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Feminism are selling something women who are not going to be happy about later in their life.

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 10:35 pm Sat 8th April 2023

A calm and non-vindictive clip on how it works out for many women.

Sadly, they only find out when it’s too late.


  1. Highly recommend, watching the video.
    I can imagine it played, at a women’s conference.
    The young feminists, may not have heard it.
    The older feminists, may be real life versions.

    The video asks, what is a woman’s good life.
    What it looks like, and how to get it.
    Being a mother, is the best thing a woman can do.
    And that men, can be good willing helpers.

    To help men, we must also help women.
    How do we make, having children young normal.
    A society supporting it, not women gambling with body clocks.
    Thousands of good women, become childless as a result.

    The video shows the true value, of having a family.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Mon 10th April 2023 @ 6:59 pm

  2. I always laugh when people complain about getting what they wished for.

    Comment by golfa — Tue 11th April 2023 @ 2:17 pm

  3. 2nd-hand reports about two anonymous women regretting their life’s choices doesn’t establish the claims being made here.

    Reproducing and raising children to reproductive age may well be the best guess we have been able to achieve regarding life’s purpose. However, individual differences are significant and not everyone needs that. Also, the fact that evolution has selected different traits for male and female roles in successfully raising children to reproductive age doesn’t mean that we need to maintain those roles as our environment and circumstances change through technology and social cooperation. In current civilization women can and do contribute a lot more towards society, and therefore towards all our survival, reproductive and well-being success, through educating and upskilling themselves in addition to and even instead of maternal roles and duties.

    Comment by Ministry of Men's Affairs — Thu 13th April 2023 @ 7:29 am

  4. Geez I’m not surprised, politicians beware.
    They come for you, searching every comment.
    Dare not be sexist, or the feminists will lose there minds.–luxon

    So showing no intelligence, or sensitivity.
    That’s an attack on intelligence, implying they are stupid.
    And who could possibly, find a good joke offensive.
    All of a sudden, a character assassination is mandatory.

    “I like my Covid like I like my women. 19. And easy to spread.”

    That is a little clever, the joke has itself become infectious.
    I have learnt a secret, older women don’t like younger women.
    The young aren’t so sensitive, but the older women are.
    How dare the men, have peek desire for young women.

    He did everything wrong, the dirty old man.
    At a whim they could have controlled men, but wasted youth on feminism.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Mon 17th April 2023 @ 7:09 pm

  5. I liked the article, because hope is important.
    Certainly in my life, hope was necessary.
    In the worst of times, isn’t that what we cling to.

    She is right, we don’t cultivate hope.
    How many youth, don’t have things to hope for.
    Are we selling, dreams that are not real.
    Are these things always big things, like owning a home.

    I hope for the little things, things nobody notices.
    I tackle one thing at a time, with hope it ends.
    Soon enough life arrives, with a new problem.
    I hope a job goes well, or my kids have a good day.
    I have hoped tomorrow is over, as quickly as today.

    It’s no place to be, without hope for something.
    The hope not fantasy, the hope must be real.

    Girls do this, you can be the CEO.
    But very few, actually become CEOs.
    It’s like selling the dream, the boy being the rugby star.
    But very few, actually become All Blacks.
    Is feminism selling hope, that is in reality mostly fantasy.

    All the things girls could hope for, are not fantasy.
    They can be the CEO, even a sports star.
    Feminism will celebrate them, a proof feminism works.
    What of all the rest, what then of hope the dream failed.
    The family got ignored, hoping for it somehow wrong.
    The men all bad, and can’t be trusted.

    To late and single, childless and little of things to hope for.
    Sell that dream, to young girls.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Mon 17th April 2023 @ 8:37 pm

  6. DJ Ward @4: Yes, the feminists and their lackeys make such a song and dance about trivial matters they feel offended by while numerous laws remain on our books that seriously discriminate against men, men continue to be sentenced more harshly than women for the same crimes, the hugely disproportionate male suicide rate is not targeted with male-tailored programs and neither is the fact that men keep suffering 95% or more of the nation’s workplace and work-role deaths.

