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IT’S Official

Filed under: General — dpex @ 8:51 pm Thu 25th May 2006

We’re now on court records, team. Judge Mathers came out with his decision today (can’t mention the content just yet) but in it was references to my and your mails to this site.

Anyone in the mood to get stuck into Lizzie-My-Diet-Isn’t-Working, can do so to her boss. You might like to mention that you are somewhat surprised that Lizzie MDIW is here on a temp work permit, ruining the lives of NZ children.

Isn’t that just such a great set-up? I vaguely remember some viscious Yank psycho-mess who spent a whole lot of time trying to ruin the lives of a mother/sister/son play-centre in San Diego, then came to NZ on a temp permit to help put Peter Ellis away.

Her boss is at Waitakere is…..

[email protected]

And if you’re in a mood to say a few choice words to Sandra’s boss, then go here… [email protected]

Don’t get too comfortable Lizzie. You may have got the ticket but the money ain’t delivered yet.

Anyway, our concerns and fears are now in official court records. At least 43 pages of them are there now. That has to be a good start.

However, I thought you might all enjoy the following.

The first is Paul Bakers reply to my email; followed by my email.

Paul Baker is the Rector of Waitaki Boy’s High School.

I invite you to visit the Waitaki Boy’s site. Most illuminating, especially Paul Baker’s words.


From Paul Baker

Hi David

Many thanks for your thoughtful and insightful e-mail. I concur with your sentiments entirely. The pendulum has swung much too far. There are plenty of people who think as you do. It’s time to start making some real noise about it!

Thanks again, and kind regards

Paul Baker

—–Original Message—–
From: DavidP [mailto:[email protected]]
Sent: Saturday, 20 May 2006 7:21 a.m.
To: Paul Baker
Subject: Boys & Men

Dear Sir,

Having read the NZ Herald article (20/05/06) I was prompted to visit your school’s web site. What I have read is, to say the least, heartening.

The feminist movement is so blinded by its own mantras that it will never see the damage it has and is causing wider society until the day the group of brutish, angry, under-educated young men you describe slowly maturing under the surface of apparent calm, surface.

Even today we are witnessing an ever-growing culture of male violence, a culture being nurtured by male fear of inadequacy and inequality. This culture of violence can only grow unless men and manhood are returned to equal status in a society now dominated by women.

There are few more pointed examples of male emasculation than the Family Court and the process which drives this bizarre environment Within this environment the starting point of consideration of men is; all men are potential rapists and/or paedophiles, they are inherently violent (physically, emotionally, financially) and automatically constitute a danger to children.

If the sisterhood which drives this court can’t plant demonstrable negativity on the shoulders of a respondent male parent they resort to recently discovered male psycho-profiles. For example: in one recent Family Court hearing a social worker informed the judge that during their investigations they put Mr X under extreme pressure. “….but at no time did we observe Mr X losing his temper. Therefore it became clear to us that Mr X is actually a passive-aggressive abuser.” The judge accepted this amazing drivel!

Within the legal system a woman can now call the police, assert that her partner is, or may become violent toward her, on account of she’s had enough of that relationship and her new boyfriend wants to move in. The police have the power (and they frequently exercise it) to issue a protection order against the ‘offending-or-about-to-offend’ male, remove him from his home and family, and imprison him should he have the gall to re-enter his own home.

Recently, a friend of mine returned home to be met at his own door by the new boyfriend waving a trespass notice against my friend. My friend treated the notice with the derision it should have been rightfully treated, entered his own home, and within an hour was languishing in the local police cells.

Of course all of the children of all of the families affected by this bizarre process of male-bashing have learned that males are bad and that females have all of the power. These children talk with their friends who in turn learn the message. And so it is spreading.

There are now over 300,000 New Zealand children living in single-parent households in which the custodial parents (96.8% female) have reduced male-parent contact with the children to anywhere from once-per fortnight, to never. These female custodians of our national future have done so with the avid help of feminists who assert that after becoming a sperm donor, and then provider of regular cash maintenance, men are largely a waste of space.

Last Saturday I attended my grand-daughter’s football match. Of the ten teams either playing or awaiting their games, six were boys teams. To my utter horror and amazement the coaches of all but one of these boys’ teams was a female! Happily, the coach of my girls’ team is a Maori male who is fond of asserting he doesn’t give a fig for political correctness and that it would be a brave or very stupid person who accused him of impropriety with any of his team members.

I can’t help but think that Coach Eric is a dying breed.

You are quite right in your observations. The feminist movement has gone completely overboard and our society is going to pay an increasingly high social price as under-educated male youth discover they cannot compete with tongue and wit with their female counterparts, and will then resort to their only remaining dominance…physical violence.

It is people such as yourself who, by speaking out, can make a difference.

Lastly, I am somewhat surprised the feminazi haven’t attacked your school because of clear gender bias in your faculty. Keep up the good work, Mr Baker. You have much support from a growing mass of men who have had enough of being marginalised.

Kind regards

David Peppiatt.


  1. Did he read any of my posts? Have we got an address I can send hid come link references to? Maybe that one I did about sentencing for real sexual abuse as opposed to imagined potential sexual abuse would be a good start …

    Comment by Al D Rado — Thu 25th May 2006 @ 9:01 pm

  2. P.s. – I came across this in my local paper … Two schools to help region’s gifted kids

    Comment by Al D Rado — Thu 25th May 2006 @ 9:06 pm

  3. Try again … Two schools to help region’s gifted kids

    Comment by Al D Rado — Thu 25th May 2006 @ 9:08 pm

  4. Dave,

    Thanks for the CFY’s worker E-Mail address. Can you tell me which office she works out of?

    I have added her to the HandsOnEqualParent Address-BOOK and thus she will join those Anti-Biological-FAMILY-Cretians that get BOTHERED by E-mail

    Anybody is welcome to send me addresss for the sole purpose of BOTHERING the conscience of those who have BOTHERED them, FAMILY wise.

    This Address-BOOK started out its life in late 1995 as the FFDB? / Father Friendly Data-Base?

    The ? stands for the many who are Anti-FAMILY

    It now contains many who support the drive to rebuild the Biological-FAMILY from around the world.

    It contains many Media, and MP’s, as well.

    The mail received is not spam as anybody who is in the HandsOnEquaParent Address-BOOK can opt out thru PLAXO (Go Google)

    Send your address details to keep informed and address details of those who need BOTHERING to [email protected]

    Onward – Jim

    Comment by Jim Bailey — Fri 26th May 2006 @ 1:23 am

  5. Jim,
    That’s a very clever move.

    Very bad move.

    Comment by julie — Sat 27th May 2006 @ 4:40 pm

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