This is my first posting to this site. My post is anonymous, solely to protect the identities of my family. I am a father/grandfather, and shall respect the aims of this site, at all times. Some background. I have 3 adult children, one son has a current case with the Family Court. The situation he […]

Thanks to Allan Harvey and the UOF for responding to Radio New Zealand – who I understand  picked up  the story from the  MENZ website posts (Act 1 and Act 2) The story aired on Morning Report this morning . Dunne is still doing nothing – 7 years of broken promises and an intransigent Cabinet […]

A MOTHER prostituted her 12-year-old daughter so she could pay off her home loan and buy a couple of Commodores, a court has heard. The mother, of Glenorchy in Tasmania, who cannot be named for legal reasons, yesterday pleaded guilty in the Hobart Supreme Court to unlawfully procuring sex with a child, being the commercial […]

The wife of a Taranaki man left with brain damage after a vicious attack says Inland Revenue continued to demand child support payments from him as he lay in a coma.Brendan Hareb and his neighbour, Duncan Transom, were beaten after they confronted a group of young people smashing letterboxes in Eltham in 2006. Along with […]

I have enjoyed watching MENZ recently become more positively oriented and a big drop in destructive criticism. I value this greatly, as the destructive fights that have occurred deter many knowledgeable people from taking part in debates and offering their experience. Purely destructive fights also tend to devalue the material on this site, to casual […]

This woman turned a man’s life upside down with her false rape complaint. A truely hideoous crime in our society. Predictably the news paper report critises the victim for being unwilling to face his tormentor. At no point are we even told that the criminal was even charged with anything let alone sentanced. Then there […]

I wrote a letter recently to the Human Rights Commission (HRC) and I have now received their reply, as follows. Below that I offer my thoughts and encourage men to join me in challenging the HRC.

We are all here to offer support to each other through the difficult times many of us face through the family court system. Some may be having problems with CYP’s, IRD and need support. This group is open to all males and female within New Zealand and worldwide. http://www.facebook.com/pages/pauls-news/123309284346993 Please visit if you area Facebook […]

Some people think that: – Citizens should not be torn from their homes and children in the middle of the night based on nothing more than hearsay. – Men and women should not be presumed guilty until they can prove their innocence. – A secret tribunal should not have the power to force a man […]

According to this source, New Zealand has the 6th highest divorce rate in the world. In several countries the overall numbers of divorces are slightly reducing just recently. However this is primarily because the number of marriages are reducing. At the same time the amount of traffic on the internet shows that men are discussing […]

If your a liable or custodial parent  and want change to the Child Tax Act 1991 you are at the right page to start. Read Child Support and the Key Cabinet (Act 1 )first this will help you understand why we must begin a campaign to get Cabinet to take action to reform child support law […]

USA: CLEVELAND Officers received a call before dawn Thursday from a 15-year-old boy, who said his mother makes his sister tie his brother up every night or she gets beaten. They say they found the younger boy on the floor with his hands and feet bound behind his back with tape and a shoelace around […]

Peter Dunne advises:  “I can tell you that substantial work has recently been undertaken on aspects of the child support system, such as considering the income of both parents and the costs of raising children in New Zealand.  However, Cabinet for the time being has decided to defer further consideration of the issues. In light […]

Single fathers are discriminated against in many ways. However from my own expereince fathers raising daughters get it worse. Often this is subtle but it is felt by single fathers. This is a tradegy because a single father raising a daughter needs the most support from the community of any family. There is a greater […]

MOST single mothers are better off after the Howard government overhauled the child support system, although nearly 7000 have been left out of pocket by up to $60 a week. The Rudd government yesterday released two reports on the child support changes. When they were introduced in July 2008, it was thought most divorced fathers […]

Feminism and the refuge industry will have you believe the sex industry is awash with exploited girls forced into the sex trade against their will. The dirty secret is that (at lest in the UK) it doesn’t exist. It is a myth. This is so extremely rare to be inconsequential even though there are thousands […]

Day after day our news media report blatant examples of denigration, disrespect, disenfranchisement and neglect towards men and institutionalized favouritism towards women, but here’s one that deserves some kind of prize.

I have shared care and guardianship of my two children. They have been left a substantial amount of money by my ex-partner’s grandmother (their Great-Grandmother) which will set them up for life. I have only learnt about this by accident from a 3rd party. My ex-partner is taking my children to court to take their […]

I think most people on this site believe a child needs a mother and a father. I also believe this to be true. These days it is possible for a single man to have a child by surrogacy. That is his sperm, a donor egg from woman 1, a surrogate woman to give birth. The […]

Marriage strike A ‘marriage strike’ is the social phenomenon of men seeking to avoid marriage. The ‘marriage strike’ specifically refers to the action of men living within the Western world. Advocates of the marriage strike believe that after a considered cost-benefit analysis, the legal contract that is modern marriage no longer represents an attractive option […]

Approximately one half of committed relationships (marriage or de facto) result in separation — that’s a lot of separated adults. Between August 2007 and July 2008, the Family Court in New Zealand granted 10,000 divorces — and that doesn’t account for all of the de facto relationships that ended during that time. The breakup of […]

Given the huge amount of time and words women spend discussing relationships I find it rather surprising how little the majority of women understand about men. Here is an article titled What Women Need to Know about Men.

Two Rotorua women broke into a man’s house, burgled him and then black mailed him. One of them is a midwife. If she is found guilty it is my opinion she should be banned from midwifery or any medical profession. However I doubt there is any mechanism for this ban to occur. Imagine the out […]

A woman in Dubai is alleging rape. Consider the following law in a rational and objective manner. It occurs to me that the Dubai laws are in fact more just than our system. Although when I say that I assume that the judge has the option to rule that he can’t confirm either person’s version […]

Male teachers should be give an extra benefit paid by the government. That is an insurance fund to pay the legal costs in any abuse allegation plus compensation for the stress and impact on their career. I have no idea if the current case is valid or not. For all I know this guy may […]