How to scam the NZ immigration system if you are a woman
A letter via the MENZ contact form. A lesson on how to use WordPress anonymously is probably not what this man needs right now, so I’m posting this on his behalf in the hope he might gain some useful response.
His letter is one of the clearest expositions of how women on temporary visas are recruited and supported to scam the immigration system by using Domestic Violence Act as a weapon against fathers.
This guy made at least two very bad decisions; firstly to respond to his wife’s provocations with violence, and secondly to threaten to kill himself with a knife when faced with arrest. But is this a sufficient reason for a little girl to loose her father forever, which I predict is the most likely outcome of this case?
I’ve added paragraphs to make it more readable, and [redacted] anything that might identify him. Otherwise the words are his.
Nice to meet here you all.
Recently I and my wife physical harmed each other.
She walked to police, now there are 4 charges on me.
(1)Assaulting my wife,
(2)Assaulting my [pre-school]child (off course I never ever hit my child, she faked at police),
(3)Using offensive weapons(i took when police reached my home to arrest me, and asked for my wife and daughter passport, first time facing police in the emotion i took knife and said police I cannot see my daughter again I will hurt myself),
(4)Breaching protection orders(a week later my wife served my protection orders though police, I accidently dialed(went as missed call) to her whatsapp while scrolling through her chats with me, she used this chance to file one more charge against me).
I served in [redacted] Central Police station prison twice, once on the day of incident and sencond one 1 month later for breaching protection order.
Child lawyer arranging supervisor for my child visit. Child is with my wife at Present. Child lawyer recommends to appoint professional supervior from an agency called “[redacted]”.
I am not sure how easy for me in having the court eastablished professional supervisor. Courts also appoints an interpretor along, as I speaking with my daughter basically in [an Indian] language. We are [redacted] by mother tongue and my child is not familiar at English.
After the physical harming incident police prosecution has put my wife and daughter at Women’s refugee. My wife has told her lawyer that she decided to end the relationship with me.
I have also been put out of my rental house by the tenancy protection act. Now have not proper house to live. Living in a freiend’s assistance
Now I am paying a huge to my lawyer to defend myself in court and to get the last 3 charges discharged.
I am not a resident or citizen in New Zealand. I am from India and I am living and working in [redacted] on temporary visa. My wife and daughter are also on temporary work visa whose visa are dependent on my work visa.
All my wife want is, live permanently in NZ and her plan is to get the permanent residence status. She do not want to depend on me for applying residence visa.
Moreover she do not like that I am being too conservative towards saving money for our future. She wants to lead a luxurious life and keep spending more money
Now she is using my child as weapon, as she know that I love my daughter like anything. She want to split away my daughter from me. She wants to gain residency status in NZ using the present situation.
As I got criminal charges it is unlikely that I could able to apply for PR. At worst case I may need to leave NZ and deport to India if I am convicted.
I have agreed before police and court for the physical harming I did on my wife, but police or court didn’t given ears when I try to say that she physically assaulted me first and provoked me to hit her.
She did intentionally, to put my residency in trouble and to split my daughter away from me. We have been living in NZ for past [redacted] years.
I was in the process of apply for our permanent residency just the days before incident happen. I did all my efforts to my wife, for her to live with me wherever i had traveled since we married in [redacted].
But after we arriving at NZ she has joined the Play Center as cleaner and she learnt a lot from the ladies there on how to use the NZ police and Law here to put me in trouble in order to execute her plans.
I am looking for some immigration advice here, I tried contcting some immigration lawyers, that look sto be highly expensive about $500 per hour, that I am no affordable to pay
May I get some help.