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Mothers lying to win child custody battles

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 11:51 pm Thu 17th June 2021

I don’t care too much for the presenters’ mannerism. Perhaps it’s her way of getting up the courage to speak. But she did receive over half a million views, 8000 comments and 34,000 thumbs up.

41 Men each week in Australia. Thats almost 6 a day. 1 every 4 hours.

She talks about in 2003 ACT New Zealand Social Welfare Spokesman Dr Muriel Newman today called on the Government to make provision for shared parenting in its Care of Children Bill – to avoid New Zealand mirroring Australia, where family law is driving many fathers to suicide. That was almost 20 years ago. Nothing has been done.

In 2017 Jacinda Ardern was moved to tears outside Parliament over a suicide awareness campaign.

They must have been crocodile tears, as still nothing has been done.

I’m thinking of voting Act. Act only needs to hold the balance of power to force change.


  1. We all know this type of revengeful behaviour has been happening for years. What we are lacking is taking it to the next step. Into the public domain. Presently you can hardly go a day without seeing or hearing a story on how bad men are. The morning TV and Radio shows have a constant revolving door of women representing women in some way. The issues men face have no public voice that can balance the scales.

    Comment by ErasingDad — Fri 18th June 2021 @ 8:48 am

  2. I recall a debate in the last few years looking at where the state structure was headed.

    There was no conclusive agreement on that as I recall.

    One suggestion I believe was that all women are equal within the State and men are outside and responsible to the state.

    That’s not a situation of equality but perhaps more realistically describes the situation for any couple not in a harmonious relationship.

    Comment by Evan Myers — Fri 18th June 2021 @ 1:30 pm

  3. Sometimes, the emotion of anger, appears.
    Who would not be angry.
    Men started dying, in the 1980s.
    Decades, becoming the normal.

    The media plays, puppet.
    No solutions they say.
    Help females more, that will help men.
    Persecute them, for petty things.

    So anger has not choice, but to surface.
    As those who have spoken for men.
    Have only asked for equality.
    For things to be fair, and just.

    Yet they cry temporary tears.
    For suicide victims.
    Even one burnt, at there steps.
    What, for the thousands of dead fathers.

    That they do nothing for.
    Saying positive discrimination, to help, protect women.
    And The Best Interests, of whom.
    But it gets worse.

    And my anger grows.
    I saw it in a picture.
    A white ribbon, on a commissioner, of police.
    The bias, palpable, his obedience.


    Luckily I have for the best part, not been violent.
    Just annoying.
    So anger rarely surfaces, in the real world.
    As something, must be done, for things to happen.

    Anger can be a great motivator, for events.
    Philosophy speaking, for good thinking.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Fri 18th June 2021 @ 5:37 pm

  4. I liked her sense of humour.
    Horrible subjects need humour sometimes.

    Essentially it’s like racketeering.

    “Racketeering is a genre of organized crime in which the perpetrators set up a coercive, fraudulent, extortionary, or otherwise illegal coordinated scheme or operation (a racket) to repeatedly or consistently collect money or other profit.”


    Easy to prove.
    They have your children under there control.
    They dictate, who sees them.
    Also, make this allegation, as a coerced, bribe.


    Easy to prove.
    As there is endless case history.
    Of exposed lies.
    From paternity fraud, to bigoted police safety orders.


    Easy to prove.
    If you don’t go to court.
    You don’t see you kids.
    And Child Support is maximised.

    Illegal coordinated scheme.

    Easy to prove.
    Mass enabling of female sex crimes.
    Internal Affairs, plus IRD.
    Police, plus Justice System.

    Collect money or other profit.

    Easy to prove.
    Lawyers charge, large fees.
    To desperate people.
    Without choice, compulsory.

    So it’s a racketeering enterprise.
    Built on propaganda, and Gynocentric humans.
    The addiction, to the money.
    To great, for integrity, to exist.


    Interestingly, think of this.
    People seperate, and often need help, settling disputes.
    One person, spends one day, examining the problem.
    Charging $1000, doing about 200 days a year.
    Hearing both sides, reading provided information.

    So imagine if one child born results in one case.
    60,000 / 200 = 300
    You need 300 case workers.
    300 * $200,000 = $60,000,000.
    My guess, that’s far less, than what Humans spend.

    Once Lawyers, get far more than, $1000 per ‘client’.

    $1000 a day, is enough.
    A car to get around, visiting people.
    Work from home, so some rent, power.
    Possible, even a part time secretary.

    Look 600 jobs, at no cost to government.
    A good first stage, instead of the racketeering, courts.
    The fees paid by the parents, $500 each.
    Even with payment plans, as low as $5 week.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sun 20th June 2021 @ 5:09 pm

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