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	<title>Comments on: $1.5b owed in child support</title>
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		<title>By: Jim Bailey</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-284018</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim Bailey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zaahk,

Are all who think differently to you screwed in the head?

I have DEMOnstrated, by Email, letter, Megaphone, select committee, against ALL that I see that damages good old fashioned Mum, Dad and the Kids now some 14 years. 

My picture may be obscured by the traumas that have come apon my Son and I because my Sons Mother chose that we were not to be together while pregnant with him some 14 years ago. She trafficked my Son to gain an income most of that time until he was mature enough to demand he come live with me full time resently. 

NZ FAMILY Law, Social Policy, its purveyors and her religious mates supported her in that trafficking and made things difficult for my Son and I all those years.


However much has been learnt durring that time and I hope I am able to pass that learning on to a few.

I also wish to learn from you and others.

I find it hard to ear what others are saying if they use language that is tooo obscure and deny my experience.

Especially my experience gained as a DAD and Grand DAD limited by the damage done to my health by the Injustices discovered that has left me disabled but well able to FATHER, Grand FATHER and Men-TOR others who bother to listen to those experiences.

The choice is yours to listen a little, TELL a little, find and join with others of like mind as they learn.

I hope you will share your passion in a way that I can hear over many face to face conversations in my beloved Ration Shed in Beach Haven some times.

Contact details are easily found by clicking Jim Bailey above by the Photo taken years ago when gaining the 10,000+ signatures as 5/6 of us worked sometimes dailey outside Auckland City FAMILY Caught and toured the North Island.

Onward - Jim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zaahk,</p>
<p>Are all who think differently to you screwed in the head?</p>
<p>I have DEMOnstrated, by Email, letter, Megaphone, select committee, against ALL that I see that damages good old fashioned Mum, Dad and the Kids now some 14 years. </p>
<p>My picture may be obscured by the traumas that have come apon my Son and I because my Sons Mother chose that we were not to be together while pregnant with him some 14 years ago. She trafficked my Son to gain an income most of that time until he was mature enough to demand he come live with me full time resently. </p>
<p>NZ FAMILY Law, Social Policy, its purveyors and her religious mates supported her in that trafficking and made things difficult for my Son and I all those years.</p>
<p>However much has been learnt durring that time and I hope I am able to pass that learning on to a few.</p>
<p>I also wish to learn from you and others.</p>
<p>I find it hard to ear what others are saying if they use language that is tooo obscure and deny my experience.</p>
<p>Especially my experience gained as a DAD and Grand DAD limited by the damage done to my health by the Injustices discovered that has left me disabled but well able to FATHER, Grand FATHER and Men-TOR others who bother to listen to those experiences.</p>
<p>The choice is yours to listen a little, TELL a little, find and join with others of like mind as they learn.</p>
<p>I hope you will share your passion in a way that I can hear over many face to face conversations in my beloved Ration Shed in Beach Haven some times.</p>
<p>Contact details are easily found by clicking Jim Bailey above by the Photo taken years ago when gaining the 10,000+ signatures as 5/6 of us worked sometimes dailey outside Auckland City FAMILY Caught and toured the North Island.</p>
<p>Onward &#8211; Jim</p>
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		<title>By: Bump Twice for Effect &#124; MND: Your Daily Dose of Counter-Theory</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283976</link>
		<dc:creator>Bump Twice for Effect &#124; MND: Your Daily Dose of Counter-Theory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 10:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Fearless Frank</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283949</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearless Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have posted comments on this site. Why does that make me &#039;unreasonable&#039;?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have posted comments on this site. Why does that make me &#8216;unreasonable&#8217;?</p>
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		<title>By: Fearless Frank</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283948</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearless Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also, now you assume I&#039;ve never been &quot;raped, or assaulted, or brought up with fundamentalist christian values, or grow up as a child whose father didn’t pay child support&quot;
How are you able to assess that I don&#039;t meet any - or all - of these experiences?
You clearly have hurts and wounds; or at least you seem to imply that youy do. I&#039;m not sure why you are taking it out, amongst others, on me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, now you assume I&#8217;ve never been &#8220;raped, or assaulted, or brought up with fundamentalist christian values, or grow up as a child whose father didn’t pay child support&#8221;<br />
How are you able to assess that I don&#8217;t meet any &#8211; or all &#8211; of these experiences?<br />
You clearly have hurts and wounds; or at least you seem to imply that youy do. I&#8217;m not sure why you are taking it out, amongst others, on me?</p>
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		<title>By: Fearless Frank</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283947</link>
		<dc:creator>Fearless Frank</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its just that you said &quot;You are all screwed in the head. Seriously.&quot;.  So I was wondering why you&#039;re being personally abusive by telling me that I&#039;m screwed in the head.
Given we&#039;ve never (as far as i know) met, that&#039;s a fantastic psychiatric assessment to make ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its just that you said &#8220;You are all screwed in the head. Seriously.&#8221;.  So I was wondering why you&#8217;re being personally abusive by telling me that I&#8217;m screwed in the head.<br />
Given we&#8217;ve never (as far as i know) met, that&#8217;s a fantastic psychiatric assessment to make &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: SicKofNZ</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283945</link>
		<dc:creator>SicKofNZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:46:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;here’s an idea – don’t be a misogynistic prick towards your wife, don’t “trivially assault” your children (or your wife), fulfill your wife’s needs in bed (yes, she does have needs), and spend time with your children. This is the solution to the “problem” of divorce&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I was the primary caregiver of my three children since their births.&lt;strong&gt; I divorced my ex-wife&lt;/strong&gt; after her attempts to kill our children. 
Your advice to solve the &quot;problem&quot; of divorce is flawed.
DV equality would have spared my children from years of maternal abuse.     
&lt;blockquote&gt;You are all screwed in the head. Seriously.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Your statement tells me more about your similarities to my ex-wife than much else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>here’s an idea – don’t be a misogynistic prick towards your wife, don’t “trivially assault” your children (or your wife), fulfill your wife’s needs in bed (yes, she does have needs), and spend time with your children. This is the solution to the “problem” of divorce</p></blockquote>
<p>I was the primary caregiver of my three children since their births.<strong> I divorced my ex-wife</strong> after her attempts to kill our children.<br />
Your advice to solve the &#8220;problem&#8221; of divorce is flawed.<br />
DV equality would have spared my children from years of maternal abuse.     </p>
<blockquote><p>You are all screwed in the head. Seriously.</p></blockquote>
<p>Your statement tells me more about your similarities to my ex-wife than much else.</p>
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		<title>By: rc</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283944</link>
		<dc:creator>rc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>zaahk, 

