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I am a BOY,,, how am I supposed to be??????

Filed under: Boys / Youth / Education,Gender Politics,General,Men's Health — mama @ 12:32 pm Thu 18th July 2019

I know two BOYS,,, one 8, one 10,
Their Lady teachers talk to them in Baby talk, they are 8 and 10!,, 8 and 10!!!

I see other Boys, often they have no Dad,,, their Mothers talk to them like Babies!!!

Please some one tell me, who they will be, will they be okay, will they be strong of mind?

Who will be their role models????

We forget that kids are little people, they are clever as hell, how can we shield their ears when they are coming into contact with the pitchforks of ‘right now’s’ society.

It would be really fantastic if we could put away the pitchforks and give ourselves, as human’s, the respect we really deserve, simple decency and respect for the earshot of one another.

While some push for change so rapid it disregards the other person, it will only serve to disrupt.

6 Responses to “I am a BOY,,, how am I supposed to be??????”

  1. mama says:

    They need to be told and feel they are needed/necessary, at the current rate of change and speed of life, are we giving them this?,, all children?, each and every one of us for that matter, are we needed?,,do you feel needed.

  2. Evan Myers says:

    The way I view this is on the basis of the incompetent woman.

    By talking at the child in a age reduced manner attacks the child’s integrity. I see it as a form of intimidation to keep control of the child rather than a constructive dialogue relevant to the child’s learning.

    Grates my teeth also.

  3. mama says:

    This Evan is a big and important overlooked practical way forward to re introduce the Male importance and potency, I am talking about EDUCATION, education has had heady times of recent, much time in the media, it would be the perfect time to launch into the media the push for more Male teachers…get media asking the questions as they do for women,,, we need more women this, we need more women that…Dr Paul Callister all those years back looked at the declining stats for Mens uptake for higher education in this country…

  4. JustCurious says:

    To every child his/her language.
    reminds of khalil Gibran again…

    “Three days after I was born, as I lay in my silken cradle, gazing
    with astonished dismay on the new world round about me, my mother
    spoke to the wet-nurse, saying, “How does my child?”

    And the wet-nurse answered, “He does well, Madame, I have fed him
    three times; and never before have I seen a babe so young yet so
    gay.”

    And I was indignant; and I cried, “It is not true, mother; for
    my bed is hard, and the milk I have sucked is bitter to my mouth,
    and the odour of the breast is foul in my nostrils, and I am most
    miserable.”

    But my mother did not understand, nor did the nurse; for the language
    I spoke was that of the world from which I came.”

    https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/58705/the-other-language

  5. Evan Myers says:

    https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/ptsd-symptoms-self-help-treatment.htm

    Haven’t read an article on PTSD for some time but this one touches on consequences of separation and children.

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