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Are All Men Pedophiles?

Filed under: General — triassic @ 4:01 am Sat 27th September 2014


This documentary is a great study into male sexuality. Be sure to watch it past the end credits for a commentary by the Director Jan-Willem Breure. The amount of information on female sexuality has nearly filled the universe so this doco is very welcome. Male sexuality hardly gets a mention other than the negative aspects. There are many things that we know about the subject but an abundance of things we don’t. What I liked about this doco is its juxtaposition of the medias interpretation of pedophilia to that of sexologists. The disgust men feel about pedophilia, and those that practice it, prevents healthy discourse. The male desire for the shape of the female body past puberty is NORMAL, HEALTHY and should never bring a sense of shame. What is shameful is when males have no control over that desire and no respect for the person, whose body it belongs to.


  1. Hmmm, I don’t think the wording here reflects the reality of this situation. This isn’t about girls whose bodies are well developed or boys with hairy armpits but about undeveloped children and the men sexually attracted to them. They are trying to get something recognised through psychology or psychiatry.

    As a note, I didn’t know they had studied women attracted to undeveloped children. One thing men online did that I liked, was close down a site where lesbians wrote about their sexual fantasies with undeveloped girls, their real experiences and shared tips with one another. Soon after there was a ‘play’ online feminists promoted that stated pedophilia when done by a woman is ‘good rape’. Idiots – ask the parents of raped children or adults who were raped as children if there’s such a things as ‘good rape’.

    Anyways, I think men’s silence on this post makes a statement.

    Comment by julie — Sun 28th September 2014 @ 5:55 pm

  2. I don’t like to call people idiots and apologise while saying I get annoyed with hypocrites and that too many people are sheep-like in that they blindly accept something to be true because so-and-so said it.

    I will see if I can find correspondence with a group the America conservatives ran down that are behind this. They were appreciative being asked what was going on rather than being judged blindly and they make good points while it will in fact promote the rape of children (by men) if what the feminists have done is anything to go by (by women).

    Comment by julie — Sun 28th September 2014 @ 6:20 pm

  3. Julie, as stated by the Director at the end, ALL MEN ARE PEDOPHILES if we use an overly simplistic method of deduction. It is innate in males to be attracted to a developed female body and from adolescence through to the legal age 18 females are well developed, hence even if non practising, men are in fact all capable of being hebophilies. The media place this into the Pedophile camp.

    The salient point here is why has society raised the age of pedophilia where it passes the biological point in the nature of a healthy male? The answer of course is that as our life span extended there was no requirement for girls to give birth at an age where it was biologically possible. Society saw the benefits of allowing both male and female adolescence to be free from the responsibilities of sexual burdens and to enjoys the brief moment in life called childhood. The true love of children is the joy of their innocence and vulnerability which is what makes hebophilia such narcissistic behaviour.

    Another important point not raised in the doco is that of self discipline. Innate nature is not a licence to indulge. Anger is innate as are many other emotions. As mature civilised adults we are required to have control over them. Unfortunately society has moved away from this approach and the great Nike slogan “if it feels good do it” reigns supreme. Feminists are unable to contain their anger for male behaviour and the result is ubiquous in the western family.

    Comment by triassic — Mon 29th September 2014 @ 4:31 pm

  4. Triassic, thanks for the clarity. 🙂

    Have you watched the movie ‘A million ways to die in the west’?

    They mock the past. Charlize Theron playing Anna says, “I married at 9 because I didn’t want to be a spinster at 15”.

    Comment by julie — Tue 30th September 2014 @ 5:21 am

  5. Not yet but I will do…cheers

    Comment by triassic — Tue 30th September 2014 @ 6:15 am

  6. Hard to see ephebophilia as anything but normal. Most people (male and female) who deny having such thoughts are surely liars.

    Actual pedophilia is a different matter, but provided pedophiles are just quietly having their fantasies and not bothering others then who really cares?

    Comment by Seamus — Thu 5th February 2015 @ 6:04 pm

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