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Mon 14th July 2014

Domestic Psychological Abuse

Filed under: General — ashish @ 4:17 pm

Nice post by an ACT candidate. Not sure if she’ll get enough percentage to enter parliament, but should be interesting to see what her response to my question is:


Excellent family-oriented approach for tackling domestic violence. What are your views on the domestic psychological abuse carried out against the males? Society still has not come to a point where a male can confidently come out and talk about this abuse without being looked down by other males and discarded as rubbish by liberal feminist groups.


5 Responses to “Domestic Psychological Abuse”

  1. Depleted says:

    You are looking FOR some psychological abuse? … ah, … then let us refer you TO the family court then … ;)

  2. Pete says:

    We as mothers, aunties, and sisters need to educate our boys about how to treat women, and educate our girls about how they should be treated.

    What is so excellent about this sexist rubish?

  3. The man in Absentia says:

    Examples of psychological abuse.

    Shame: When a women slaps a man in the face in a public place, especially in front of friends and family.
    Shame: When a women uses the threat of a child sexual abuse allegation to gain power and control.
    Shame: When a women belittles the performance of the man, publicly.
    Shame: When control/abuse of money by the women is used to create sense of failure.
    Shame: Use of the male(media stereotype), your stupid is normalised in the relationship.
    Shame: When a partner orders the man to do something(degrading social status), publicly

    Guilt, fear, destitution, degradation, entrapment, etc,etc

    All these versions of Domestic Violence have powerful/damaging resultants. The Domestic Violence responses that are physical, in the profound majority of cases have these hidden precursors. The legal system ignores these things, because it analyses effects not the causes. Physical violence offenders profoundly cannot communicate the process that led them to striking out.
    This is where the sense of injustice can develop from. Inherently the offender offends, due to the complete lack of emotional intelligence, including the ability of the court system to recognise it, and treat it. Offence or illness?

    Thanks Minister of Education.
    Thanks Minister of Social Development

  4. Phil Watts says:

    via Hoefledorf:

    Also, the owners of the country do this…
    They create false enemies…
    They stimulate conflicts…
    To keep us busy…
    Republicans against democrats…[Labour against National instead of the person]
    Blacks against whites…
    Natives against illegal aliens..
    The rich against people who need free healthcare…
    That way we have so many useless things to talk about and we don’t have time to take care of the real issues, to go against to the real enemies…[the govt, cops and Judges]

  5. Phil Watts says:

    and of course females against males.

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