It is really sad how programs work. This is not a perfect description but it isn’t far off.

Someone came up with a theory and this theory extended to other theories. (All students are learning these theories). Then and now research is done by hypothesis to measure these theories. Sociology does this and so does scientific study when it is combined with sociology. After all, the 2 are so different but both need to exist at the same time.

Anyhow, some one funds this theory and it’s hypothesis research and people lobby to get it released and implemented. All the way through it’s process someone is funding all actions.

When it comes to domestic violence women’s studies dominate research. Even if you have men’s research it is made around women’s studies known today as gender studies.

Anyhoo, back to the programs.

The government pays for the research and it pays for the work put into lobby and for the implementation. It also pays the Family Court, judges salaries and lawyers fees (often). Not too long ago the FC was given $60 million to implement domestic violence and family violence programs as well as women’s and children’s rights.

All of this is based remember on women’s studies.

So we find that anyone who wants to hold women and children accountable are not only starved of financial support but bullied because you can’t take on the state when it has endless resources (taxes) and with sooo many, many people relying on this for a job.

Or can you? What does take on the state and these biased theories? Could the answer be reality?

The reality is that we have generations of families involved in the social experiments from the hippy days and the 2nd wave feminism.

*This is another thing that is incorrect for there was never a first wave feminism. Not in NZ! And not anywhere else in the world. Around the world the vote was sought after from men and women and all men and women involved were suffragettes for the vote. In NZ women asked for the vote and they were given it. Simple as that. Women received the vote 3 years after the men and we were the first in the world to do it. (full vote that is; since women in certain classes had the vote elsewhere)

Suffragettes worked harder for the women’s vote in America because American women didn’t want it. If women had wanted it they would have received it around the same time men did also.*

Continuing on with reality………

Today groups are shocked at how teenagers are numb to violence especially domestic violence. Teens have lived through it and seen it with their own eyes. They are aware mothers are more violent to children than biological fathers and they have watched both their parents fight in Family Courts over custody as well as money issues and power issues.

I chuckle sometimes when I hear hardcore feminists say these days that some women and children are deserving of being hit. You can’t ignore real life experiences.

But don’t take my word for it. Let’s look to Hollywood. The role model of today.

Here’s a conversation starter: Nearly half of the 200 Boston teenagers interviewed for an informal poll said pop star Rihanna was responsible for the beating she allegedly took at the hands of her boyfriend, fellow music star Chris Brown, in February.

Of those questioned, ages 12 to 19, 71 percent said that arguing was a normal part of a relationship; 44 percent said fighting was a routine occurrence.

The results of the survey, conducted by the Boston Public Health Commission across the city and equally among boys and girls, are startling for local health workers who see a generation of youths who seem to have grown accustomed, even insensitive, to domestic violence.

“I think you’d have to be pretty jaded if you weren’t startled by it,” said Casey Corcoran, director of the health commission’s new Start Strong program.

Read the rest of the article here

Just to bring others up to date with this, Chris Brown and Rihanna are both super star singers. Chris Brown was arrested for assaulting Rihanna whose picture ended up on the internet showing a beating.

Their Feb. 8 fight broke out after Rihanna read a three-page text message on Brown’s phone from a woman, according to a search warrant and affidavit obtained by ABC News.

Read the detailed alleged assault here.

Pretty gruesome stuff to see Rihanna’s supposed picture after the alleged assault here.

The drama continued after the arrest because Rihanna didn’t want Chris to stay away from her as part of the protection order. And the next thing to come was Oprah with a TV show on domestic abuse where she pleaded with Rihanna to stay away from Chris.

I guess about now the truth has to come out somewhere.

Pop on the Pop previously reported that Rihanna is the one who allegedly initiates the physical violence in her relationship with Chris Brown. As my friend who has worked for two major record labels and currently works for a smaller label said, Rihanna was probably beating on Chris before he began to strike her back. That’s allegedly exactly what had happened!!!!

Welford Hart, who lives with Chris Brown’s mother, told the New York Post that Rihanna took off her stilettos and began beating him in the head while he was driving. These two are both great catches!

“When you take off your shoes and beat someone with high heels, that’s going to hurt. He reacted and tried to get her to stop hitting him, but she kept screaming.”

TMZ confirms what we already hinted at. Here’s an excerpt .

Rihanna was the first one to strike – slapping and striking Brown “numerous times” while he was driving, after seeing the text message from another woman. And Rihanna was fighting Brown as he punched and hurt her. We’re told much of this is reflected in the official police report based on what Rihanna told cops.

And they wonder why the youth are turning away from what they are being force fed. This is the third wave of feminists trying to make their programs, lobbying and advertisements work.

One of the problems I think exists is that program makers live in a bubble. Not only are they continually dealing with one sided bias, hatred of masculinity and sheltered with research that doesn’t even hit the real people’s reality but they are unable to understand that people turned off a long time ago. Most people are just waiting for something better to gain power.