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Back to the Future

Filed under: General — mama @ 3:35 pm Tue 18th February 2020

I spied an advertisement

I am not sure as to what exactly it meant

a job vacancy for support/caregiver work

but implying that Women need only apply

I supposed that possibly their clients were mainly women..??

Do they not need strength to lift and support, to sing, to charm, kindness and great knowledge and interests in social sense, If a Guy were to apply for this job, what would the problem be?

Please someone tell me if I am wrong but is it not discriminative to state that a job is best suited to a female, I actually thought it was made law long ago.


  1. So lets say i was a carpenter and i only wanted men for the job. Whats gonna happen? The Human wrongs commissariat’s will be on to me like a ton of bricks.

    But when a position advertises for “women only” This same Human wrongs Commissariat seems to do absolute JS about it often going s far as endorsing it.

    Ive had an absolute gutsful of the rampant Gynocentrism in NZ especially if it sanctioned by the state.

    Comment by The Mad MGTOW — Sat 29th February 2020 @ 10:13 pm

  2. #1,, Hi Mad MGTOW,, you are right ,,I am certain if you were to advertise a vacancy for a Man you would get trouble,, I am also mad , mad and more mad over the situation we currently have,, it seemed to have revved up from the days of ‘girls can do anything’ at a helluva rate.

    If all this is under the guise of fairness, well being , balance etc, then why do we not have a Ministry for Men, funding for Men to a balanced degree, a push for Men to do better in education as they fall behind, their falling at university level has been ‘outed’, if you will,,, some long time ago. Men need to help and get help to bring some order and balance back into society.

    Comment by mama — Tue 3rd March 2020 @ 11:38 am

  3. For a second there I thought you were talking about a job for a domestic violence review panel, coroner, suicide prevention strategy manager, man tax expert, protection order developer, or Imaginary sex crime co-ordinater.

    I’m probably mistaken that it’s for a gender safe workplace like teacher, childcare, lawyer, Human Resources, media, nursing, elderly care, fostering, or parenting.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 16th October 2020 @ 10:51 pm

  4. DJ,, haha,,I like it… uni prof, mp, etc, etc

    Comment by mama — Wed 21st October 2020 @ 8:40 pm

  5. Back to the Future.
    I have been reading some of my old posts.
    Including as The man from Absentia.
    Also at some poems I wrote in my early 20s.
    It’s there, compliant speech.
    Mixed with non compliant.
    I just didn’t understand I was doing it.
    Couldn’t see it.

    I know the exact time I could.
    October 29 at 1:30am.
    I checked the time as I knew something profound just happened.
    I was reading court cases on false accusations of child abuse.
    Suffering the sins of humans.
    Hence the late night, couldn’t sleep.
    Testing a theory on how actions create actions.
    It was working exactly as my theory predicted.
    How psychologists went through logic.
    So I began speaking, practicing an argument.
    First sign of crazy, is talking to ones self.
    But I was doing it because I try not to speak.
    I was beaten in the playground for speaking freely.
    I understand I need to practice.
    It was working great and I was so happy.
    Then I stoped mid sentence.
    Paused in shock.
    Out came the most perfect argument.
    The existence of the universe.
    My burden was gone, I was free.

    Not actually free.
    Just got told to hang out the washing.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sat 19th December 2020 @ 9:04 am

  6. I have been looking for something specific that was said.
    But can’t find it.

    So I will say it anyway.
    But it was only a sentence.

    Jesus and Buddha both knew how they were made.
    Buddha had enlightenment.
    Jesus had enlightenment as he is the same as Buddha. Compliant speech.
    Buddha did not perceive God, but perceived he would be made again.
    Passing that concept, onto believers, in there own lives.
    Jesus worked out he spoke the word of god.
    Like physics.
    Laws that defines all things.
    The truth, as he spoke the word of god.
    This is revelations to him.
    As it’s suffering, and madness.
    Everything from rapture, to despair.
    Wrath to sorrow.
    Love to hate.
    Heaven to hell.
    Light to dark.
    The rod to the child.

    Humans can invent words for eternity.
    But can never describe all emotions.

    They be the good and the bad.
    The hot and the cold.
    The existing and not existing.
    God, and Satan.
    Plus and minus.
    Positive and negative.

    So in effect Jesus must have existed, so did Buddha.
    But Buddha was not Jesus, as the output is different.
    Jesus and Buddha had different environments.
    Nature is governed by physics.
    So Jesus unlike Buddha was exposed to the concept of God.
    And the Old Testament has a doom and gloom background.
    It is not compliant speech (haven’t looked to much so not 100% on that) but helped him greatly.
    So he outputs words relevant to the environment.
    The bible explains what happened to him.
    What he understood, was.
    All things.

    Father is God.
    Son is he who speaks the word of God.
    The ghost is Jesus having everlasting life.

    He that is him is the father.
    He shall be with you.
    And he will go away.
    Then he shall be with you.
    As the next him.
    As he is he that is him is the father.

    Can you imagine the next one.
    His environment.
    Jesus knew nothing much about stars.
    The vacuum of space.
    Planets, comets, the sun.
    The ground beneath his feet, the air he breathed, water, electricity, light, rainbows.

    Highly likely to be a bullshit in bullshit out scenario.
    But quite humour tainted.

    He that is he that is him that is the father.

    Imagine asking a question to a Christ, or a Buddha.
    You might just end up looking at him funny.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sat 19th December 2020 @ 12:51 pm

  7. I found myself in an unhappy place.
    Where I have tried, but nothing was working.

    An argument developed with my partner.
    And she told me to go home.
    So I did.

    So I went back to my beginning.
    I at least left her a note this time.
    That I had to see someone.
    And would be back in 3 days.
    And drove into the night.
    I had no idea where I was going.
    Or who that someone was.

    Again I will leave things for another day.

    However a comment about a person.
    Who to a small extent I helped raise.
    A sister, to Joelene.
    They were my family, when I had lost mine.
    Her mother, was in many ways my mother.
    And she watched over me, when I had nobody.
    Oh my, I have cried.
    As she has died, some years ago, with cancer.
    But I have seen the daughter, in a picture.
    So much like her mother.

    When I left she got herself a boyfriend, that I knew.
    I learnt she had a child to him.
    But learned he committed suicide, after they separated.
    Later she got pregnant again.
    But this time adopted the child.
    Today she has a new child, and new partner.
    And works teaching, at a school of faith.
    What a journey, what loss.
    But the giving, made many tears, but of compassion.
    As I remember her mother.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Mon 1st February 2021 @ 9:40 am

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