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Sun 19th September 2021

Update: No response from HRC so I made this video

Filed under: General — Iain Fergusson @ 1:52 pm

Previously I posted the open letter to the Human Rights Commission asking them to do more for men, but they have not responded even though I did send them a reminder. So I have started a video series highlighting their human rights violations. Here is part one.

Fri 17th September 2021

Gender Issues Around Covid

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 2:29 pm

I can understand the reluctance to discuss covid and the need to be careful about how this is discussed.

I’ve seen the situation censured twice recently.

Timaru Tragedy – 3 under 10

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:59 pm–twin-girls-aged-3-and-sister-of-7–had-recently-arrived-in-new-zealand

Link to Article

There are likely many Covid-19 tragedies so far untold, with people accepting their position in the belief that their circumstance was unavoidable until we have a unique tragedy that actually makes us all sit up and realistically analyse such questions.

It’s not the first time that an event like this has begged an answer.

Thu 16th September 2021

Covid Deaths v Suicide Deaths

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 1:48 am

It has long been said a photo is worth a thousand words. I attached 2 photos.

And as we already know, its 4 males to 1 female.

The Government is trying to save lives, right? If you are male, it isn’t you.

Fri 10th September 2021

Teenage Boys

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:40 pm

Interesting research published about teenage boys.

Teenage boys more at risk from vaccines than Covid

You don’t see very much of that these days, do you?

Sun 5th September 2021

Father’s Day Lockdown

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 4:53 pm

Have we ever had one of those before?

Good or Bad … how’s your day been.

Sat 28th August 2021

Some advice please – Daughters mobile phone.

Filed under: General — lostkiwi @ 10:09 am

Hi folks.

I’m separated for almost 3 years. There are two children who spend 5 nights every fortnight with me. their mother and I have a toxic relationship. We are attending FDR and still going through family court.

Against my wishes, my daughter was given an iPhone 12 a year ago by her mother, she was 12 years old then.

Lockdown Distress

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 8:48 am

I see media from Australian sources about the pressure on their helplines with the current Delta outbreak.

I assume at this time, especially with the Lockdown extensions announced yesterday we will have a similar situation in New Zealand.

If you’ve found this site for some reason what has brought you here?

A family court case disrupted by the lockdown perhaps? Maybe other reasons?

Thu 26th August 2021

Hate Speech Law NZ – Coming your way soon.

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 9:20 am

Three years in prison. Left wondering if we would still be able to openly post on this site should the bill become law.

Will I no longer be able to hate the haters of men and boys human rights?

Wed 25th August 2021

Gangs and Guns

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 10:19 am

It’s not breaking news that gang numbers are on the rise and organised crime is developing across the country.

What are the concerns … ? (more…)

Mon 23rd August 2021

Is Feminism a Hate Group?

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 10:37 am

This video clip labels feminism as a hate group. It compares white America 60 years ago.
Its not about what they feel and think, it’s about what they do.

1. Advocates lesser rights in law for the target group.
2. Propagates discrimination against the target group.
3. Teaches that the target group is inherently inferior.
4. Teaches that the target group is a threat.
5. Use lies including historical revisionism to spread these views.
6. Tolerates violence towards the target group.

If you change the words “Target Group” to men, boys or fathers. The picture becomes easier to see.

1. Advocates lesser rights in law for men, boys or fathers.
2. Propagates discrimination against men, boys or fathers.
3. Teaches that the men, boys or fathers are inherently inferior.
4. Teaches that the men, boys or fathers are a threat.
5. Use lies, including historical revisionism to spread these views.
6. Tolerates violence towards men, boys or fathers.

There are moves to punish hate speech. But in my view it is more than hate speech. It has to be hate actions and hate laws. Discrimination against men, fathers and boys.

Thu 19th August 2021

The Future of Families

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 7:59 pm

Near 5000 comments on YouTube on this short video. Just awful outcomes for men and fathers.

The careless attitude towards men and fathers is leading to a future that women will find uncertain, isolated, expensive and unrewarding.

Mon 9th August 2021

Independent Panel’s Final Report on New Zealand Family Justice System Released

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 9:56 am

The selected committee video found and posted by Erasingdad. – Thank You.

Family Justice Final Report PDF

I have not had much time to read this, but I do know the terms “without notice application” features 66 times. And that process has been used to stop or limit dads child contact.

While there is mention of the length of time, one being over three years, there is no mention of alienation. Which, that along with having an order for dwelling and all the things in it vested into one parent, is the true reason why without notice applications are applied for.

In more simple terms,

1. “the destruction of a dads relationship with his child.”
2. “the kicking out of his home”
3. “the taking away of all the items in that home”

Where do fathers and men go, what are they supposed to do when this happens to them?

According to the Nurit Thesis, this causes male suicide.

Nurit Zubery wrote a thesis on the impacts of men during and after divorce.

Your comments please.

Sun 8th August 2021

Former Female Police Officer Says up to 75% of Woman Allegations of Domestic Violence are False.

