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		<title>By: Allan Harvey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-186475</link>
		<dc:creator>Allan Harvey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let us all hope their is no major war.  What a depressing thought.</description>
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		<title>By: Perseus</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-186472</link>
		<dc:creator>Perseus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 12:38:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It will not change until there is a war, then the governments will magically start to wave flags, there will be hundreds of soldier films on the TV, reporting of atrocities to incite us. After years of berating males for being "violent", they will expect us to go and kill (other men). This will be all to save their own skins. 
Individuals cannot do anything agsinst the state, who control most of the nation's economy, brainwash police and soldiers to follow orders and die for "New Zealand". Most of the politicians and police are male, but they pursue feminist legislation and many still have strong misplaced feelings of "Chivalry"

you can be sure that men will matter if there is another war</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It will not change until there is a war, then the governments will magically start to wave flags, there will be hundreds of soldier films on the TV, reporting of atrocities to incite us. After years of berating males for being &#8220;violent&#8221;, they will expect us to go and kill (other men). This will be all to save their own skins.<br />
Individuals cannot do anything agsinst the state, who control most of the nation&#8217;s economy, brainwash police and soldiers to follow orders and die for &#8220;New Zealand&#8221;. Most of the politicians and police are male, but they pursue feminist legislation and many still have strong misplaced feelings of &#8220;Chivalry&#8221;</p>
<p>you can be sure that men will matter if there is another war</p>
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		<title>By: Bob the Builder</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-186471</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob the Builder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hell hath no fury like a women scorned - especially in NZ, the feminist state run enterprise. Wake up. Does no one ever learn. If this is how sad it is then why are you not litigating in every court (civil and others if necessary) to gain advantage against your ex. Why sit back and take it and think the family court will consider your views? Society says, man works to provide for the family and the family consists of the wife and children. That was your decision when you married and it was for life and life is what the court is giving you. Listen to what you swear on in your wedding vows. Its for life and make sure you appreciate that. You had a family and that is for life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hell hath no fury like a women scorned - especially in NZ, the feminist state run enterprise. Wake up. Does no one ever learn. If this is how sad it is then why are you not litigating in every court (civil and others if necessary) to gain advantage against your ex. Why sit back and take it and think the family court will consider your views? Society says, man works to provide for the family and the family consists of the wife and children. That was your decision when you married and it was for life and life is what the court is giving you. Listen to what you swear on in your wedding vows. Its for life and make sure you appreciate that. You had a family and that is for life.</p>
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		<title>By: nickk</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-184334</link>
		<dc:creator>nickk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 05:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All this unfairness is based upon the tendancy of politicians to treat humans in their simplest subsets  ie females, males etc. This suits both the Marxist and the marketeer alike. The dominant social unit is in fact the 'couple'. if we thought this way, we would have a system that truly respected the needs of the child, and parents who genuinely cared about their children over all other considerations would be catered for by the courts. Instead, the children become casualty's of the gender war.   

Political correctness came out of the U.S. (read Harrison Bergeron a 1953 critique of such by Philip K Dick) women, ethnics and homosexuals were its soldiers, and they were there to attack society, protected by a rubric of post colonial guilt. They first controlled media, education and law. Now an entire generation has been inculcated with PC, and its meaning has broadened and it has become less easily defined. 

You cannot criticise a woman, a homosexual or an ethnic, without being called a sexist, a racist, or a homophobe. Thus, 'the left' dictate social policy making (including family courts);society and the judges bow through emotional blackmail via fear of the media/job losses etc  This is all product of the the same white liberalist neo-Marxist philosophy that has hijacked the entire university system in NZ. 

Sperm stealers are assisted, women who prey upon male desperation, then lock a man into a financial situation for the next 20 yrs, and relationships that they never wanted. Male testicular pressure dictates poor decision making choices, especially when intoxicated. Why should women benefit from this? Women should be entirely responsible for their own offspring, unless the inseminator is in a relationship with them. Paradoxically, this is the only way they will ever be free of the yoke of the patriarchy. Gender biased legislation holds them down through promoting dependency. 

