This topic is not discussed sufficiently. Although men are sometimes derided, for getting women into the situation where an abortion may be “needed”, men may experience strong feelings of loss and hurt. If these are not understood, they may come back as psychological problems….
This difficult topic is well covered, in my opinion, on Life Trust website. This website covers many contentious topics, very well.
How Abortion Affects American Men
The Life Trust website also links back to the original paper, on which it is based. This paper is quite long, but if this issue resonates inside you, I suggest to work through it slowly.
We need to be aware of this issue, in supporting men through separations, as there is quite often buried hurt in this area. Remember that about 1/3 of pregnancies are aborted in NZ, even some within marriage.
Lots of love,
MurrayBacon – deranged axe murderer.