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Ration Shed - Jim

I am a single women, university educated with a ‘good’ (?) full time job. I earn $38000.00 per annum and pay $7410.00 in taxes every year. That leaves me with $30590 and I have to work a lot. I have to cover for all my expenses and will not benefit from any of the schemes introduced by the government. I will never be able to buy a house.

If I was a solo mum and had 1 child, I would have (without needing to work in any way or form) $28075.32 per annum after tax (Domestic Purpose Benefit) and a series of extra benefits to ‘help me’. Please note that I would be able to claim DPB for many years. If I am lucky enough, I will be able to obtain some child support from a random presumed ‘father’ (this will be taxes free for me). I say random because some statistics show that in developed countries 10% to 30% - depending on economic background - of the children are not genetically related to their official father.

You don’t believe me about DPB? Just check this recent article in the nz herald.
When it pays not to work http://www.nzherald.co.nz/topic/story.cfm?c_id=322&objectid=10510660

I am very much thinking of having a child randomly… In fact, we (women from NZ) should all be a solo mum… It is such a good deal !!!

Sure can.
Been to family court 5 times and high court twice.
Never any issues with violence.
The mother still prevents the children having contact of any kind with me, after 8+ years of courts.
Toilet paper is more valuable than court orders.
Repeatedly proved in court that mother had lied and grossly misled the court.
About 3 boxes of documented evidence.
The courts gloss over female obstruction as a matter of routine.

Is that succinct enough for you?

I had a friend in the police force, and when my ex took off with my daughter, I rang her, she said you should report your daughter as kidnapped. Away after a few wines I thought this would be a good idea ( as you do) so I rang up 111 and reported my little one as kidnapped, they said go see a lawyer, I said no I want you to help me this is a kidnapp case basically they told me to fuck off, my reply was well want do you want me to do if your not going to help me, do you want me to go up there a shoot her. Bummer, never say that in jest to a cop, It does not work. Anyway I drove up the road to refuel (wine never the less) and got pulled over by the Law. Next dat charged with EBA, also got charged with treatening to Kill. Now I am a builder and had tools in my car, so got charged with tools for burglery. Ok that is bad, but my ex had left a fruit knife in the car that I did not know about, so charged with a concealed weapon.
The cops stuck me in remand for four months refusing me bail. Of course I have no income, but still had a huge loan to pay, it was driving me bankrupt. I had a few months before the bank would foreclose my loans. I had spent four months in remand (worse than prison) been beaten up by a hungry Moari guy had been issused a protection order on my ex my daughter her parents her sisters and brother, and probably (if I read the fine print) their dog, goldfish and cat.
They had also called me up for a custody hearing, but of course I could not attend as I was be helled in remand. So the custody hearing went ahead and of course I lost (again) and the ex was given sole custody. So facing bankrupcy, having not a chance to see my daughter until she is 16, and having been beaten up in prison and protection orders left, right and center, I did a deal with the cops. A one year sentence, reduced to six months due to my remand time. I will be released in two months. Just in time to sort out my potential bankrupt problem. I took it, I had too. I have never seen my daughter since. she was seven weeks prem when she was born. The last I saw of her she was seven weeks old. So think twice about kidnapp charges, and never ring 111 when you have had a belly full of wine. It fucked me big time, it really did. I lost all my friends because I am a criminal, I can not get insurance, the cops will not leave me alone and it just goes on. I have lost all my self worth, and I just live in fear. All because I wanted to see my daughter. It si not worth it let the babies go to the wolves. Just save your self !!!

I can understand your feelings, These woman always get the attention of the courts, womens refuse (not a spelling mistake). Woman have alway turned on the tears and have got support. They know this and they use it. I have been thru a similar case. My ex stealing money from my bank account, refusing me to take out my son ( this is when I was with her ) verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
She called the police twice on me, the first time they told her to pull her head in, the secound time I asked them to take her away. Big mistake she went to the woman refuse. In there they taught her the rules of the game, anyway months latter she came back, fully armed !! She had had the training now to fuck me. A few months latter she finally got the police to charge me with MAF, after she had taken $18,000 off me. She is chinese and is still working out how to get the funding off the NZ government. So far she has got the state house the DBP and a few extras thrown in. In China her family is so poor that the live in a make shift shed, she falsified her immagration papers and is now a NZ citizen living on the Pigs back. She even told me that is why she wanted to come to NZ, She still can not believe the hand outs that are given here. It is a forever security. Well all a bit late for me know, I am screwed. But she did what she wanted to achieve, so I have to take my hat off to her. I am a born and breed New Zealander and my country has basically fucked me. Along with my own stupdity, you can not fight the third world in a first world law system. It just doesn’t work. Just hope they don’t call me up for a war, because I will probably back the other side. Best of luck mate, and hang in there.