This message was recently sent to me via the contact form. I will advise Tammy to check the comments her message receives.

Hi

I am writing because I believe this website maybe doing more harm than good. I know the intentions of this website are to help men who have been wronged but I believe you may be helping those that are truly criminals to get away with it.

This website has the ability to help a man who is looking for a way to get away with his wrong doings. I was thinking about thought processes and the reality is that a man who is guilty will be looking for ways to prevent himself from being caught or make himself appear like the innocent one in the situation. An innocent man will most likely be naive to the fact he needs to manipulate the system as in his mind he will be just thinking that it will go to court and he will be found not guilty.

I recently had a friend who’s children have been failed by both the family court and the IRD. Neither parties taking these situations seriously. The father in this situation used the tactics of this website to help him manipulate the system.

This website is open and able to give anyone access on how to get away with it, both the guilty and the not guilty. I’m just putting it to you that statistically a man is more likely to abuse than a women particularly physically and sexually.

This website helps them to use for an example letters to the court saying their ex spouse may put a protection order against them, this helping them with there case if they are actually guilty. I am just wondering how these things are taken into consideration when this site was developed? I have seen wrong doings towards men and towards women by ex spouses, in all of this it is the children who I have seen suffer, some in unimaginable ways. How does this fit with a persons continence?

I’m cutting this shorter than I had intended as I feel a rant is not necessary and want you to understand that what I am writing is not a dig but is from a person who is wanting to be informed as I find I am unable to sit back and watch more children suffer because of Adults.

Thank you for reading and I look forward to your reply

Tammy