If you don&#039;t want to look like a troll, why go out of your way to appear like one? The shaming language kicks in within the first few sentences, and it follows the same, tired old script. It&#039;s almost Soviet in its predictability. If you&#039;re looking for some kind of social engagement, you&#039;d do better on a dating site. If you really want a rise specifically out of us, at least try to be original. It&#039;s just no fun when one partner doesn&#039;t make an effort.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>zaahk, </p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t want to look like a troll, why go out of your way to appear like one? The shaming language kicks in within the first few sentences, and it follows the same, tired old script. It&#8217;s almost Soviet in its predictability. If you&#8217;re looking for some kind of social engagement, you&#8217;d do better on a dating site. If you really want a rise specifically out of us, at least try to be original. It&#8217;s just no fun when one partner doesn&#8217;t make an effort.</p>
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		<title>By: zaahk</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283939</link>
		<dc:creator>zaahk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry that denying your myopic conception of reality has made you feel abused. Genuinely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry that denying your myopic conception of reality has made you feel abused. Genuinely.</p>
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		<title>By: zaahk</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283938</link>
		<dc:creator>zaahk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 06:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Frequent Flyer Services.

I&#039;m sorry if you al feel abused, but seriously, wake up to the reality of the situation, and instead of blaming everyone else (women, &#039;feminists&#039;, &#039;the system&#039;) realize that you are causally responsible for all that which you moan about here.

And, I assume its the unreasonable &lt;50% of the people on this site that have posted all the comments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Frequent Flyer Services.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry if you al feel abused, but seriously, wake up to the reality of the situation, and instead of blaming everyone else (women, &#8216;feminists&#8217;, &#8216;the system&#8217;) realize that you are causally responsible for all that which you moan about here.</p>
<p>And, I assume its the unreasonable &lt;50% of the people on this site that have posted all the comments.</p>
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		<title>By: John Brett</title>
		<link>http://menz.org.nz/2009/1-5b-owed-in-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-283937</link>
		<dc:creator>John Brett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have not expressed any views for you to disagree with.
Your first contribution is ABUSIVE- to most people on this group.
If you can&#039;t see that- it&#039;s probably the reason for your presumably miserable life.
John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have not expressed any views for you to disagree with.<br />
Your first contribution is ABUSIVE- to most people on this group.<br />
If you can&#8217;t see that- it&#8217;s probably the reason for your presumably miserable life.<br />
John</p>
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