I was in Russia last year and met a lady, Natasha, in small town 400km north of Moscow. When she knew I was from NZ she was excited and wanted to talk to me about her life time hero, John Walker. Over the last year I have built up a good relationship with her and met some of her Russian friends here. If you are single, intelligent and want a real lady in your life you have better odds of success with a Russian one.

Below is a letter I received from Natasha that gives a good insight into the mind of a 37yr old Russian Woman.

……..I could never understand feminism. Sometimes I laugh at these crazy women, sometimes I pity these poor unhappy women who maybe just were not destinied to meet real men?? And I don’t have any familiar feminists to talk in person to and find out what makes a woman try so unnatural role and function?? For me personally, a feminist is a kind of monster who pretends to be man and woman at once, but instead she looses all her feminity, charm and attraction and at the same time she fails in getting qualities of a true man. She becomes a type of scary hybrid:-) Total failure:-(

I always thought that it’s no need for a real woman to struggle for leadership with a man.Of course, if she is a real woman:-) Let them rule, I don’t care:-) I am talking here about intimate relationships between a man and a woman. I also always thought that a woman demonstrates her complete helplesness and failure as a woman, if she has to demand something from man directly- why don’t you love me? why don’t you pay enough attention to me? etc These blames mean that it’s only a woman fault and failure because she didn’t work hard enough on her relationship and didn’t MAKE a man love and pay attention to her. It’s her evident failure as a woman, no man’s fault at all. Each normal woman has her secret excellence over man and is always able to make a man act the way she wants indirectly in a very kind and respecting way, without insulting a man’s ego or struggling with him. A man practically has no chance “to win” such a woman:-) So…think it over carefully. A traditional woman is even more dangerous for a man acting indirectly but more successful compared to shouting martial feminists:-) Once again, it refers only to close relations, but not to business and political fields. I guess feminists insist on being equal with men in all fields of political and social activities as well, da?

It’s very important to remember that a male is always a leader, he was created this way. He is more aggressive (in good meaning) and initiator by nature. It’s crazy to force intentionally a man not to be a leader and decrease his self-confidence vitally important for woman! Man has always to be a decision maker and have responsibility for his woman, his brains are created this way. A woman should trust his brains if she is not stupid.

I will make the only weak attempt to protect western feminists:-) Maybe they started their crazy feminist movement being in a desperate situation after they faced many western infantile men in their life? Maybe many men face feminists with great joy as redemption??:-) Because feminists would set them free of responsibility to be heads in relationships, families, necessaty to make decisions? Maybe many men would feel more comfortable if women take complete care of them? But I have to admit that this supposition is perhaps a total nonsense:-)

Speaking of Russian men, the situation is rather sad here:-( It can be explained by our recent history when communists ruled and when the most active, noble, brave and stirring men were killed, shot and died in Stalin’s concentration camps. It’s a scientific fact that such post-traume syndroms don’t disappear. They remain in souls and minds of next generations. So we have many infantile men with many fears on subconscious level. Besides, the current poor economical situation doesn’t add confidence to our men:-( The state deprives many men from having opportunity to earn decent money to provide their families. So many men are weak and not confident. But mainly it’s not their direct fault, the time of repentance of doing crazy things to it’s nation is ahead for my country:-(All Russian women are supposed to be feminists in such conditions:-)) But even being under such hard curcumstances, most Russian ladies keep valuing traditional family values. They do their best in keeping in men their confidence and qualities of leaders. I have the only question to ask though…. history of western countries doesn’t know wars, repressions or totalitarian regimes that would influence on men negatively and ruin or corrupt real man’s qualities as it was in Russia. Why are the western women that crazy that become like total regime and try to do that to their men in prosperous society with their own hands and stupid feminist movements??!

All the best to you and yours.

Take care,

Natasha