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Key steps to take to reduce anxiety, worry, unease and nervousness during reunification of child victims who have been subject to relentless parental alienation for years.
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After some 40 years there is increased recognition of parental alienation.
Although this is a gender neutral conversation if you watched the video you no doubt visualised a man walking along the beach with his child rather than woman.
Sadly what we see here is that men have no feelings and if they do those feelings can be ignored and their reality is invisible.
If the alienating parent is still hard at work, then the child is still being affected. The featured situation only works were those people talking can in some way intervene.
What is not considered here is that the children even by the time they are adults don’t understand their own alienation.
This doesn’t take into account fathers who don’t want to see their children hurt in this way or don’t want to participate in allowing that to happen.
What also isn’t recognised here is second generation or grandchildren alienation.
Even when fathers do get custody and a mother doesn’t have access in some difficult cases it only takes a Facebook conversation to destroy years of good parenting.
Essentially what we are seeing here is not a conversation about alienation it is a conversation about repairing the damage done by court intervention after a mother’s unfounded allegation being hailed as a professional solution to parental alienation.
It would be understandable if many fathers saw this as a Tuis Add for parental alienation.
Comment by Busby — Wed 16th April 2025 @ 2:32 pm