Wayne Mapp was put in charge of fighting PC by the National party and has done little. He never even bothered seeking out right wing university writers and getting them organised, simple stuff really.

The currently fashionable PC Labourite philosophy has to be questioned, and exposed. Women are not sacred, they can be rotten and evil too. So can blacks, homosexuals. The bond between a father and child is JUST as important as that between a mother and child. By questioning guilt based emotional decision making every day you can weaken their absurd belief system. 

Stereotypes are OK if tested, and race, gender and culture are all very different things. Best advice, Don't vote Labour, the Greens, or any other party that buys into socialist brainwashing.

regards
npk</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All this unfairness is based upon the tendancy of politicians to treat humans in their simplest subsets  ie females, males etc. This suits both the Marxist and the marketeer alike. The dominant social unit is in fact the &#8216;couple&#8217;. if we thought this way, we would have a system that truly respected the needs of the child, and parents who genuinely cared about their children over all other considerations would be catered for by the courts. Instead, the children become casualty&#8217;s of the gender war.   </p>
<p>Political correctness came out of the U.S. (read Harrison Bergeron a 1953 critique of such by Philip K Dick) women, ethnics and homosexuals were its soldiers, and they were there to attack society, protected by a rubric of post colonial guilt. They first controlled media, education and law. Now an entire generation has been inculcated with PC, and its meaning has broadened and it has become less easily defined. </p>
<p>You cannot criticise a woman, a homosexual or an ethnic, without being called a sexist, a racist, or a homophobe. Thus, &#8216;the left&#8217; dictate social policy making (including family courts);society and the judges bow through emotional blackmail via fear of the media/job losses etc  This is all product of the the same white liberalist neo-Marxist philosophy that has hijacked the entire university system in NZ. </p>
<p>Sperm stealers are assisted, women who prey upon male desperation, then lock a man into a financial situation for the next 20 yrs, and relationships that they never wanted. Male testicular pressure dictates poor decision making choices, especially when intoxicated. Why should women benefit from this? Women should be entirely responsible for their own offspring, unless the inseminator is in a relationship with them. Paradoxically, this is the only way they will ever be free of the yoke of the patriarchy. Gender biased legislation holds them down through promoting dependency. </p>
<p>Wayne Mapp was put in charge of fighting PC by the National party and has done little. He never even bothered seeking out right wing university writers and getting them organised, simple stuff really.</p>
<p>The currently fashionable PC Labourite philosophy has to be questioned, and exposed. Women are not sacred, they can be rotten and evil too. So can blacks, homosexuals. The bond between a father and child is JUST as important as that between a mother and child. By questioning guilt based emotional decision making every day you can weaken their absurd belief system. </p>
<p>Stereotypes are OK if tested, and race, gender and culture are all very different things. Best advice, Don&#8217;t vote Labour, the Greens, or any other party that buys into socialist brainwashing.</p>
<p>regards<br />
npk</p>
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		<title>By: MurrayBacon</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-180741</link>
		<dc:creator>MurrayBacon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:25:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Many people above tell unbelievable stories about what has happened in familycaught.

&lt;strong&gt;You can only protect and care for your family, when you know the truth about how well your doctor, your child's teacher, or your familycaught "judge" can serve you.&lt;/strong&gt;

While people cannot believe these unbelievable stories, they will be unable to make the best decisions, about how to protect their family.  

Believing "judges", without checking with their customer's experiences, is taking a bit of a chance!

As the air hostess says in the safety talk, put on your oxygen mask, before your children's.

&lt;strong&gt;You have to protect yourself, before you can protect your children.&lt;/strong&gt;

Many men complain about unfair treatment they have received from familycaught.

Some stupid women also think the same and abuse their freedom to use perjury.  

But if you look back a few year later, you will see that they are poor, in relationships and in assets.  If they inherit anything, the Legal Workers Aid Agency will take it off them, to repay the Government, the legal bills paid earlier.  This can be particularly aggravating, if the legal "work" wasn't worth doing anyway.


