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Thu 14th October 2021:

Maybe history doesn’t always repeat itself. But it does at least rhyme. Mark Twain. There came a point in the past where an entitled women gave up her position and accepted a humble life because she realised what the man knew was worth more than what she had. So, where in history has that story […]

Kiss is a Contract

Mon 11th October 2021:

It’s convenient to separate sex from reproduction and this is an argument that blossomed under the Clark Administration, Just a thought but what do you think?

Too Blokey

Sat 9th October 2021:

That’s what they say, sometimes; “I’m too blokey.,” Someone has to do it, right? You can’t have every male-bashed remnant riding off over the horizon on a horse of defeat. FFS – as soon as he get’s that opinion going we better get it under control. I need to be controlled? God forbid … I […]

Lost Men

Some call them ‘Pastors of Muppets’ In small out of the way places men and in some cases women too running small independent church type organisations. This one in particular came to light when the lockdown was announced for Northland otherwise it would likely have escaped the world’s attention.

A Mother’s Story

Fri 8th October 2021:

A mother’s story

The Process of Division

Wed 6th October 2021:

This I thought was interesting. I see there are some fixed beliefs surfacing in many of our current conversations. It’s always good to see other points of view.

NZ Suicide

Mon 4th October 2021:

It is hard to keep up with the politics these days but it’s annual suicide statistics time again and a few more people have died

The Men Only Vote

Sat 2nd October 2021:

Opinion Credit – Australia There is a short space of time between the male suffrage (12 years from memory) and one person one vote. Not to rehash our history – most of us know that bit. There was a long discussion on this site in 2017 and what that might mean if Ardern became New […]

Complaint about Judge going to first hearing

Thu 30th September 2021:

Complaints about NZ court Judges are not rare. Complaints proceeding to a hearing are extremely uncommon. Last season there were 162 complaints. This year, 363 complaints. Statistics show that complaints about the Family Court have doubled. The Judge is entitled to have name suppression. Judicial Conduct Commissioner’s Alan Richie on his said “On my assessment, […]


This is what separates the men from the women and the boys from the men – if you care about your country, you don’t have a choice but to understand and discuss these issues when politics fails to function.  AUKUS is

Mr Peter Joyce describes the process how he managed and got through false sex allegations.

Tue 28th September 2021:

Bettina speaks with New Zealander Peter Joyce, the author of Dry Ice, which documents the seven-month ordeal which followed a false allegation of historical rape. Peter, a retired English teacher, first heard about the allegation when a detective turned up at the door and announced Peter had been accused a rape by a daughter of […]

Update: No response from HRC so I made this video

Sun 19th September 2021:

Previously I posted the open letter to the Human Rights Commission asking them to do more for men, but they have not responded even though I did send them a reminder. So I have started a video series highlighting their human rights violations. Here is part one.

Gender Issues Around Covid

Fri 17th September 2021:

I can understand the reluctance to discuss covid and the need to be careful about how this is discussed. I’ve seen the situation censured twice recently.

Timaru Tragedy – 3 under 10–twin-girls-aged-3-and-sister-of-7–had-recently-arrived-in-new-zealand Link to Article There are likely many Covid-19 tragedies so far untold, with people accepting their position in the belief that their circumstance was unavoidable until we have a unique tragedy that actually makes us all sit up and realistically analyse such questions. It’s not the first time that an event like this has […]

Covid Deaths v Suicide Deaths

Thu 16th September 2021:

It has long been said a photo is worth a thousand words. I attached 2 photos. And as we already know, its 4 males to 1 female. The Government is trying to save lives, right? If you are male, it isn’t you.

Teenage Boys

Fri 10th September 2021:

Interesting research published about teenage boys. Teenage boys more at risk from vaccines than Covid You don’t see very much of that these days, do you?

Father’s Day Lockdown

Sun 5th September 2021:

Have we ever had one of those before? Good or Bad … how’s your day been.

Some advice please – Daughters mobile phone.

Sat 28th August 2021:

Hi folks. I’m separated for almost 3 years. There are two children who spend 5 nights every fortnight with me. their mother and I have a toxic relationship. We are attending FDR and still going through family court. Against my wishes, my daughter was given an iPhone 12 a year ago by her mother, she […]

Lockdown Distress

I see media from Australian sources about the pressure on their helplines with the current Delta outbreak. I assume at this time, especially with the Lockdown extensions announced yesterday we will have a similar situation in New Zealand. If you’ve found this site for some reason what has brought you here? A family court case […]

Hate Speech Law NZ – Coming your way soon.

Thu 26th August 2021:

Three years in prison. Left wondering if we would still be able to openly post on this site should the bill become law. Will I no longer be able to hate the haters of men and boys human rights?

Gangs and Guns

Wed 25th August 2021:

It’s not breaking news that gang numbers are on the rise and organised crime is developing across the country. What are the concerns … ?

Is Feminism a Hate Group?

Mon 23rd August 2021:

This video clip labels feminism as a hate group. It compares white America 60 years ago. Its not about what they feel and think, it’s about what they do. 1. Advocates lesser rights in law for the target group. 2. Propagates discrimination against the target group. 3. Teaches that the target group is inherently inferior. […]

The Future of Families

Thu 19th August 2021:

Near 5000 comments on YouTube on this short video. Just awful outcomes for men and fathers. The careless attitude towards men and fathers is leading to a future that women will find uncertain, isolated, expensive and unrewarding.

Independent Panel’s Final Report on New Zealand Family Justice System Released

Mon 9th August 2021:

The selected committee video found and posted by Erasingdad. – Thank You. Family Justice Final Report PDF I have not had much time to read this, but I do know the terms “without notice application” features 66 times. And that process has been used to stop or limit dads child contact. While there is mention […]

Former Female Police Officer Says up to 75% of Woman Allegations of Domestic Violence are False.

Sun 8th August 2021:

Former frontline Police Officer Evelyn Rae, 12 years of service, tells all in a recent interview with Bettina Arndt. Says 75% of woman allegations of domestic violence are false. Says in all her years can honestly say just 3 legitimate cases of sexual assault, everything else was false allegation or no evidence. Says this is […]

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