Originally when my ex wife and I split we had two houses. One was the family home and the other, a rental we co- owned with my ex brother in law.We also had additional debts that my ex had raked up. So when I decided to keep the family home and my ex, took the […]

Jeremy Kyle gives his audience a verbal thrashing after they laugh at a man who ended up in hospital after having to jump out of a 3 storied flat to escape after his female partner locked him in. Caught off guard by Jeremy’s anger the audience soon sobers up when they realise that the domestic […]

This article, ‘More career-minded single women seek IVF treatments’ informs us of the constant increase in the number of women seeking to be impregnated to have children with no intention of providing them with a father or contact with their biological father. As we have come to expect, the article avoids wasting time on any […]

Are man-minding services offensive? This humourous man-minding service is apparently spreading around retail places, offering to look after women’s husbands / partners to relieve the women from care-giving of their man-children and to let them shop in peace. Most men seem happy to take the joke in good humour but then most men don’t think […]

Hi Team, I am looking to vary a parenting order before the first two years are up and I first need to seek leave of the court for this to happen (the other side are opposing) Im looking for anyone who may know how to meet the threshold for overturning section 139(a) COCA, the section […]

The pony-gate scandal fascinates me due to the interest given to its trivia. It has piqued my scientific curiosity concerning the human brain and the paradox of its complexity and how poorly this potential is utilised. I recently attended a public lecture at Waikato University from Warwick Holmes, an Avionics engineer who worked on the […]

Man shaming and victim blaming: an A-Z of male suicide https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/man-shaming-victim-blaming-a-z-male-suicide-karen-woodall Apr 14, 2015 I caught the end of the Panorama Programme on male suicide in the UK last night. Whilst I know something about the statistics around male suicide and understand some of those things which stack up against men, causing loss of hope […]

Today Prime Minister John Key sparks debate on the issue of ponytail pulling. (I’m not pulling your leg) Should men be allowed to pull women’s pony tails? Should men in power be allowed to grab hold of a woman’s power pony?

I just watched what I think was the first episode of “I am Innocent” (TV1 18/03/15), that I recorded some weeks ago. Interesting that it focused on three female teenagers unfairly convicted and jailed for a sadistic mob attack on another young female teenager. I guess the show’s management team realised that they could only […]

I suspect most of the men here already know how poorly they and their mates have been treated in today’s society. Left broken and unable to recover financially and mentally. Barred from some professions, less covered with health issues and totally unprotected in regard sexual allegations the moment the allegation is made. Paying for but […]

The case of Errol Standeven The police had no complaints from any of the women, who did not know that Standeven was photographing them walking and exercising, but it had a complaint from a man who said he was “disgusted” when he saw what Standeven was doing. These are photos in the open in public […]

The big question here; If a student loan debt (a debt to the State) is expunged by bankruptcy, why does a child support debt still exist after bankruptcy?

(despite its ‘show signing of the Hague convention’) In the first known case to make it to Court after Japan’s signing of the Hague Convention the judge did exactly as many of us knew it would. It made its entire rulings based entirely on Japanese Family Law and ignored The Hague guidelines which Japan stated […]

I have been on both sides of the NZ child support system. It is a system that has completely failed by any useful measure. It is an income tax on some people based on their marital status which has nothing to do with supporting children.

https://nz.news.yahoo.com/a/-/top-stories/26909926/opposition-parties-welcome-cyf-overhaul/ Anoither possible waste our taxpayer money…….

I don’t know how to title this post. Dive squad return to search for missing boy It does need some discussion!

Hi guys, Could you please recommend a Child Psychologist experienced with writing reports for the Court?

Since when was a “suspected” breach of a parenting order a nationwide witch hunt?

Dear IRD , you win, we lose, goodbye. this will be on a number of peoples headstones from now on. simple.

Ok, so those who have been following my updates…. last post (menz.org.nz/2015/update-family-court-revamp-part-3/) Have had a lot of activity on my case in the last 2 months, from a directions conference where ex’s Lawyer and Lawyer for child got dragged though the coals for this continuing to be going thought the court as it should be […]

Successful transplant operation although it may not be quite what you think.

This article provides a wealth of wisdom for any male who contemplates having children. If after reading this you still have a desire to proceed, please visit a therapist first. Whilst children have the potential to bring great joy and meaning to your life, this article clearly shows that the social structure now exists for […]

Do you want to know what a REAL MAN is? A real man does not get into a situation where he has to pay tens, if not hundreds of thousands of dollars to lawyers just to see his own flesh and blood on a regular basis. A real man does not subscribe to the mentality […]

BRILLIANT!!! However hard I try not to appear sexist, the mainstream media gives me no options.

Emma Watson Watson, 24, a goodwill ambassador for UN Women, used International Women’s Day to add impetus to the HeForShe campaign that was launched in September last year and encourages men and boys to join the fight for equal rights. So far around 240,000 men have pledged their commitment online, according to the HeForShe website, […]