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Wana have a peek at the future when boys have been alienated from their families?

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 6:32 am Wed 7th February 2024

Sadly, America is already there. Ignore the destruction of boys’ relationships with their fathers. Ignore the damage caused by the family court and NZ will get there too.

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  1. It’s certainly a concern, living an isolated life is bad.
    It’s not how we are made, we are social creatures.
    We evolved in groups of people, not alone in the wilderness.
    If you wanted anything, you had to interact face to face.
    Today everything can be delivered, and you can be unemployed.
    They see nobody for days, and history has few examples like it.

    If we still had arranged marriages, they would not be single.
    That’s an extreme I don’t support, but history is full of it.
    Just as there’s lonely single males, there is as many lonely females.
    Are the males getting rejected, females have new standards.
    Or are they even trying, the standard is to great.

    Have they not watched there fathers, seen how they get treated.
    A normal job is not enough, they simply can’t afford a woman.
    They may have not liked there childhood, why risk the same again.
    They know the risks, and don’t want that for themselves.

    When the males stop wanting kids, they can still ignore fathers.
    Women will still find a way, to have there babies.
    When males stop having children, extinction may wake them up.
    Women will resort to sperm donors, no man’s paying for the kids.
    Help women as much as you like, these young men aren’t helping.

    Isolating oneself is not good for sanity, we should be worried.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Thu 8th February 2024 @ 6:44 pm

  2. Sometimes when you look at the US, it’s maddening.
    They let humans have handguns, is that just crazy.
    Yet we have the posts picture, that is real in the US.
    They pay the price, young males gone crazy with guns.
    To the world they are nobody, by doing evil they become someone.

    The American will argue, it’s the person not the gun.
    I need the gun, because the bad guy has the gun.
    But to let the good have guns, you must let the bad have guns.
    How can you tell, the good person from the bad person.
    The young male in the post, may never go crazy and do evil.
    But a sane person today, may not be a sane person tomorrow.
    You cannot escape the dilemma, of giving crazy people guns.
    So unless you can change people, the guns the problem.

    If you then screw up male development, you get more crazy.
    That is the future, the US is an experiment gone mad.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 9th February 2024 @ 11:05 am

  3. A bit closer to home.

    16-Year-old son murdered by teen boys.

    The boy bled to death on the ground after suffering 152 injuries, including 56 stab wounds and 66 blunt force injuries.

    The attacking boys were aged 13, 16, 18 and 18.

    Comment by Lukenz — Fri 9th February 2024 @ 5:16 pm

  4. Yes, we are already seeing a generation without respect or fear of consequences. It’s not only the removal of father’s from children’s lives; it’s also the removal of male wisdom from how we rear and school children.

    Comment by Ministry of Men's Affairs — Sat 10th February 2024 @ 9:35 pm

  5. The male is in a dangerous world, because of the internet.
    Young adult males, may have lived their lives on it.
    Everything you can imagine, they have seen it.
    I have just heard some statistics, child porn up 15,000% in 15 years.
    That’s just child porn, it must be a million % for legal stuff.
    The young girl dancing video, she’s got next to nothing on.
    The 80s music video, the lyrics and sexual videos of today.
    The young male mind, is in a dangerous world.
    If you get sexual fantasy development wrong, that’s bad.

    What are the results of this, what are these males futures.
    Because the environment is new, the internet is new.
    Is those statistics, a dire warning we are getting things wrong.
    What is the solution, do you now arrest males in huge numbers.
    You can’t know the cause and effect, and only punish the effect.
    The cause is sexualised inputs, the output is bad sexual desires.

    Since you can’t change what girls do, you can’t change what boys see.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sun 11th February 2024 @ 8:00 am

  6. What are we doing, to the minds of young men.
    I have just had an experience, with some social media.
    Normally there’s some balance, each side having a video.
    But yesterday it was constant, Israeli propaganda.
    It is easy to see you can be radicalised, to believing something.
    The things done to the Israeli people, were horrific crimes.
    It’s very easy to be on there side, watching those videos.
    The young male, doesn’t have a lifetime watching events.
    The don’t see the hypocrisy, the nonsense arguments.
    Is the problem what they get to watch, or what they don’t get to see.
    The truth can be propaganda, and some are experts at it.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 23rd February 2024 @ 9:40 am

  7. I do worry about boys, they live in a world that hates them.
    Apparently from research, 1 in 7 women are financially abused.
    They have a controlling partner, who controls the money.
    The bigotry is obvious, because they don’t give the male figure.

    It’s a version of propaganda, and the boys get it constantly.
    They are taught from childhood, everything they do is bad.
    But they will not get taught, about how women treat men badly.
    They will get no research, exposing things women do to men.

    But that is society, that’s not what they see on the internet.
    Do they absorb the statistic of 1 in 7, or ask the male figure.
    Or view mainstream media in contempt, they see the bigotry.
    They know there fate like there fathers, they are the ones paying.

    There are many single men, as women statistically are expensive.
    Add to that dating crazy, the world’s a scary place for boys.
    If you think we damage male development, with fatherless homes.
    The same must be true for girls, but what becomes bad about them.

    The female or mother refuses to work, guess who is paying.
    Now it’s also abuse, if he says how his money is spent.
    It doesn’t seperate those figures, whose money is the statistic about.
    Is the money earned by the women, if so maybe that’s abuse.

    The boys are learning, abusing them financially is normal.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sun 10th March 2024 @ 11:34 am

  8. What is happening to boys, is a one sided argument.
    Because if they are single, you expect the females are single.
    What’s happening to boys, should be happening to girls.
    It’s the same environment, the experience should be the same.

    But the male is presented as flawed, the female free of the patriarchy.
    But if the males are lonely, so the females should be lonely.
    If the males are depressed, so the females should be depressed.
    If the males fail a standard, so the females should be failing as well.

    What if we get society wrong, the male turns bad and does wrong.
    That’s why we worry about boys, and think things are wrong.
    What if we get things wrong, the female turns bad and does wrong.
    Unfortunately we don’t look at girls, not at what they do wrong.

    There is a no girlfriend term, is there the same no boyfriend term.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Tue 19th March 2024 @ 7:16 pm

  9. I was free as a child, I could just wander off.
    There was no telling mum, I just did what I wanted.
    I suspect very few children, live free today.
    Everyone begins to panic, when you can’t find them.

    Today I live a very boring life, but I have great memories.
    There was no devices, playing was the creek and journeys.
    Playing on the golf course, and shooting rats at the dump.
    Picking mushrooms or biking, I was always busy with something.

    Without any freedom, how does a boy do those things.
    Get up to mischief, or succeed or fail at things.
    Explore the world, and play with other kids.
    Something went wrong, childhood is changing fast.

    I suspect paranoia is involved, irrational fears of the worst.
    The cure for the fears, is to completely control the child.
    But the cure may be worse, that harm is greater than the risk.
    Yes bad things can happen, or the lonely boring life harms them.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 22nd March 2024 @ 10:32 pm

  10. Is society healthy, that an individual should return to it? Has not society itself helped to make the individual unhealthy? Of course, the unhealthy must be made healthy, that goes without saying; but why should the individual adjust himself to an unhealthy society? If he is healthy, he will not be a part of it. Without first questioning the health of society, what is the good of helping misfits to conform to society? – J. Krishnamurti

    When ya’ll get back to sanity I’ll come out of my isolation, ’til then it’s for the sake of my own sanity.

    Comment by Steve Blum — Fri 31st May 2024 @ 10:20 pm

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