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Sat 4th April 2009

More CYFS Stupidity

Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 4:48 pm

Two boys aged 11 and 13 made a list of young girls (ages not reported) and sexual acts they wanted to carry out on those girls. The boys’ mother discovered the list and handed it to CYFS in 2006. CYFS sat on their hands and did nothing until it came to light that 28 of the girls on the list had been sexually assaulted or “targeted” (actions not reported). CYFS then leapt into action by calling a community meeting, presumably embarrassing everyone involved. The police are now investigating and the boys are being called “sexual predators”. (more…)

Sex Slaves Hiding Under Your Bed

Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 3:33 pm

This story is a good example of feminist irrationality and superstition. It’s the hoary old issue of trafficking “sex slaves” to work in NZ. Despite there being almost no evidence of it, the feminist crusaders insist it must be a much bigger problem than has been shown. And our new Immigration Minister, although agreeing there is no evidence, doesn’t want to cross the feminist oligarchy so proposes an expensive taskforce involving seven government departments to identify and stop all this trafficking that might perhaps be happening or might perhaps happen in the future. Quite incredible. (more…)

CYFS considers itself above justice

Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 12:18 pm

This story reported that CYFS interrogated Chris Kahui’s partner while she was giving birth to their next child. According to Mr Kahui, CYFS banned him from any contact with his new daughter except in the presence of a CYFS-approved supervisor, and they threatened to remove the baby from her mother if he disobeyed their command.

Regardless of what we might think of this man or other family members, CYFS actions here are sexist and highlight their denigrating attitudes to fathers and favouritism towards women. When Chris Kahui was prosecuted for the killing the Kahui twins, the jury took “only minutes” to acquit him. The evidence did not rule out the possibility that the mother killed the twins, and regardless it raised serious concerns about the mother’s lifestyle and ability to protect and otherwise to care for her children. The jury heard all the evidence in a long and thorough trial, but CYFS now decides it is better placed to judge the case. CYFS leaves the new baby unsupervised with the mother and treats the father as the primary risk. Under NZ’s laws based on feminist ideology, CYFS has no need to respect civil rights, to treat someone as innocent unless found guilty, or to respect any right this baby has to develop normal, unencumbered bonds with her father that can secure his commitment to a long term role in her future. Instead, CYFS is allowed to operate a policy that sees the mother as being much more important than the father, and that overlooks the same risks and shortcomings in mothers that will readily be used to justify trashing children’s relationships with their fathers.

Fri 3rd April 2009

Maori crime rate down to early childhood maltreatment

Filed under: General — Vman @ 9:01 pm

Note that in the following story there is not a single mention of fathers. They step towards it by identifying the first 5 years of life as being very important. However they fail to identify all the key factors.

You will often read about “poverty” leading to crime. However this is not so. My parents were dirt poor when they were children.  My father was malnourished they were so poor. They would never dream of doing anything criminal.  Their fathers would have dealt with them if they did.

I put “poverty” in quotes because we are talking about 1st world poverty which is not poverty in the slightest.  It just means they are poor compared to the rest of the society they live in.  Sound research studies show that these negative outcomes are not linked to “poverty” as such. It is just that these poor families are much more likely to lack involved fathers and there is more likely to be a lower value placed on education.

What I do find interesting is the reference to a higher percentage of mothers with mental health problems. I haven’t read research about this factor before. I’d love to read the full research paper.

From TV3:

A forum at Parliament designed to look at the causes of crime has heard that the high Maori crime rate can be put down to the fact that Maori are over-exposed to risk factors that lead to crime.

Factors such as childhood maltreatment and poverty.

While some may claim it is just another talkfest, many at the Drivers Of Crime forum today hope some of the ideas will help stop Maori ending up behind bars.

“I hope it is going to be a lot more than just a hui day and a talk day and see you later, we’ll get back to you after the next election,” said social worker Edge Te Whaiti.

Academic Richie Poulton says Maori are at greater risk of experiencing factors which lead to anti-social behaviour.

“I think there is enough evidence to suggest that they have exposure to a whole lot of risk factors that are higher than for Pakeha,” he said.

Those factors include poverty, childhood neglect and mothers with mental health problems.

Maori Party co-leader Dr Pita Sharples says Maori are 11 times more likely to be jailed than other ethnic groups.

