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End the Gender War

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 1:36 pm Wed 2nd March 2016

There are many battle fronts against Feminism in this Gender War, but rarely do we see visible weapons and we struggle to recognise the source of the violence, this creeping violence, this increasing violence, this social violence that plagues our society, seemingly without explanation.

Without explanation, or by concealing the explanation, of course men will get the blame, we always do.

For men Feminism is a state of confusion. We are men. We think like men. For us Feminism is a violence we struggle to understand. It is not one that we even expect or anticipate. It leaves us blindsided.

For women, as they are told, it’s a victory, it’s their right, everything will be all right. For women it is a political lie, one they need to understand, not live.

We are distressed when we find someone living a lie, misleading us, deceiving us, but when it is a whole gender living the lie – it is a disaster. Inevitably over time a big disaster, a slow motion train crash.

For us as men we often make little sense of this, and rightly so. Something that is so unnatural to mankind, so alien to society, so foreign to humanity, should make no sense, and should be treated accordingly.

The difficulty is, that it is an invisible enemy because we don’t think like women. That is not an accusation against all women, because not all women think this way, but the ones that do, are as dangerous as any Mussolini, any Hitler, any of the world’s recognised tyrants.

If you do not understand your enemy, you put yourself at a great disadvantage. Often our complaints as men are limited to recognising the symptoms of Feminist violence, or identifying the creeping changes, and in doing so, we acknowledge the need and support the necessity of this political agenda.

We can be our own worst enemies without even knowing it.

You may have seen a comment from me the other day about a man writing like a woman, because that is where he finds acceptance. It is a dangerous culture that so easily captures willing and eager minds.

The answer I suggest, to help men understand their predicament, and to help women recognise their dilemma, is to write like men about the way Feminists think.

There is strength in this. That is our weapon, our way to reply to the invisible enemy. Our way to identify the thugs of Feminism and the foot soldiers of their thuggery.

Many of you will be familiar with a Voice for Men. It is received with great enthusiasm and rightly so. They do an amazing job … but even so … it is only a step in the right direction.

We need to take that next step.

We need to paint a picture of Feminist thinking. Write an understanding that allows people to see Feminism for what it is – as a way of thinking, not as a way of life.

It’s a war of words and it cannot be won without good writers.

Deconstructing Feminism


  1. Yes, I absolutely agree. However, who will read what we write, when it gets stonewalled, deleted, reframed ?


    Comment by Joseph — Wed 2nd March 2016 @ 2:35 pm

  2. Burning books is a crime against society, not understanding them is its failure, but not writing them, hey let’s take the dog and go paint a cave wall.

    Comment by Downunder — Wed 2nd March 2016 @ 3:41 pm

  3. The whole ideology of feminism and “gender equality” is complete horse shit.

    I choose to live a feminism free lifestyle, because I’m a man god dam it!

    Comment by mantrol — Wed 2nd March 2016 @ 8:39 pm

  4. And maybe, just maybe, there’s a good woman out there waiting for you?

    Comment by Downunder — Wed 2nd March 2016 @ 8:55 pm

  5. I choose to live a feminism free lifestyle, because I’m a man god dam it!

    If only it was that easy. Sure you can pack your bags, leave this country for a more civilised society. You can stay single and just enjoy life. They are two options often taken by New Zealand men in the face of Feminist oppression, and the observation has been made that there are consequences to this in terms of a population with negative growth, importation of labour etc. If you’ve bailed and left the country, you don’t have to deal with these things. If you’ve stayed eventually the deterioration in society will impact on your freedom and your ability to live the man lifestyle.

    If you engage in the Family situation as a man, you’re always at risk. Risk of losing your home, your children, your health, your job, perhaps even your life. For some men the loss is too great, and right or wrong they will kill themselves.

    So, do men just be men, and wait for inevitable collapse of society that is so well preserved in our history books already. We know what happens.

    The whole ideology of feminism and ‘gender equality’ is complete horse shit.

    Gender equality is a political hobby horse of Feminism.

    Is that an aspect of Feminist thinking we need to examine in more detail?

    Comment by Downunder — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 6:32 am

  6. Joel 1.

    Hear this, you elders;
    listen, all who live in the land.
    Has anything like this ever happened in your days
    or in the days of your ancestors?
    Tell it to your children,
    and let your children tell it to their children,
    and their children to the next generation.

    What the locust swarm has left
    the great locusts have eaten;
    what the great locusts have left
    the young locusts have eaten;
    what the young locusts have left
    other locusts have eaten.

    Comment by Peadar — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 2:13 pm


    Comment by Peadar — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 3:42 pm

  8. Well, that’s just giving me a headache.

    Do you think we should consult women and see what they think of this?

    Comment by Downunder — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 4:30 pm

  9. Downunder,

    I said feminism free, not female free.
    I have a wife with baby on the way.
    My feminism free lifestyle goes about as far as the edge of my property haha.

    My last missus turned out to be quite the feminist, what an education that was.

    Feminism is just an idea that is no different to a religion, with no facts or logic to back it up.
    and it’s a lot like communism, in fact I believe it was communists that invented it.

    There is no such thing as “gender”, only men and women.
    and they’re certainly NOT equal.

    This is also why Donald Trump gets a very hard time from the communist main stream media.

    Comment by mantrol — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 7:09 pm

  10. I can’t play that video, it appears to be censored.

    Comment by Downunder — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 7:42 pm

  11. … but anyway, glad you found a woman who believes in privacy.

    Comment by Downunder — Thu 3rd March 2016 @ 8:06 pm

  12. Interesting you can’t see the vid.
    It was Trump the misogynist putting some nutbar feminist in her place in re guards to the so called gender pay gap, maybe this will work

    I’m not always glad ha, but overall it’s good I guess?
    women don’t believe in anything except maybe in you? they change their mind every 5 minutes.

    Comment by mantrol — Sat 5th March 2016 @ 7:19 am

  13. I know what you mean.

    My favourite wind up line for a feminist is: Women don’t make decisions, they just stop changing their mind.

    Comment by Downunder — Sat 5th March 2016 @ 7:25 am

  14. Haha thats a good one, think I’ll use it.

    Why don’t they just tell us about the ways of the woman??
    Is it some kinda sick joke that leaves people broke and broken?

    Comment by mantrol — Sun 6th March 2016 @ 5:14 pm

  15. Protecting us from thought-crime?

    Comment by Peadar — Sun 13th March 2016 @ 11:15 am

  16. Downunder says many wise things.
    And helped me see many things.

    The owner of this site helped me as well.
    John Potter who watched over me when I needed him to.

    And so many others in my life.
    Especially the ones I hurt.
    Sometimes only a single word.
    Oh my did I punish myself for those mistakes.
    And learnt those hard lessons.

    That is life I guess.
    But amongst that was inspiring things.
    People achieving.
    People trying to help me.
    With wise words, and honesty.

    I do not know what the future holds.
    It has become a blank sheet.
    Without words, to guide me.
    So while I may be lost.
    I am me.

    That I know to be true.
    I may now shed a few tears.
    But they are of relief.
    Not sadness.
    As I have climbed the mountain.

    The journey is finished.
    And another will begin.
    So for the writing of my book.
    It is what it is.
    And this is the end of my words.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sat 20th February 2021 @ 5:03 pm

  17. The bunny has returned lol.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sat 20th February 2021 @ 7:14 pm

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