The people who are best off, are those who negotiate honestly and in good faith (without any legal workers or thieves). &lt;/strong&gt; 

This is whether they are together, or are separated.  This does take some time, to allow for cooling off down to common sense.  Negotiating takes time and effort too, but it is well worth it.  This is the only way that children can receive the best that their parents can provide.  If the parents are impoverished in some way, by excessive spending on legal workers, then obviously family life is impoverished. So spend wisely.

These stories are unbelievable, because they are so far outside of common sense.  How could any sensible "judge" do such things?  

&lt;strong&gt;Common sense is based on the foundations of facts - hard evidence.&lt;/strong&gt;

&lt;strong&gt;When sympathy sweeps away evidence, then there is no limit to how unfair the outcome can become.&lt;/strong&gt;

 The judicial oath should prevent this from ever happening!

In a secret caught, far away from accountability, then these things can happen so easily.  

So listen carefully to customers of the familycaught.  &lt;strong&gt;By believing their experiences, then you are in a position to work out what things you can entrust to the familycaught and what things you would be unwise to entrust to them.&lt;/strong&gt;

When you expose your life to them, you take on these hazards.  Is it worth it?

These "judges" don't have professional level training to be judges.  They only have legal worker's training and worst of all, they have experience working as a legal worker.  Trusting them with family problems, is taking a big gamble, possibly not a sensible risk with your family's welfare.

Only use the familycaught services, when you are confident that they can reliably do a good quality job, at a sensible and worthwhile cost.  Compare the cost effectiveness and reliability of their services, to other negotiating assistance services, some free.  Make up your own mind, after you have listened to the evidence.  

&lt;strong&gt;Demand hard evidence, not just talk, from the "judges" and from their customers.
&lt;/strong&gt;
I hope then, that you can care for your family and enjoy life, the way it is meant to be lived.

Lots of love, MurrayBacon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people above tell unbelievable stories about what has happened in familycaught.</p>
<p><strong>You can only protect and care for your family, when you know the truth about how well your doctor, your child&#8217;s teacher, or your familycaught &#8220;judge&#8221; can serve you.</strong></p>
<p>While people cannot believe these unbelievable stories, they will be unable to make the best decisions, about how to protect their family.  </p>
<p>Believing &#8220;judges&#8221;, without checking with their customer&#8217;s experiences, is taking a bit of a chance!</p>
<p>As the air hostess says in the safety talk, put on your oxygen mask, before your children&#8217;s.</p>
<p><strong>You have to protect yourself, before you can protect your children.</strong></p>
<p>Many men complain about unfair treatment they have received from familycaught.</p>
<p>Some stupid women also think the same and abuse their freedom to use perjury.  </p>
<p>But if you look back a few year later, you will see that they are poor, in relationships and in assets.  If they inherit anything, the Legal Workers Aid Agency will take it off them, to repay the Government, the legal bills paid earlier.  This can be particularly aggravating, if the legal &#8220;work&#8221; wasn&#8217;t worth doing anyway.</p>
<p>The people who are best off, are those who negotiate honestly and in good faith (without any legal workers or thieves).  </p>
<p>This is whether they are together, or are separated.  This does take some time, to allow for cooling off down to common sense.  Negotiating takes time and effort too, but it is well worth it.  This is the only way that children can receive the best that their parents can provide.  If the parents are impoverished in some way, by excessive spending on legal workers, then obviously family life is impoverished. So spend wisely.</p>
<p>These stories are unbelievable, because they are so far outside of common sense.  How could any sensible &#8220;judge&#8221; do such things?  </p>
<p><strong>Common sense is based on the foundations of facts - hard evidence.</strong></p>
<p><strong>When sympathy sweeps away evidence, then there is no limit to how unfair the outcome can become.</strong></p>
<p> The judicial oath should prevent this from ever happening!</p>
<p>In a secret caught, far away from accountability, then these things can happen so easily.  </p>
<p>So listen carefully to customers of the familycaught.  <strong>By believing their experiences, then you are in a position to work out what things you can entrust to the familycaught and what things you would be unwise to entrust to them.</strong></p>
<p>When you expose your life to them, you take on these hazards.  Is it worth it?</p>
<p>These &#8220;judges&#8221; don&#8217;t have professional level training to be judges.  They only have legal worker&#8217;s training and worst of all, they have experience working as a legal worker.  Trusting them with family problems, is taking a big gamble, possibly not a sensible risk with your family&#8217;s welfare.</p>
<p>Only use the familycaught services, when you are confident that they can reliably do a good quality job, at a sensible and worthwhile cost.  Compare the cost effectiveness and reliability of their services, to other negotiating assistance services, some free.  Make up your own mind, after you have listened to the evidence.  </p>
<p><strong>Demand hard evidence, not just talk, from the &#8220;judges&#8221; and from their customers.<br />
</strong><br />
I hope then, that you can care for your family and enjoy life, the way it is meant to be lived.</p>
<p>Lots of love, MurrayBacon.</p>
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		<title>By: cazz3003</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-180553</link>
		<dc:creator>cazz3003</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 03:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just Amazing! What you have to go through and the whole time that you are fending off your Ex's false pathetic accusations you are dealing with the most horrific emotions of being seperated from you child.

