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Parental jealousy exposed?

Filed under: Domestic Violence,Gender Politics — MurrayBacon @ 10:00 pm Sun 18th May 2014

DailyMail – MailOnline
Boy, 10, beaten black and blue by wicked stepmother becomes poster boy for anti-domestic violence campaigners in China

Schoolboy Bin Bin tells teacher how his stepmother ‘beats me all the time’
Ten-year-old asked to show injuries as he was in pain whenever he moved
His body was covered head to toe in bruises and lacerations from beatings
Stepmother said to be jealous of youngster’s relationship with his father
The domestic abuse case has sparked outrage on the Chinese internet
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Although the step-mother issue is raised in the story above, jealousy is sometimes an issue with mothers too.

Skilled mothers, the majority, are rarely jealous of the father’s relationship with the children. However, poorer skilled mothers may be quite jealous of the children’s relationship with the father. This may be covered over with any number of distractors, such a arrogance, anger, alienation.

In my opinion, this dynamic is a lot more common than many separated fathers realise.

Consider this and look carefully at what is going on?
When this was suggested to me, I dismissed the idea. As a bit of time went on, the idea seemed to become more plausible, alas.
Look at whether taking care of the children is a pleasure, or hard work? Hard work suggests a bit of a lack of the necessary skills.

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