“Maori are more likely to be apprehended, more likely to be placed before a court, more likely to be convicted and more likely to be incarcerated than any other people on the same charge,” he said.

The Greens are calling for a separate justice system for Maori. They say the system we have now is biased.

“A justice system could do a very good job for Maori victims and offenders in removing the bias from the system,” said Green MP Metira Turei.

National’s Justice Minister Simon Power was dismissive of the idea though.

“It’s an interesting issue, I wouldn’t subscribe to,” he said.

The Maori Party says it is already been working on alternative Maori solutions in the justice system.

“We have some restorative justice which began for Maori, now they deal with everybody and they are really brilliant. But, they are Maori solutions” said Dr Sharples.

Mr Poulton says if you really want to reduce crime in New Zealand society, early intervention, ideally in the first five years of life is key.

Real Life – Radio Interview

Filed under: Events — Julie @ 8:14 am

This Sunday on Real Life, our guest is National Director of Family First, Bob McCoskrie.

Real Life with John Cowan is a weekly nationwide chat show, featuring a different high-profile guest every week. John talks with them about their life, their upbringing, their passions and their view of the world. And when appropriate, we chat about faith, spirituality and “God-stuff”.

Real Life with John Cowan is all about the big questions of Life.

Real Life with John Cowan is an interactive programme, so please contact us with your question or comments here.

To speak with John Cowan on Real Life on NewstalkZB…

    ph 0800 80 1080
    fax 0800 00 3299

To find Radio Frequencies in your area click HERE

Thu 2nd April 2009

Family First news

Filed under: General,Men's Health — Julie @ 6:13 pm

1. Families Comm’n Pushes Anti-Smacking Ideology

In an Op-Ed in the Timaru Herald (27 March 09) entitled ” Positive Parenting means not having to smack ” the new chief commissioner of the Families Commission says:

  • the anti-smacking law is working well and is achieving what was intended (WRONG – see item #2)
  • the law change did not introduce any new criminal offence (WRONG)
  • healthy, positive relationships within families do not involve people hitting each other.. (ARE WE STILL TALKING ABOUT A PARENT CORRECTING A CHILD WITH A SMACK?)
  • positive parenting strategies (such as rewarding good behaviour and distracting young children and ignoring minor unwanted behaviour) are far more effective and safer (SO DO I SIMPLY “IGNORE” MY TWO YEAR OLD LAUNCHING FOOD FROM THE HIGH CHAIR? DO I TURN ON THE WIGGLES TO “DISTRACT” MY 4 YEAR OLD EVERY TIME THEY HAVE A TANTRUM AND SCRATCH MY FACE!? AND WHAT IS ‘MINOR UNWANTED BEHAVIOUR’?)
  • some of this ‘progress’ could be undermined by the Referendum (IN OTHER WORDS, ‘THE PEOPLE’ SHOULD SHUT UP!)
  • Family First responded with an Op-Ed published the next day in the same paper entitled ” We owe it to good parents to get smacking law right ” written by researcher for Family First Sue Reid. In it she says:
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    Wed 25th March 2009

    Women burglars target elderly

    Filed under: General — Vman @ 3:23 pm

    Blenheim residents are being warned to be wary of women talking their way into houses under the pretence of using phones or toilets, following burglary complaints.

    Constable Michelle Stagg said police in the past week had received three complaints relating to two females preying on elderly residents in the Springlands area.

    The pair, in their 20s, talked their way inside, with one keeping the resident occupied while the other stole cash.

    Police were not certain whether the events were related, but said it served as a reminder as to why residents should not let strangers into their homes.

    Anyone who has been targeted by a pair of women, or with information about who they might be, was urged to contact police.

    Plane birth woman charged

    Filed under: General — Vman @ 3:15 pm

    The woman who gave birth to a baby on an international flight from Samoa to Auckland has been charged with abandoning the baby girl and assaulting her.

    The 29-year-old Samoan woman’s baby was now in the care of Child Youth and Family (CYF) and the woman due to appear in the Manukau District Court today.

    Police today announced the woman had been charged, six days after cleaners found the baby in a toilet rubbish bin on a Pacific Blue flight from Samoa to Auckland.

    The mother apparently was on her way to New Zealand to work as a kiwifruit picker when her daughter was born.

    The infant was found after the woman had left the aircraft. The mother and baby were both taken to Middlemore Hospital in South Auckland.