My partner started proceedings to have shared 50/50 custody of his daughter Feb 2008. The Mother of his child has put him through so much and to this day continues to fabricate more and more lies, using the system in all the usual ways these types of women do. 

I have no doubt that what we are embarking on with Lawyers and the FC that we have a huge battle to get through.

Your stories of which you share really help others to prepare themselves for the long rediculous battle ahead.

The types of women who put both fathers and children through this are discusting, pathetic pieces if crap deserving of nothing in my opinion.

Loving Fathers like yourself are the only hope that your children have of enduring life at home with their pathetic, selfish Mother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just Amazing! What you have to go through and the whole time that you are fending off your Ex&#8217;s false pathetic accusations you are dealing with the most horrific emotions of being seperated from you child.</p>
<p>My partner started proceedings to have shared 50/50 custody of his daughter Feb 2008. The Mother of his child has put him through so much and to this day continues to fabricate more and more lies, using the system in all the usual ways these types of women do. </p>
<p>I have no doubt that what we are embarking on with Lawyers and the FC that we have a huge battle to get through.</p>
<p>Your stories of which you share really help others to prepare themselves for the long rediculous battle ahead.</p>
<p>The types of women who put both fathers and children through this are discusting, pathetic pieces if crap deserving of nothing in my opinion.</p>
<p>Loving Fathers like yourself are the only hope that your children have of enduring life at home with their pathetic, selfish Mother.</p>
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		<title>By: whanga</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-165000</link>
		<dc:creator>whanga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 11:15:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah that de Jong is a shocker.So smug isn't he?
Very influential and "respected".Takes lots of seminars for lawyers teaching them the tricks of the trade.
So what happened in the defended hearings on June 10?
If anyone has any trouble with these protection order things you really do have to get written prmission from the "protected" party to do anything.Merely telling the cops someone said it was OK will never wash.
Like Mr Right and xsryder I am mid 40s and (I thought) intelligent and highly educated.
Yet we have not been able to communicate with ex partners,police and family court lawyers or judges.Almost not at all!Not good is it.
Hopefully someone reading this will learn from our mistakes and enjoy their mid 40s in peace and harmony with their children.
PS I was also thrown down steps by my mother. When I was 10 years old.She was a High School Deputy Principal at the time.
At least you had the support of your mother Mr Right.I have never had the luxury.Direct opposite in fact.
My mother has continuously campaigned in my family for me not to see my kids and wrote to a Family Court Judge alleging (fictitious) drug and alcohol abuse etc.
She encouraged my ex to change my childrens' surnames and is basically a shrew.Never done anything to hurt or harm her either.Isn't life great!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah that de Jong is a shocker.So smug isn&#8217;t he?<br />
Very influential and &#8220;respected&#8221;.Takes lots of seminars for lawyers teaching them the tricks of the trade.<br />
So what happened in the defended hearings on June 10?<br />
If anyone has any trouble with these protection order things you really do have to get written prmission from the &#8220;protected&#8221; party to do anything.Merely telling the cops someone said it was OK will never wash.<br />
Like Mr Right and xsryder I am mid 40s and (I thought) intelligent and highly educated.<br />
Yet we have not been able to communicate with ex partners,police and family court lawyers or judges.Almost not at all!Not good is it.<br />
Hopefully someone reading this will learn from our mistakes and enjoy their mid 40s in peace and harmony with their children.<br />
PS I was also thrown down steps by my mother. When I was 10 years old.She was a High School Deputy Principal at the time.<br />
At least you had the support of your mother Mr Right.I have never had the luxury.Direct opposite in fact.<br />
My mother has continuously campaigned in my family for me not to see my kids and wrote to a Family Court Judge alleging (fictitious) drug and alcohol abuse etc.<br />
