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Women do rape men

Filed under: General — Julie @ 8:43 pm Sat 31st January 2009

A woman has been arrested for raping a man in Colorado, United States.

The alleged victim told police he believed he was drugged while he was hanging out and having beers with McCarl at his home.

He told police at about 10 p.m., he was feeling “funny different” and his stomach hurt.

He passed out but woke up in pain about 30 minutes later, according to the police report. Throughout the night, he woke up off and on, and remembered McCarl “molesting” him but he could not move, and kept passing out, he told police.

“He remembered Janice telling him, ‘It’s OK, it’s OK. Go back to sleep. Go back to sleep,'” according to the police report.

He said he woke up the next morning to find McCarl sleeping next to him — her shirt covered in blood and lotion, and a bottle of Lubriderm on a nearby table.

He noted the woman’s blood on her shirt and she brushed it off. They had coffeee together and then she left. The victim told police he confronted McCarl two days later because the pieces of what happened “were coming together in his head” and it was making him “crazy.”

He said “she admitted that she drugged him but would not tell him what she used. She also admitted to molesting him. She apologized to him and he told her that was mean, nasty and disgusting,” according to the police report.

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Sadly, I doubt she will receive the same sentence as a man who rapes a female.

On another note about rape ….

Almost a fifth of South African men have raped a woman at least once in their lives, the South African Medical Research Council (MRC) has disclosed in releasing its annual report.
The MRC’s Gender and Health Research Unit interviewed 1 370 men between the ages of 15 and 26 about sexual violence towards women.

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This problem receives international coverage and support yet what we don’t hear about is the women who are raping the men.

“Women on the rampage raping men” was at first dismissed by police as township rumour. But police soon confirmed it to be true.

One alleged victim was treated for a bruised penis at a local hospital after three women allegedly forced him to have sex with them.

A 30-year-old woman was arrested for allegedly having lured a young man into an area of veld and then forced herself on him while her friend stood guard.

The woman and a friend are alleged to have lured a 21-year-old job-seeker away from a brick company by pretending they were also looking for work. They walked with the man across an area of open veld and then pounced on him.

“They threatened him, forced him to take off his pants, and then rubbed lotion on his penis to get an erection. The other woman kept watch while the arrested woman had sex with the man,” police said.

No one has been arrested in connection with the first incident, but police confirmed that a 24-year-old man from Tembisa was abducted at gunpoint by three women travelling in a white BMW and kept for three days against his will.

Inspector Manyadza Ralidzhivha said the victim reported to the police after he was dumped in the township after having being used by the women.

“He reported that the women, who were older than him, made him drink some liquids and then took turns having sex with him.

“They did not talk too much, but had sex with him as he lay face-up on the bed in a house.”

The young man told police that the women picked him up near Tembisa, saying they would give him a lift to Kempton Park.

They then forced him at gunpoint to kneel face-down on the back seat of the car. He was prevented from looking up and was only allowed to look about him when he was inside the house.

Talk of syndicates of women “raping” men around Tembisa have been circulating in the area for the past year. One resident interviewed said men were afraid to walk in open veld alone or at night.



  1. A woman, Briar Dravitski charged with unlawful sexual connection of a 15 year old boy received 240 hours community work – then didn’t complete it!

    Comment by Alastair — Sat 31st January 2009 @ 9:35 pm

  2. Countless men worldwide over the last few decades have been forced under threat of imprisonment to pay child tax despite the fact that they’ve been abused by ex-wives who falsely accuse them in order to keep the kids. Any visitation they have had with their kids has been blocked with impunity by such women too.
    It stands to reason then that these men have had their money garnished by vindictive exes aided and abetted by the feminist divorce industry. That money was earned through their physical toil. Therefore they have had their bodies used under threat of imprisonment against their will.
    You can thus as i have make the case that countless men worldwide have been raped, for ultimately that is what rape is – the use of someones body against their will.
    We have long ago sensibly outlawed rape against women.
    I wait still as I have waited for several decades now since I became aware of this for this kind of rape of men to be outlawed too.
    Given that it occurs in the secretive cult of our ‘family’ ‘courts’ where public accountability and due process for fathers does not exist.
    I therefore expect many more men to be raped.

    Comment by Skeptik — Sun 1st February 2009 @ 2:07 am

  3. it just doesnt happen that a man can be raped. the moment a man set their eyes on a woman who is trying to express their feelings, hoops a man is hooked like a fish is attracted to a worm. do you call this rape? be honest with yourself. why is it that a woman is not lured into sex so easily as a man? the difference occurs only in our biological setup but sex begins with the prepartion of the mind. otherwise men would have been sleeping with any lady they bump into or rub shoulders with.

    Comment by bleble — Wed 18th February 2009 @ 7:45 am

  4. The women who rape or its legal euphanism “Unlawful sexual connection” are frequently in authority (Social workers, teachers etc.) Their mental process are dubious – but then aren’t those of many women 🙂 however it is far from uncommon. The male victim is normally much younger where that power can be exerted. I believe this phenomina is a product of feminism, encouraging women to phusically express their sexuality. Either that or they are plain ugly and can’t get it any other way!

    Comment by Alastair — Wed 18th February 2009 @ 7:57 am

  5. My father raped in an intoxicated state seven years ago by his then-girlfriend who wanted to become pregnant. There are at least two witnesses. He had been openly planning to leave her. She promised that she would never ask him to be a father to the child. Now, she has filed for retro child support. He is a disabled veteran who does not have the emotional capacity to hold a regular job. Is there any advice out there for defense/offense in this situation?

    Comment by Israel — Sun 7th June 2009 @ 2:24 am

  6. If this is correce and eminates from NZ, then I suggest that he takes steps – B …. y great ones to Mangare and board the next flight to Australia!

    Comment by Alastair — Sun 7th June 2009 @ 9:57 am

  7. Running to Australia will save you 2 percent a month on your child support penalities only. The Australian and NZ tax system arec as one for Child Support collection. However the Australians believe that the penalty rate of 2% a month on the unpaid “debt” is extortion and refuse to collect that. However the substantive CS and the 10% penalities they will chase aggressively. If running from CS you need to go further than Aussie.

    Comment by Allan Harvey — Sun 7th June 2009 @ 10:42 am

  8. Given regretful feelings the monring after can lead a woman to cry ‘rape’, can the same not be said for men? Or if a man is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, does he not too have a defence that he was incapable of giving informed consent – is that too not ‘rape’?
    Or do these lines only apply for women?

    Comment by Back from the dead — Fri 5th November 2010 @ 8:39 pm

  9. “My father raped in an intoxicated state seven years ago by his then-girlfriend who wanted to become pregnant. There are at least two witnesses. He had been openly planning to leave her. She promised that she would never ask him to be a father to the child. Now, she has filed for retro child support. He is a disabled veteran who does not have the emotional capacity to hold a regular job. Is there any advice out there for defense/offense in this situation?”

    Your father is disabled, then he needs to get on government disability. The same thing happened to me. I can explain in detail, but you’ll need to email me in privet. Email me at;

    joyce.john134 at gmail dot com,

    Comment by No Name — Fri 25th May 2012 @ 2:59 am

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