    Tue 24th March 2009

    Woman denies false rape claim against police recruit

    Filed under: General — Julie @ 4:31 pm

    There have been heated exchanges at a rape trial at the High Court in Wellington, where police recruit Mark James Tulloch, 31, is accused of raping a woman he met on an internet dating site.

    A lot is riding on getting to the truth now a days with the push from feminists to find more men guilty of rape charges and men who are innocent and not wanting to go to prison for around 8 years on a false allegation.

    This case is really juicy.

    A single mother has been on dating websites writing sexual, talking sex over the phone and having text sex including pictures of herself naked to other men.

    She meets up with a man, invites him back to her house for a shag, gives oral sex, drinks more with the neighbour and then accuses the man of rape after they have sex.

    But this is not the only man she has accused of rape. Another man is waiting trial for an accusation from her also.

    The defence lawyer has accused her of being a dangerous woman who has made false complaints in the past. But she says the rape did happen, and she has gone through a huge amount of suffering.

    Read full story HERE

    Mon 23rd March 2009

    Woman murders, dismembers husband then hides parts around Australia

    Filed under: General — Vman @ 4:49 pm

    A Sydney woman admitted to hacking up her husband’s body before disposing of it at various locations around NSW, a court has been told.

    The torso, legs and one arm of 47-year-old Revesby man Wayne Robert Chant were found dumped in three separate NSW locations more than 16 years ago.

    “The crown alleges that the accused shot the deceased at their home in Revesby. She then took the body into the back yard and dismembered it,” Mr Hobart said.

    “She cut off the legs and the arms and the hands and the headless, armless, legless torso was then disposed off.”

    The body parts were kept in freezers in the Chant’s home before being hidden at various sites around the state, he said.

    Sat 21st March 2009

    I think Psychologists are the ones that need therapy

    Filed under: General — sonnyking @ 11:43 am

    I have come to the realisation that the psychologists the Family Court employs as their s133 Report Writers are available because they would not be accepted in the reality world of psychoanalysts.

    I have discovered this first hand when my partner and I were ‘advised’ by the Court that a fifth, yes 5th s133 report was going to be prepared regarding my partner’s youngest child’s cry about the treatment he was and is receiving from his mother. We fought for a new psychologist and were welcomed with the news that a Ms T from West Auckland would be constructing the report by way of interviews etc. you know the drill. (more…)

    Fri 20th March 2009

    Philippine Story

    Filed under: General — blamemenforall @ 10:22 am

    From the Los Angeles Times:

    Philippine women’s groups say there’s a plot to free U.S. Marine convicted of rape

    Lance Cpl. Daniel Smith was convicted in 2006. Now the alleged rape victim has recanted and moved to the U.S. Philippine women’s activists charge that authorities are conspiring to set Smith free.
    By Paul Watson
    March 19, 2009

    Reporting from Manila — Women’s rights activists accused U.S. and Philippine authorities Wednesday of conspiring to free a U.S. Marine convicted of rape after his alleged victim recanted her assault claims and reportedly moved to the United States. (more…)

    Thu 19th March 2009

    83% Still Want Smacking Law Fixed – Poll

    Filed under: General,Law & Courts — Julie @ 8:56 am

    We thought you’d be interested in Famiy First’s latest Media Release. Feel free to forward it on to your local MP and others on your Contacts list.

    PS… If you support the work and ‘voice’ of Family First NZ and would be willing to contribute towards the cost of this research, we would greatly appreciate it! DONATE HERESmall amounts of money are appreciated just as large amounts and donations are tax deductible … “Donations qualify for the Donation Rebate”..

    Family First Media Release 18 March 2009
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    Wed 18th March 2009

    Scouts Manukau

    Filed under: Events — Julie @ 12:55 am

    Scouts Manukau is running an event in conjunction with Stuart Fleming, it’s a great opportunity because:

    Stuart is very experienced in dealing with young people — he is the Scouts NZ National Commissioner, with plenty of first-hand experience in such challenging roles as Leader in Charge of the Youth Services Team (15-20 year olds) at recent Jamborees

    He is a professional speaker, and highly entertaining, as well as full of great practical advice.

    His techniques work just as effectively on spouses, colleagues and clients!

    He is offering this evening at special Scouting rates, and the chance for Groups to use the event as a fundraiser also.