She encouraged my ex to change my childrens&#8217; surnames and is basically a shrew.Never done anything to hurt or harm her either.Isn&#8217;t life great!!</p>
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		<title>By: xsryder</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-164995</link>
		<dc:creator>xsryder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 09:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mr Right,
Unfortunately I wasn't online when you first posted your comment, but I would like to comment now.
Firstly, like you, I have never hit anyone in anger in my entire life, however, I was a victim of severe violence from my mother and father during my childhood, culminating in being thrown down a flight of stairs by my mother, which the police to this day refuse to investigate, despite having two witnesses. I am a gentle and inteligent 46 year old man, who achieved an A+ average at university, and completely changed my life in order to be the primary caregiver of my only child when his mother threatened to abort him. 
I was his primary caregiver and primary emotional bond right up to the day when his mother left me for another man, and made a false complaint to the police and went on the DPB. The problem I had was convincing the Family Court of my role in my son's life. The Judge's completely disbelieved anything I said, and the mother's two lawyers, who are the lowest form of scum living on this planet, behaved unethically to an extreme level. One of them, who will be familiar to you (Lex De Jong), was a blatant liar in my case, but even worse, he became a Family Court Judge soon after a complaint was made that he was intoxicated while discussing a Family Court case in a local night club. Somehow, by De Jong behaving unethically and lying in court, his career as a Family Court Judge was gaurenteed.
On reflection, I don't believe for one second that my fight for reasonable contact with my son and only child was ever against the mother, but rather against the system that disbeleived anything I said and put me, a decent honest gentle father, in the same catagory as a convicted murderer. Not any time throughout my three year FC tour of duty did my son's interests come before his mother's, giving rise to my opinion that the Family Court should be called the Mother Court. The Judges didn't give a shit about my son or me, and consistantly pandered to the mother's every wish.
If you like, you can contact me off-line to compare notes. In particular, De Jong should never have become a Judge...I still have nightmares about his demented smiles on the day that he lied to the Judge about me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mr Right,<br />
Unfortunately I wasn&#8217;t online when you first posted your comment, but I would like to comment now.<br />
Firstly, like you, I have never hit anyone in anger in my entire life, however, I was a victim of severe violence from my mother and father during my childhood, culminating in being thrown down a flight of stairs by my mother, which the police to this day refuse to investigate, despite having two witnesses. I am a gentle and inteligent 46 year old man, who achieved an A+ average at university, and completely changed my life in order to be the primary caregiver of my only child when his mother threatened to abort him.<br />
I was his primary caregiver and primary emotional bond right up to the day when his mother left me for another man, and made a false complaint to the police and went on the DPB. The problem I had was convincing the Family Court of my role in my son&#8217;s life. The Judge&#8217;s completely disbelieved anything I said, and the mother&#8217;s two lawyers, who are the lowest form of scum living on this planet, behaved unethically to an extreme level. One of them, who will be familiar to you (Lex De Jong), was a blatant liar in my case, but even worse, he became a Family Court Judge soon after a complaint was made that he was intoxicated while discussing a Family Court case in a local night club. Somehow, by De Jong behaving unethically and lying in court, his career as a Family Court Judge was gaurenteed.<br />
On reflection, I don&#8217;t believe for one second that my fight for reasonable contact with my son and only child was ever against the mother, but rather against the system that disbeleived anything I said and put me, a decent honest gentle father, in the same catagory as a convicted murderer. Not any time throughout my three year FC tour of duty did my son&#8217;s interests come before his mother&#8217;s, giving rise to my opinion that the Family Court should be called the Mother Court. The Judges didn&#8217;t give a shit about my son or me, and consistantly pandered to the mother&#8217;s every wish.<br />
