link>
		<dc:creator>martin swash</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 20:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Evil bitch will suffer at the end kasey, we are all with you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Evil bitch will suffer at the end kasey, we are all with you</p>
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		<title>By: kasey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-174601</link>
		<dc:creator>kasey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 00:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris, Thanks for your comments. Yes our whole family are in a living hell and have suffered for coming on 3 yrs now. My brother was recently sentenced to what has been called an extrordinarily long sentence (more than a double murderer). As we are planning to Appeal the sentence and conviction I cant say exactly how long as this will identify him. What we wernt allowed to present in court as evidence is that my brother is not the only man this woman has put in jail for same charges in the same time frame. We have also recently heard that there has been charges laid against a third man. The Police seem to let this woman now point the finger at anyone she wishes with no EVIDNCE, &#38; off to jail they go. We feel so angry &#38; frustrated at the whole Justice system because now we know he was doomed from the start, and how to you gather evidence to prove your innocents from 10-12 yrs ago! The Police can lay a Representative charge over a 3yr period which is very difficult to prove what you were doing over a 3yr period 10 yrs ago. We have also found that when you have been charged with Sexual Offences you are looked upon as GUILTY right from the start. Even the Judge &#38; Jury don't care about your evidence. So called Victim support were no where to be found for us, as they were all fussing over the Complainant &#38; her EVIL mother, but while their backs were turned they would laugh and taunt us. We now face the task of getting my brother urgently needed medical treatment but continually are being told by Corrections that we need to Remember he is in a prison. If anyone has suggestions on who or how to approach this matter we would be very grateful. Good Luck to You &#38; Your Husband, Thanks again for your support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris, Thanks for your comments. Yes our whole family are in a living hell and have suffered for coming on 3 yrs now. My brother was recently sentenced to what has been called an extrordinarily long sentence (more than a double murderer). As we are planning to Appeal the sentence and conviction I cant say exactly how long as this will identify him. What we wernt allowed to present in court as evidence is that my brother is not the only man this woman has put in jail for same charges in the same time frame. We have also recently heard that there has been charges laid against a third man. The Police seem to let this woman now point the finger at anyone she wishes with no EVIDNCE, &amp; off to jail they go. We feel so angry &amp; frustrated at the whole Justice system because now we know he was doomed from the start, and how to you gather evidence to prove your innocents from 10-12 yrs ago! The Police can lay a Representative charge over a 3yr period which is very difficult to prove what you were doing over a 3yr period 10 yrs ago. We have also found that when you have been charged with Sexual Offences you are looked upon as GUILTY right from the start. Even the Judge &amp; Jury don&#8217;t care about your evidence. So called Victim support were no where to be found for us, as they were all fussing over the Complainant &amp; her EVIL mother, but while their backs were turned they would laugh and taunt us. We now face the task of getting my brother urgently needed medical treatment but continually are being told by Corrections that we need to Remember he is in a prison. If anyone has suggestions on who or how to approach this matter we would be very grateful. Good Luck to You &amp; Your Husband, Thanks again for your support.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Broome</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-174583</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Broome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 21:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You must be going through hell. My husbands case is not as extreme as that but it seems women can say anything and men have no rights. My husband applied for shared care and got a instant protection order served instead. This was with no evidence and no supporting affaidavids but it still got to court months later. It wasn't granted but we still had to pay lawyers to defend it. We are nearly a year into it and no further ahead. Lawyer for childen is not impartial and she is unrepresented whilst we pay a lawyer. I keep reading that men need to be involved with their children. I also read that the court wants fathers involved. Howver when you try to get that it is not the case at all. Good luck with your fight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You must be going through hell. My husbands case is not as extreme as that but it seems women can say anything and men have no rights. My husband applied for shared care and got a instant protection order served instead. This was with no evidence and no supporting affaidavids but it still got to court months later. It wasn&#8217;t granted but we still had to pay lawyers to defend it. We are nearly a year into it and no further ahead. Lawyer for childen is not impartial and she is unrepresented whilst we pay a lawyer. I keep reading that men need to be involved with their children. I also read that the court wants fathers involved. Howver when you try to get that it is not the case at all. Good luck with your fight.</p>
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		<title>By: Russell Redhead</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-165788</link>
		<dc:creator>Russell Redhead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 09:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have always thought that there should be more than 1 judge sitting on serious cases as one judge could have a bad day or just be a &lt;b&gt;7th planet&lt;/b&gt; if you know what i mean. We can also thank the Jury system for letting us down as well. If you have a mortgage and a family to support how can the measly payment for the jurors cover their personal costs and as a result they want to get out of there as fast as they can. Good luck and keep us informed on how things go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have always thought that there should be more than 1 judge sitting on serious cases as one judge could have a bad day or just be a <b>7th planet</b> if you know what i mean. We can also thank the Jury system for letting us down as well. If you have a mortgage and a family to support how can the measly payment for the jurors cover their personal costs and as a result they want to get out of there as fast as they can. Good luck and keep us informed on how things go.</p>
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		<title>By: whanga</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-165712</link>
		<dc:creator>whanga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 03:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karma will get them!!Have absolutely no doubt about that!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karma will get them!!Have absolutely no doubt about that!!</p>
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		<title>By: kasey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-165687</link>
		<dc:creator>kasey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 00:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks &#38; I thank God that we do have this blog or we would be feeling very allienated. I only wish my brother was able to comment himself, but I do read all the comments to him by phone &#38; I know he feels somewhat comforted by the responce we have had so far. I also wish I could do more not only for my brother but for all the men I've recently read about on this site as I feel so saddened by the way the NZ justice system, family courts &#38; evil bitches have treated you. And like I said before it makes me ashamed to be female. I can't figure out how these women &#38; the cops that help them can sleep at night when they should know they are ruining peoples lives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks &amp; I thank God that we do have this blog or we would be feeling very allienated. I only wish my brother was able to comment himself, but I do read all the comments to him by phone &amp; I know he feels somewhat comforted by the responce we have had so far. I also wish I could do more not only for my brother but for all the men I&#8217;ve recently read about on this site as I feel so saddened by the way the NZ justice system, family courts &amp; evil bitches have treated you. And like I said before it makes me ashamed to be female. I can&#8217;t figure out how these women &amp; the cops that help them can sleep at night when they should know they are ruining peoples lives.</p>
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		<title>By: Hadi Akbari</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-165676</link>
		<dc:creator>Hadi Akbari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 23:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kasey, we do understand, that is why we are on this blog, we just need someone to talk to but cant go into detail in case some evil is reading it, i would write a character reference, myself</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kasey, we do understand, that is why we are on this blog, we just need someone to talk to but cant go into detail in case some evil is reading it, i would write a character reference, myself</p>
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		<title>By: kasey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/broken-hearted-family/#comment-165668</link>
		<dc:creator>kasey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 23:07:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S I forgot to mention Whanga that yes we are now concentrating on the character references etc for sentencing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S I forgot to mention Whanga that yes we are now concentrating on the character references etc for sentencing.</p>
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