    When: Thursday March 19; 7:30pm until 9:30pm

    Where: Te Tuhi Arts Centre, Reeves Road, Pakuranga (behind The Plaza)

    Cost: $10 per person

    If this is of interest we’d welcome any parents and children who would like to attend.

    Tue 17th March 2009

    Woman murders and Eats Her Friend

    Filed under: General — Vman @ 2:50 pm

    MOSCOW (AFP) – A woman from Russia’s Siberian region of Irkutsk has been arrested for killing a friend and then eating part of the corpse, Interfax news agency reported, quoting local investigators.

    The incident occurred on March 5 when the two women were drinking together at the suspect’s home and an argument broke out between them.

    “Investigators have information to suggest the woman cooked pieces of her murdered friend and ate them,” said an official with the Russian prosecutor’s investigative committee, Vladimir Salovarov.

    He added that the perpetrator killed her friend with an axe and that uneaten parts of the victim’s body had been found in a nearby waste bin.

    The detained woman had confessed her guilt, Salovarov said.

    http://www.shortnews.com/start.cfm?id=77649

    Counsel to assist the court

    Filed under: Law & Courts — Ken @ 9:54 am

    Hi folks
    I have noticed an increasing tendency for judges in cases in Hawkes Bay to appoint a ‘counsel to assist the court’ in FC cases where the father is self represented.
    I’m just wondering if there is a trend in any other regions?
    For the record they don’t seem to add much to the proceedings other than cost to the tax payer!
    regards
    Ken

    Mon 16th March 2009

    Hot Tips on Growing Boys with Ian Grant

    Filed under: Events,General — Julie @ 11:55 pm

    Let’s believe in our boys and ensure they have the best opportunities to become secure and loving men.

    Boys can be bold, bright, challenging and fun.

    This seminar will not only share the latest research on boys, but will also give great ideas and insights to help boys thrive.

    Ian Grant is brilliant! Nothing else can describe him.

    He speaks on radio all the time about the breakdown of families. His workbooks have been picked up by Psychologists, foster parents and others working with children. He had, when I attended a seminar years ago, taught the police in New Zealand and Australia how to deal with youth and may still be doing this.

    If you can attend this … you will not regret it.

    When: Tuesday 24 March, 7.30pm — 10.00pm
    Where: Dunedin Town Hall, Dunedin – Show map
    Restrictions: All Ages
    Ticket Information:

    * Double : $35.00
    * Single: $20.00
    * Buy Tickets — 0800 53 56 59

    Website: www.theparentingplace.com

    Sun 15th March 2009

    How outdated is feminist programs?

    Filed under: Domestic Violence,General — Julie @ 2:28 pm

    It is really sad how programs work. This is not a perfect description but it isn’t far off.

    Someone came up with a theory and this theory extended to other theories. (All students are learning these theories). Then and now research is done by hypothesis to measure these theories. Sociology does this and so does scientific study when it is combined with sociology. After all, the 2 are so different but both need to exist at the same time.

    Anyhow, some one funds this theory and it’s hypothesis research and people lobby to get it released and implemented. All the way through it’s process someone is funding all actions.

    When it comes to domestic violence women’s studies dominate research. Even if you have men’s research it is made around women’s studies known today as gender studies.

    Anyhoo, back to the programs.
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    Sat 14th March 2009

    The Pre-feminist Situation

    Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 4:03 pm

    I came across an interesting piece of information. According to the NZ Doctor magazine only two NZ GPs have had memorials built in their honour. One of them was Margaret Cruickshank, the first woman GP to be registered in New Zealand. She died in the 1918 influenza epidemic, and a marble statue was erected in her honour in 1923. A photo of the unveiling of the statue shows the many men as well as women celebrating this woman’s achievement and service; see it at http://www.nzhistory.net.nz/media/photo/margaret-cruickshank-memorial.

    My point in drawing attention to this is to remind people that vitriolic feminist portrayals of pre-feminist society are often dishonest in suggesting that those few men who didn’t directly exploit and abuse women still denied women’s capabilities and aimed to keep women in their traditional roles without power or status. In fact, many men respected women’s contributions both mundane and extraordinary. The vast majority of men simply wanted the best for their wives and families. It’s well past time this was acknowledged.

    Fri 13th March 2009

    Child support payments: readers respond

    Filed under: General — Scrap_The_CSA @ 4:44 pm

    Many readers thought it a good idea to have non-payers of child support stopped at the border, but others see problems in any attempt to find a simple answer….

