ONE WOMAN CALLS IT OUT.
@reealvybes Men are tired. #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth #relationshiptruths #menmentalhealthmatters
The presenter’s speech will leave you in no doubt what is going on.
It is truly violent to disrespect a man, compromise his wellbeing just so you can take his children and wealth.
It is typical. It is not the future. It has been going on for decades.
The knock on here is women are desperately seeking a man to settle down with. A man who already has property, who is financially stable, has a career and is ready for commitment. Try as they might, women can’t seem to get men to commit to an everlasting relationship.
Because men know everlasting is something beyond 3 years and one week.
It’s the biggest scam in town. Keep your guard up men. She doesn’t love you. She loves what you can provide and finally take from you.
She makes a good argument, how are the abused men responding.
I saw some figures on men, large numbers are intentionally single.
Many don’t even bother trying, they have never had a girlfriend.
Is there many men with one girlfriend, but then never again.
Are they good at economics, and watched the fathers get burnt.
They get indoctrination, taught in schools it’s men that abuse.
Violence is normalised, slapping a man in the face is culture.
They grew up without fathers, even alienated to hate the father.
Since they destroyed wanting to be a father, what use is a girlfriend.
If you do something that hurts a person, you get consequences.
You can begin a cycle of violence, that travels through time.
Men are bad to women, women respond by being bad to men.
So presently we are seeing the response, men are responding.
Rejection of women by men first, or women rejecting men first.
The enabler of the cycle of violence, laws helping predators.
The video talks about, the female who views males as prey.
I wonder where that ends up, in a cycle of violence.
Comment by DJ Ward — Tue 10th June 2025 @ 5:37 pm
She points out playing the victim, when that maybe nonsense.
Because there is real victims, how could you possibly tell if it’s true.
That’s likely human nature, both genders can play the victim card.
Both genders can manipulate emotions, to present themselves well.
Then of course lying by omission, presenting one sided stories.
Exaggerating what happened, even just plain old humans lying.
The question becomes gendered, who plays the victim better.
Judge she was violent to me, vs he was violent to me.
She was refusing to go to work, vs he didn’t want me to work.
She was violent then made me have sex, vs what’s called rape.
See playing the victim is gendered, it’s nearly automatic.
Comment by DJ Ward — Wed 11th June 2025 @ 6:01 pm
The worlds at war, it’s easy to then ignore everything else.
Men being treated like crap, is way down on the list of subjects.
They even report women and children killed, like men don’t count.
Even assassination is normalised, killing men is someone’s good news.
I’m to old for the draft, but you never know what could happen.
Gender may even become irrelevant, in the next war to end all wars.
The world is missing something, no peacemakers are in charge.
As for death tolls, 12 people a week suicide in NZ.
Most of them are men, like a silent war.
It doesn’t matter why they died, they probably deserved it.
Hence no outrage or condemnation, avoiding any self examination.
The video points out causing suicide, the men are victims.
Comment by DJ Ward — Tue 17th June 2025 @ 6:15 pm
Dear DJ Ward,
It seems as though you are still unaware of how to write proper sentences with correct grammar; this is a very unfortunate sight! Is there any particular reason you choose to write every sentence as a poorly written poem, or is that a performative choice? Regardless of this, I have seen progress in how you address the world and women—which is admirable. Though there is still a large amount of progress left to assist you in viewing life through a less-than-narrow lens.
-Kittenlvr
Comment by Kittenlvr54 — Thu 19th June 2025 @ 12:20 pm
There is really no set rules, in how to communicate.
My sentences are not poetry, they are arguments as emotions.
Each half is an emotion, together making a complex emotion.
A set of sentences creates an idea, an argument of its own.
If you look at how humans speak, it is also a string of emotions.
Millions and millions of sentences, exist just like mine.
So as long as things make sense, how to write is irrelevant.
Thanks for your comment Kittenlvr, I am trying to be open minded.
Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 20th June 2025 @ 8:53 am
“Though there is still a large amount of progress left to assist you in viewing life through a less-than-narrow lens.”
I think that’s an unavoidable thing, if you are looking at a subject.
You inherently narrow the argument, to come to a conclusion.
As an example for the post, let’s look at female sex offenders.
Look at how the police behave, regarding sex with under 16 years.
There is a % of who have sex U16, and a % resulting in an arrest.
How many males get arrested, vs how many females get arrested.
Many males get arrested, but very few females get arrested.
That is far from the statistics, of the % having sex U16.
Having sex with U16 boys is normalised, rarely seen as wrong.
The department of IRD, makes these boys pay child support.
It was a crime to have sex with them, if done to a girl it’s a crime.
How offensive is the act, making the rape victim pay the rapist.
See that’s a narrow argument, it certainly gets to a point.
Comment by DJ Ward — Sun 22nd June 2025 @ 4:36 pm
Kittenlvr…
Style over substance?
Comment by Greg Allan — Sun 22nd June 2025 @ 5:39 pm