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 8:59 pm

Former frontline Police Officer Evelyn Rae, 12 years of service, tells all in a recent interview with Bettina Arndt.

Says 75% of woman allegations of domestic violence are false.

Says in all her years can honestly say just 3 legitimate cases of sexual assault, everything else was false allegation or no evidence. Says this is the hard truth.

Says Police can’t stand the system.

The Brotherhood of Men

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:36 pm

The success of any nation is in the unity of its men, the support of its women, and the morality of its laws.

Without the brotherhood of men, we risk not fulfilling our duty to those significant values that we have learned underpin the ideological basis and success, not only of a sovereign nation but of any global civilisation we might hope for.

We should not (more…)

Fri 6th August 2021

PM Jacinda Adern on Human Rights For All – Except No Mention For Dads, Men & Boys

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 5:26 am

PM on Human Right – Except for Men & Boys

Ever wondered why you lost half your home, and all the items in it to a part-time girlfriend? Perhaps you lost the right to see your children? Maybe a huge weekly payment on top of that. Look no further than the idealogical people who get to decide how much to take away from you.

Maybe it was the Presumption of Guilt link Mr John Potter highlighted here. Presumption of Guilt: Rule of Law Conference 2021

That Jacinda Adern on human rights for all speech did not include or give one iota of a mention towards men or boys.

Mothers protect your son’s wellbeing from this woman who has no intention to make his life safe or better.

In my view the Labour party’s approach to dad and male suicide is educate them before they reach their limit of brutality. Before they are pushed too far. What is wrong with “don’t be brutal to men and dads in the first place.”

I don’t know if the other parties are better for dads and men, but it is clear to me this party is not.

All these things that lead to male suicide are detailed in an open letter to the Humans Rights Commission by Mr Iain Fergusson.

Open letter to the Human Rights Commission

What I would really like to see is an open letter to all the political parties to detail their plan to reduce the brutality on dads, men and boys.

Tue 3rd August 2021

The Dating Game

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 11:57 pm

History dictates that when civilization falls apart older men marry younger women.

We see that in biblical history and in the history of Rome.

In the current age I’ve recently seen adds saying Asian women like older men.

What’s that about?

If you’re currently in the dating game, how’s it going for you?

Mon 2nd August 2021

Faafoi – feedback wanted

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:42 pm

Justice-Minister, Kris Faafoi is in the firing line with parents rights groups over the latest invasion of the family by state legislation.

Family First NZ says that if parents aren’t concerned about the conversion therapy bill introduced by the Government today, all they need to do is listen to the Minister of Justice explain the effect of the bill, and parents will quickly become very fearful.

Sun 1st August 2021

My open letter to the Human Rights Commission

Filed under: General — Iain Fergusson @ 3:38 pm

I’ve written an open letter to the Human Rights Commission asking for them to explicitly protect men’s human rights. It’s rather long. You can read it here:

No response so far.


Sat 31st July 2021

Woman Pours Raw Petrol Over Her Husband – Lights Him Up – Receives Plea Deal

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 11:07 am

News Link Here

Daily Mail Link here

It does not matter if it was a can of petrol or a gun. Angela Surtees executed this man.

The sentence is still not released, but I suspect it will just be time already served.

What I found interesting is 2 links on the first news story to Mens help lines.

One is Mens referral service and the other Mensline. Are we entering a new era?

The Weight of Women

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 10:40 am

In the rise and fall of civilisations, and there have been many over the last 12,000 years, there is a screed of comparable information against which we can judge our current environment.

In the sense of predicament though I think (more…)

Fri 30th July 2021

Who needs a court when Tracy Spicer’s mission was to “Frame Men”

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 4:46 pm

Causes of mental health are not hard to come by. Neither are the perpetrators who cause it.

The following link has PM Jacinda Ardern claiming if there were simple fixes, she would do them.

Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern claiming if there were simple fixes, she would do them

Perhaps anyone reading this could email the PM’s office and ask her for comment.

The Memory Wars – video by Matt Orchard

Filed under: Sex Abuse / CYF — JohnPotter @ 1:12 pm

NZ YouTuber takes a look at the heated debate around the validity of repressed and recovered memories. Includes rare footage of training videos teaching therapists to uncover Satanic cult abuse.

Wed 28th July 2021

14 Men talk about the devastation of divorce

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 4:51 am

There is a misconception women are more heartbroken after divorce than men. The truth is the complete opposite.

Quote 10
“Emotionally, it was horrible. I lost not only my wife, I lost my lover, my best friend, my teammate, and my ‘family.’ To me, divorce just was never an option, until it happened. I felt lost. I had lost the one person who I felt I was allowed to confide in.”

Tue 20th July 2021

Father Jailed for 2 Years for Texting Son

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 11:46 am

Father Jailed for 2 Years for Texting Son – Link

Kavanach NZHC 1747

Robert aged 55 said to his son. “The problems we have, and the trouble you are causing, will take its toll on you and the family … you are only making things worse.” (more…)

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