When a man rejects a woman or has an affair that she finds out about, the woman feels the only way of handling it is to get revenge and hit back in any way possible to hurt the man. Even using the children. Why? Because that’s the only power she thinks she has left. When […]

NZ best place to raise kids? Not any more, says top judge There was nearly one incident of family violence every eight minutes during December and January. About 6000 children, more than half under 5, witnessed those incidents If you are a female thats been beaten, or a relative of a female murdered by her […]

News Flash: NZ Crown Law inundated with emails from around the world demanding Father’s Rghts lawyer be given his right to become a lawyer

It is not the brave new world of women, simply retrodictive ignorance, and a sad indictment of our society that as mothers and fathers, we allow our children to be used as the political fodder of egalitarian tyrants.

I can understand that many parents (male or female) paying child support are struggling. The saying goes that you will become financially better off if the two of you (parents) can work things out together. So the perfect resolution would be for both parents to sit down togehter and decide together how the children’s basic […]

(A Land Mark Case Is About To Come Down in New Zealand, and Supporters Must Act to Stop It)

Of all the titles a woman can earn in this land of female superiority, the ultimate prize has yet to be claimed – Queen of Nothing.

Family Court website of pulished decisions

“If we could survive without a wife, citizens of Rome, all of us would do without that nuisance.” So proclaimed the Roman general, statesman and censor Quintus Caecilius Metellus Macedonicus, in 131 B.C. Still, he went on to plead, falling birth-rates required that Roman men fulfil their duty to reproduce, no matter how irritating Roman […]

“all kinds of authority figures make it not only possible,
but permissible, for under-age girls to do as they
please.”

Three years ago my wife kissed me goodbye as she went out for the day with our young baby. Around noon that day as I worked from my office at the front of my home I had a visit from two police officers. They presented me with a 50mm high stack of papers and advised […]

The politicians have a field day slaging off parents who owe money to Inland Revenue for Child Support. Who are these “deadbeat dads” these “irresponsible parents”? I’d like to introduce you too some of them. I’ll let you judge if it’s the dads that are deadbeat or the Child Support Act 1991 and its administration […]

This sounds vaugely familiar… Minister for Senior Citizens Ruth Dyson has condemned New Zealand society for allowing elder sex abuse and other harm of the elderly to flourish nationwide. Ms Dyson was speaking following reports in Wairarapa and across the country of sons committing forced incest with their elderly mothers. “There is stigma for the […]

I read Als comments about international womens day, what a day of “celebration” it is, for women, and I look forward to international mens day…yehaa bring it on. I just have some thoughts on some things I notice: I’m a music nut, love videos of music. Ever noticed how many vids over the last few […]

Benson-Pope – So you will closing the family court next week minister?

It is somewhat paradoxical that historically our social freedom often relied on the virility to kill the enemy; now in a secure society it should for women rely on their ability to abort our future.

Interesting article for its social content on Sweden, which is very relevant to the NZ situation.

Michael Ellis was one of the giants of the struggle for children.
His children will never realize how much they were loved by the father they barely knew, nor how torn apart he was by their loss.

How can you spot a man in today’s world? It is getting harder and harder to see them in action. Should men play it safe? Let me offer you another perspective from the post below on this subject. It was put to us recently in a seminar by guest speaker Jed Diamond that unless we […]

If only people would stop talking about smacking and start understanding the significance and the implications of section 59 of the Crimes Act, and how it relates to our children – your children, and the future of fathers in New Zealand.

Doesn’t life have some amazing twists to it?? I wrote to David Benson Pope in 1994 when he was the Associate Minister of Justice. I was pleading for his help in relation to the PRA (Property Relationship Act 2002). I explained to him how the Act was not performing as was promised and from my […]

I help out in a support agency for men, I support and encourage them, I help also in management of this group. I have been through hell and ten years of theraputic personal work, and I am not stopping that any time soon, the rewards are too great. Why do it, why put myself through […]

Judge Andrew Becroft has previously linked violent crimes to fatherless homes, however that is not mentioned in this article.

Dear Menz Members & Visitors, I would like to thank John. P for this opportunity to place this on his notice board. I’m a Canadian that has, like countless other men, suffered under the unjust laws found in many western countries toward average men. I’d like to have a call out for New Zealand & […]

Call for submissions on Child Support Amendment Bill (No. 4) : Submisssions close 27 Feb!