    Mr Jack’s joke was something that would arise from the average NZ man’s repertoire. Men surely have as much right to enjoy humour that suits them as anyone else does, at least if that humour is not cruel or encouraging of discrimination or abuse. There was nothing demeaning towards women in his joke. It referred to being attracted to and enjoying sex with adult women with whom sex would be entirely legal, surely a normal interest for men and a compliment regarding the biological appeal of women to men. There was no implication that such sex was other than fully consensual. What on earth could be any real problem with this? Aside from that, the content was not realistic but simply chosen for the pun about COVID-19. Maintaining some humour around serious problems is an important part of coping with those problems.

    Comment by Ministry of Men's Affairs — Wed 19th April 2023 @ 8:10 am

  7. Today I listened to a feminist, rabbit holed as bad as it gets.
    So she had a very interesting view, about her body.
    Children and it’s relationship with men, the enemy.
    Those things opposite, to feminism and freedom.
    Having children having a man, removing freedom.
    There rights over there body, absolute rights.

    She has a child, in her mid thirties.
    Instead of taking away, it gave more.
    You become least free, chained to the child.
    The child a part of her, the child her own body.
    A purpose in life, her own tiny body dependant on her.
    So the experience changed her, changed her viewpoint.
    The child is not the enemy, it’s what freedom is about.

    The freedom to give all of yourself, to someone else.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Tue 25th April 2023 @ 7:21 pm

  8. The feminists show, ideology can change culture.
    And in turn, that causes things to happen.
    What can look good, could turn out bad.
    History has bad examples, of ideology.
    People believe they are good, but the results are bad.

    Geez a confession, a story from a customer.

    The customer was in her mid fifties, and very eccentric.
    Raised in a religious home, and kept her chastity.
    But never found a man, none would commit to marry her.
    So she lived her life alone, and sadly had become a little mad.

    She confessed her regret, that she didn’t just live life.
    Took her chances, and just made love to someone.
    Had children even without a man, and not her lonely life.
    She got the best I could offer, with our hours of conversation.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Sun 21st May 2023 @ 10:24 am

  9. If that is a result for women, it’s also true for men.
    For half of women to be single, so will half of men be single.
    And I don’t see, how that is a good thing.

    Is it half of men being rejected, not meeting feminism standards.
    With just normal incomes, and just normal looks.
    Or is it half of men, rejecting committing financial suicide.

    Is it men rejecting pregnancy, or are women rejecting pregnancy.
    What are they teaching girls, about expectations of a man.
    Few men meet the standard, of the internets judgement.

    We look at women’s outcomes, but not the men’s outcomes.
    Maybe the half of men single, are to burnt to do it again.
    Lost the house, rejected for the child support money.

    There own family and the internet teaches boys, they are simply prey.
    So you get what you give, the genders no longer respect each other.
    And that’s a bad thing, are women now just prey for the body count.

    The family a bad thing, something that can wreck your life.

    Comment by DJ Ward — Tue 23rd May 2023 @ 6:37 pm

  10. Y’all, DJ needs therapy. Also, that’s not what feminism is. You also used the wrong their/there/they’re, your/you’re, to/too. If you’re going to spout misogynistic nonsense you may as well spell it right. also, your statistics are painfully wrong. You guys are illiterate.
    p.s please don’t take offence to this message, I do not intend to accuse you of rape. please educate yourselves, and maybe talk to a woman. Btw, I’m 13.
    Lots of love,

    Comment by kittenlvr54 — Thu 21st September 2023 @ 11:29 am

  11. #justiceforDJ
    lets get this trending y’all, get my boy some help. (DJ if you see this go to therapy) <3

    Comment by Kittenlvr55 — Wed 11th October 2023 @ 10:05 am

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