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Is Coster All Cuddles

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 8:58 am Tue 7th March 2023

NZ Police Commissioner Andrew “Cuddles” Coster in time will be seen as having served in one of the most dramatic upheavals in the country’s history.

This should also be seen as a period of rapid social change where the shift in gender issues is yet to be recognized and discussed.

Inadequate, partisan and ideological media is no more helpful than the ingrained positions that exist in Ardern’s two-level society.

This post on the Writer of Sorts Blog looks at how this might surface and the response to that.


  1. Can you imagine the job, propping up the government.
    He’s lucky, there’s plenty that protect him.

    It creates a problem, that society makes.
    The more you don’t address a problem, the bigger it gets.
    The more you have to lie, to cover your tracks.

    Humans are not unique, in the animal kingdom.
    Other creatures lie, human are just experts.
    In fact maybe in the universe, the most expert at it.

    His expression, says it all.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 10th March 2023 @ 9:39 am

  2. Watched the Liz Gunn video. Important stuff, thanks for drawing attention to it. The random, ominous sounds and the large volume fluctuations were irritating, as was the unnecessarily long excerpt from The Matrix, but there’s no accounting for artistic taste.

    Police do as they are instructed and cognitive dissonance will tend to see them adopt beliefs consistent with their tasks, such as viewing peaceful protesters including grannies as bad people deserving violent repression. Police have long felt morally justified about their discrimination and unnecessary violence against men for the same reason (among others including indoctrination from feminist speakers), though one gets the impression it is becoming more difficult for some officers to maintain their delusions in the face of frequent experience of nasty, unreasonable, dishonest women they were expected to rescue from calm, reasonable or clearly battered men.

    However, the tactics of police at the parliament protest reached another level of corruption and men who protest in future would do well to consider this. They planted violent thugs among the protesters and/or turned a blind eye to allow thugs to join the protest, in order to justify serious violence against all the protestors. As highlighted in Gunn’s video, police also used a lot of provocation to try to elicit angry or defensive reactions, thereby creating a reason to arrest for obstruction, assault police or similar. If you are involved in a men’s issues protest in future you can expect police to use those tactics again, having copied them from aggressive police in the US and elsewhere just as they have copied the paramilitary clothing and presentation. At any protest, ensure you know who joins the ranks and prevent any strangers or suspicious presenters from joining if possible. Do what you can to control any hotheads, for example by providing clear instructions from the outset and by having people to surround a protester who is being provoked.

    More aggressive and violent US-type policing to some extent is in response to increased violence on the streets, especially delinquent youth whose parents were too afraid of legal punishment to use effective discipline or ‘coercive control’ thanks to Ms Bradford and her lying ilk. However, that way of responding creates a vicious cycle of increasing antipathy towards police and the society they represent. It’s sad to see what’s happening to this country.

    Comment by Ministry of Men's Affairs — Fri 10th March 2023 @ 3:58 pm

  3. The question about these people, is did they know.

    Take the minister of revenue, and policy.
    Policy is to give women things, but men no things.
    Maternity leave, vs paternity leave an example.
    A blatant, human rights act violation.
    It’s easy to accuse them of that, but not this.

    The judge, examines parenting.
    Judging the parent child relationship, of each parent.
    Custody is decided, in the child’s best interests.
    One parent with six extra months, of time parenting.
    All men then, are disadvantaged in court.
    If they had equal parenting rights, the result would be different.

    Can you say then, the truth.
    The minister conspires, to pervert justice.
    Sorry got that wrong, 120 MPs commit that crime.

    Plus women’s issues budgets, and no men’s budgets.
    Women refuge, helps women with there needs.
    The women’s minister, is voted for by 120 MPs.
    There is no budget, for men’s needs.
    Advantaged again in court, the male screwed.

    But back to the commissioner, one of the worst offenders.
    Nothing needs to be argued, he wears a white ribbon.
    Every officer equipped, with a women’s refuge business card.

    None of these people, are innocent.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Wed 15th March 2023 @ 6:53 pm

  4. This powder keg has errupted.

    Comment by Downunder — Thu 16th March 2023 @ 12:39 pm

  5. The legal system has arrived, with some documents.
    In it they want my confession, for my protest.
    At least now, I have a copy of my crime.
    My partner pointing out, the evidence is damming.
    Not understanding, why I’m defending myself.

    Yet today I heard figures, on out of control crime.
    Am I to stay silent, when I know to much.
    Once you learn things, you can’t unlearn them.
    I carry a burden, far greater than my presenting a defence.
    I become guilty if I do nothing, and then must live with it.

    So an example of knowing, that a crime is committed.
    It’s police policy, to refuse to investigate female crimes involving sex.
    The male has become angry, and is arrested for domestic violence.
    The police ask why his actions, what got him angry.
    He responds with a complaint, like she told me the kids not mine.

    The police commissioner, has no excuse for offending.
    The have knowledge of crimes, and refuse to investigate.
    Conspiracy to pervert or obstruct justice, is a crime.
    Conspiracy to defeat justice, is a crime.
    If I must confess my guilt, would the commissioner.

    Males are rapidly losing respect for society, I wonder why.
    The commissioner, is leading by example.
    With contempt, and no respect for the law.
    I am somewhat amazed, that they are prosecuting me.
    Either they want to see what happens, or they are blind.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Mon 29th May 2023 @ 6:40 pm

  6. Like most disciplines the culture is difficult to understand and explain without a knowledge of the history and development.

    In the simplest terms #5 you should start with the development of “police” in the city of Rome where the word originated alongside the policy enforcement of that civil society and by comparison the modern police model development by Sir Robert Peel in the early 1800s.

    Comment by Downunder — Tue 30th May 2023 @ 8:34 am

  7. A big problem, is finding people to be police.
    It’s definitely a problem, in some parts of the US.
    It’s simply madness, having humans with handguns.
    Crime getting out of control, and nobody with solutions.
    The police innocent, puppets of politicians and law.
    Law by law and policy by policy, they are overwhelmed.
    They police everything, we are the philosophers police state.

    Consider domestic violence, how that changed.
    It’s was once ignored, with only the bad cases dealt with.
    Simply put if you don’t like it, then leave.
    Now there’s 100,000 cases in NZ, all being dealt with.
    They do the worst thing, they judge petty things.
    The lawyers love it, they are making fortunes.
    Politicians love it, they can pretend to save the world.

    They are trapped, with endless demands to punish more things.
    Soon feminists will win, just being male will be a crime.
    We are pretty much there, 100,000 times a year.
    Is there any good men left, allowed to join the police.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Wed 31st May 2023 @ 7:45 pm

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