It was always going to happen, but many people may still scratch their heads and wonder why? We look around us and see not only the current rabble of destructive youth, but an increasing number of adult female offenders, in particular you might observe, the multi-million dollar fraud club of mischievous-maids. I’m sure they compare […]

Hi, The mother of my child took her out of NZ 3 years ago against my will but the Courts allowed it so there was nothing I could do. She was 15 at the time but is now 18. I had very little contact with her while she was overseas because her mother gave a […]

News Clip Its not so common to see news stories mainstream like the one above. You just couldn’t miss it if you were a member of parliament. This site is about mens issues. But this problem is not just about men or even boys. Just reading some of the outcomes is harrowing for everyone involved. […]

Your guess is as good as mine – can’t they do anything?

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This newly named sexual orientation, ‘pornosexual’, is probably related to some extent to MGTOW. Under modern laws and administration, relationships and marriage have been made seriously dangerous for men. However, there’s no mention in the article about that aspect of the issue. Previous posts have highlighted a mounting campaign by feminist forces against pornography. We […]

My ex partner took out a protection order and I challenged it as she accused me of several things but as it always goes I lost and it became final …. I breached the temporary protection order by communicating with her online and sending her texts as I wanted to assure her I meant no […]

This study should be fascinating, probably for its poor research design, invalid extrapolation, poor reasoning and misuse of words that mean one thing to imply they mean something else. From what we can make out, the researcher surveyed a group of parents and found that 79% said they wanted their children to be free of […]

Media have given publicity to a NZ Family Violence Clearinghouse paper recently prepared by Dr Melane Beres called “Preventing adolescent relationship abuse and promoting healthy relationships”. The paper is an opinion piece citing various research papers of varying quality in support. This may have been lost on journalists who attributed various statistics to the ‘report’s […]

News story here. Where there’s a will, there’s a way to challenge it So what happens when your new partner hawks off with your house, money and stuff and your kids are left with little or nothing? I suppose a death is similar to a separation or divorce. Should it go to your kids or […]

Hi all I am thinking of going down this route as a step parent. Biological father lives on the other side of the world. Mother (my wife) has health issues, I need to be able to make calls on the spot re: children in case she can’t Biological father will oppose my application for no […]

I was invited to have dinner at my friends place last night, a middle-aged couple with a young daughter. They both (him and her) know of the troubles I have had to endure lately with me ex taking my kids etc (just for your info, I haven’t seen my 15yo and 13yo boys in over […]

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Last year, after my ex decided that she wanted another pound of flesh took my children from me under the guise of an interim custody order (I’m still fighting this in court). Prior to this (some 7 years ago and I’m sure no surprise to most) she obtained a protection order, which she then supported […]

The case of Auditor-General Martin Matthews appears to be another example of men being held responsible when women misbehave. Not much has fundamentally changed in attitudes since the era in which husbands were considered responsible for their wives’ behaviour and debts.

I’m sick of ‘White Middle-Class Male’ arogance. Rohan Lord got the wakeup call he deserved. Was he that politicaly naive, that socially disconnected, that remotely hopeful, that he could make any change by joining the Labour Party. He got chucked?

Okinoshima, an interesting idea. Perhaps NZ’s two main islands could do the same.

A kaleidoscope car appears at your door Waiting to take you away Climb in the back, with your head in the clouds And

A previous post discussed the misuse of a publicly funded swimming pool by banning males and allowing only females at the complex for several prime hours each week. Now we read that a girls’ school netball tournament has been banning men from any presence or role, including the girls’ fathers.

I really don’t think people get this, and it pains me to watch the chaos building around both the discussion and the prospective fix, which as I see it, is encouraging the problem, not helping it. As a young New Zealander

I need some reliable info. I have been crippled for the last year in custody hearings at the FC and my bet is I’m going to come second again! My predicament is that the is to be a final hearing next month and while I am entitled to legal aid I don’t use it as […]

This trend is quite something. Apparently it’s somehow related to being a feminist, or single, or something.

If either were my child, I’d definitely want a God to pray to for an explanation. Apparently they’re both in the Auckland High Court exercising their Christian principals and suing each other for defamation. They deserve each other, they’re a couple of spoilt brats, and equally a waste of good skin. Colin Craig the former […]

This is something I have wondered about for quite some time – whether electronic bail is applied more liberally for the ‘fairer sex’ for the same crime? A 29 year old woman, arrested yesterday, appeared in the Blenheim District Court this morning, charged with drug related offending and breaching electronic bail conditions. The prisoner has […]

What the hell…could you imagine a male getting the possible same treatment if the roles were reversed. Aspiring heart surgeon who stabbed boyfriend in England may avoid jail because she’s ‘extraordinary’