    Regards

    Scrap

    VICTORY!

    Filed under: General — Julie @ 3:11 pm

    DB says offensive signs will be taken down

    Here’s some great news for Friday the 13th!

    As a result of a local community protest against an offensive billboard, the company responsible has said it will be taken down. Brilliant!

    YES! It is worth speaking up . Congratulations to Voice Waikato. They have our full support.

    DB Breweries’ porn billboard sparks protest
    NZ Herald Mar 13, 2009
    A billboard asking “Would you rather watch porn with your Mum or your sister?”, has sparked calls for stricter controls on outdoor advertising. The billboard in Hamilton’s CBD advertises a pre-mixed drink made by DB Breweries. Advocacy group Voice Waikato has put up a sign in response saying “This is offensive – porn hurts women and children.” The controversial billboard sparked furious debate on talk-back radio this morning.

    Family First NZ today backed Voice Waikato, saying the billboard glorified pornography and could be seen by children and families.

    “It is offensive to many, and ignores the harm that pornography is doing in our community and the contribution it makes to family breakdown, addiction, aggressive sexual behaviour, sex role stereotyping, and viewing people simply as sexual objects,” national director Bob McCroskie said.

    He said the billboard’s publication showed advertisers were ignoring the Advertising Standards Authority (ASA), a watchdog that he said was viewed as “a toothless wonder.”

    Family First has called for a committee to be established to pre-approve billboards. Mr McCroskie said the committee should include specialists to advocate for the protection of children and families from offensive billboards. “Families are sick to death of being confronted with offensive material as they drive along motorways and through city streets.”
    http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10561488

    Have a great weekend

    Bob McCoskrie
    National Director

    Thu 12th March 2009

    Sweden reaps benefit of better nurturance of children

    Filed under: General — MAX @ 11:02 am

    One of the the world’s leading examples of peace and social justice achieved through childrearing reforms exist in Sweden. How did the Swedes manage, despite their relative scarcity of natural resources, and their Arctic climate, to prosper so much and advance so far socially? For instance, Sweden was one of the first countries to enshrine in law equal pay for men and women, in the ACT on Equality Between Men and Women at Work. Sweden has for a long time led the world in the care of children. Swedish churches instigated a universal literacy program over 200 years ago Universal elementary education began in Sweden in 1842. Sweden lowered its infant mortality rate before any other country in the world and continues to lead the world in this area. (1) (more…)

    Family First news

    Filed under: General — Julie @ 8:49 am

    1. Residents Win Brilliant Victory Over Brothel
    Family First Media Release 5 March 09

    Family First NZ is congratulating the Mt Victoria Residents Association (Wellington) for being successful in their legal action against both a brothel in their street and the Wellington City Council who allowed the brothel to operate there. “ This is a victory for families who have been victimised by the effects of the decriminalisation of prostitution — including street prostitution, residential brothels, and brothels located near schools and pre-schools ,” say Bob McCoskrie, National Director of Family First NZ. “In this particular case, residents complained of illegally parked cars, intimidating men, a client sleeping in his car, and the brothel being busiest during the middle of the day. The brothel was located close to a children’s playground, kindergarten, and primary school, and on a major walking route for children to two secondary schools in the area.” READ MORE
    Victory for residents over brothel TV3 News / Dominion Post 05 Mar 2009 READ MORE
    READ Full Court Decision

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    Wed 11th March 2009

    Corporal Punishment

    Filed under: General — MAX @ 1:01 pm

    Just read the comments on section 59 theme from 14. March 2007, – and felt the need to write this:

    Family violence produces social violence. Violence in the home is trans-generational. Violence in the home produces violent children. researchers can and have accurately predicted boys criminal behaviour, based on which boys had a history of violence in their upbringing.
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    Sun 8th March 2009

    UK MP discusses familycaught problems

    Filed under: Domestic Violence,General,Law & Courts,Sex Abuse / CYF — MurrayBacon @ 9:33 pm

    UK MP John Hemming has completed over 1 and half hours against the secret
    caughts on Edge TV. He’s really dishing the dirt on secret courts and
    dodgy social workers. It’s been uploaded to YouTube:

    YouTube speeches

    Campaign
    .
    What do you think about his straight shooting comments?

    Cheers, MurrayBacon.

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