We often talk about the disposable male; I attribute this phrase to Warren Farrell, but only because that’s where I heard it first. In being disposable the corollary is that male rights must also be disposable. Just to be clear, I am not talking male rights v female rights (which we often compare on this […]
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Child Support 103 – What Remains of John
The continuing story of John the Grain Farmer and The Drained Man. It was a small funeral, mostly the grain farmers from the hostel. The children sat with their mother, listening intently to the few men that got up and spoke about John, hoping they might hear a little about the father they never knew. […]
Child Support 102 – The Drained Man
Child support 101 – The Grain Farmer
IRD’s Genocide of Separated Fathers
The Culture of Denial and Feminism
When STUFF NATION put up their recent assignment, inviting writers to contribute to a debate on Equality in New Zealand (whether women have achieved equality in New Zealand society) I thought it might be interesting to look at this from the point of view of the background-role media play: whether media actually support equality of […]
Equality in New Zealand
A Stuff Nation Assignment running at the moment – Are Women Equal in New Zealand poses questions about equality: Maybe you think the fight for equality has gone too far the other way and it’s now men who are discriminated against in some areas…? What do you think it would take, and what should we […]
Police abuse ‘No smacking law”
Tauawhi Men’s Centre
Child Abduction
A Feminist Party?
When I saw this article the other day it confirmed my thoughts – the ones I’ve been sharing in recent posts – that we are now seeing an overt feminist political-position. Internet-Mana is a feminist party. No I didn’t say that. They did. Dr Pani Farvid, an Iranian-born psychologist at AUT, [The Party’s gender issues […]
2014 suicide figures released
Chief Coroner Judge Neil MacLean today released the provisional annual suicide figures for the year ending 30 June 2014. The total for the year was 529, which is the lowest number by two since the annual coronial figures were first produced for the 2007/08 year. There were 12 fewer suicides compared to last year, and […]
Fathers Day Picnic BBQ at Ambury Park
Join us on Fathers Day for a Picnic/BBQ at Ambury Farm, on Sunday, September 7th 2014, from 11am – 4pm Father and Child Trust welcomes families and friends, come and enjoy the animal fun and lambing season. Low cost sausages, drinks, steak sandwiches, ice-creams and coffee will be available. Local music, community and dad support […]
Who are the Red Fems?
A mention of thanks to two fine women.
Three years ago I was newly separated in auckland and I joined the single parents trust. I wanted to see how other parents remained close to thier children after separation. I found support and new friendships and the experience was extremely rewarding. My daughter and I joined in many exiting activities, well organised and without […]
The Suicide of Robin Williams
If Robin Williams had been a New Zealander we would not be having a discussion about his suicide, and certainly not publishing the method of execution, but the law in the US state in which Williams died is exactly the opposite – police are required to release all the relevant details of his death. The […]
Gendered Justice in New Zealand
I’ve seen women’s advocates in the Waitakere Court. They wander around the court like they own it and make the judge look like a clingon to the proceedings. When I saw a news article showing their direct influence in sentencing, I put up the post Women’s Refuge Justice System I had been waiting for another […]
NZ Judge – Women’s domestic violence and anger OK
This is a staggering article that brings to life the feminist philosophy that many people cannot accept exists in the Family Court. Worse the article highlights the disparity between what would normally be considered intolerable domestic violence and what is increasingly being considered acceptable female violence.
Ripping your heart out through your wallet
Robin Williams – A Great Men’s Advocate
Yesterday the world reeled from the sudden death of Actor/Comedian Robin Williams. Today tributes will flow, and rightfully so, from all corners of the earth, from those who knew him and worked with him, to those who respected and enjoyed his immense talent – he was a rare talent that could seize any moment, and […]
Lonely old men
My real live dildo
A female paedophile has been jailed for having sex with an eight-year-old boy more than fifty times. That’s seems reasonable. Loren Morris, 21, started sleeping with the boy five years ago She continued doing it for two years, until the boy was ten She was convicted of sexual intercourse with a child last month Today […]