If you like, you can contact me off-line to compare notes. In particular, De Jong should never have become a Judge&#8230;I still have nightmares about his demented smiles on the day that he lied to the Judge about me.</p>
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		<title>By: lorna davis</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-149840</link>
		<dc:creator>lorna davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi there,
i have stumbled upon this page,i dont really know what i was looking for my husband and i have been through the ringer in terms of the family courts and the nasty ex he has 2 children and we have been in and out of the courts for nearly 4yrs,your story just rings so true,we have his children every fortnight and half the holidays now the mother wants to take that from us,and she will most likely get it why?because she is the mother and has the childrens best interests at heart,my husband and i will just end up with the hefty bill,while she uses her legal aid appointed lawyer,anyway i just wanted to say thanks i thought i was going madd!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi there,<br />
i have stumbled upon this page,i dont really know what i was looking for my husband and i have been through the ringer in terms of the family courts and the nasty ex he has 2 children and we have been in and out of the courts for nearly 4yrs,your story just rings so true,we have his children every fortnight and half the holidays now the mother wants to take that from us,and she will most likely get it why?because she is the mother and has the childrens best interests at heart,my husband and i will just end up with the hefty bill,while she uses her legal aid appointed lawyer,anyway i just wanted to say thanks i thought i was going madd!</p>
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		<title>By: whanga</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2008/jail-for-texting/#comment-149001</link>
		<dc:creator>whanga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 04:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been through all you have and ten times more.I am now forced to live outside New Zealand.If you see my previous posts you wil see why.I am a lawyer and I am owed about $60,000 by the IRD in uncollected Child Support payments.I am allowed no contact whatsoever with my 3 children.Their mother has lied again and again to the Family Court and the IRD with total impunity.
I have spent several nights in custody for alleged breaches of a ridiculous protection order which was obtained through lies while I was overseas.I have never been convicted of any offence.
I strongly suggest that if you want to move on and make everything you can of the rest of your life you learn about unconditional love.Stop any kind of bad feeling towards your ex wife.Thank her for the good times you had together.Wish her well for her future.Stop abusing people.They are not going to change and they have their own agendas.Give up on trying to have contact with your child.Move on before it does your head in.I did so just in time and an enormous amount of clarity and sense of well being replaced anger,frustration and despair.
The NZ Family Court system and the Police will never ever treat you fairly no matter how much you rant and rave.Accept that and move on.For everyone`s sake</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been through all you have and ten times more.I am now forced to live outside New Zealand.If you see my previous posts you wil see why.I am a lawyer and I am owed about $60,000 by the IRD in uncollected Child Support payments.I am allowed no contact whatsoever with my 3 children.Their mother has lied again and again to the Family Court and the IRD with total impunity.<br />
I have spent several nights in custody for alleged breaches of a ridiculous protection order which was obtained through lies while I was overseas.I have never been convicted of any offence.<br />
I strongly suggest that if you want to move on and make everything you can of the rest of your life you learn about unconditional love.Stop any kind of bad feeling towards your ex wife.Thank her for the good times you had together.Wish her well for her future.Stop abusing people.They are not going to change and they have their own agendas.Give up on trying to have contact with your child.Move on before it does your head in.I did so just in time and an enormous amount of clarity and sense of well being replaced anger,frustration and despair.<br />
The NZ Family Court system and the Police will never ever treat you fairly no matter how much you rant and rave.Accept that and move on.For everyone`s sake</p>
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