This is not a commercial video with all the gleam a newsroom presenter adds to a short 60 second story.
It is unscripted.

Just 2 men who want to tell other men why you can’t get involved in a live-in relationship with a woman anymore.
Yes, it is from the US, but there is virtually no difference in NZ.

Perjury is not only acceptable in the family court, it is engineered, encouraged and endorsed because there is no penalty. Only vast rewards and near endless sums of money and or someone else’s land, home and all the items in that home.

The children remain the victims in their wellbeing, relationships with their dad and financial future.

The men are victims, and that’s a major compoenent of your four to one male suicide rate.

State-sponsored human rights abuse. The New Zealand Government knows it. The New Zealand Government hides it. But the money is just too good to give up.

The Australian Government closed their family court for this very reason. The New Zealand Government, now running low on credit, is holding on.

Thoughts on our ‘Confused World’.

In the Meditationes Sacrae (1597) by Sir Francais Bacon he says “knowledge itself is power”.

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Auckland Man Bashed By Police – Sexually Assaulted by Police

Seems the independent Police Complaints Authority are not so independent after all. It appears to be just a front to avoid criminal charges.

The length of time to investigate one(s) of their own on physical and sexual assault has taken far too long.

And why does the media print his name and not the offending sworn police officers?

Imagine the police bashing a woman, forcing her to take her underwear off in front of camera’s. And what were the police expecting to find down there anyway?

Imagine if a woman said to police she was sexually assaulted by police and the police told her “Well, you are a good-looking woman”. What is the name of this police sergeant? And why is that called banter if it was a man?

Where are the criminal charges Supt Naila Hassan? And why do you get to keep your job if you won’t charge your own with assault, sexual assault?

If I was in a gang, and we took a drunk woman from the street, made her sit in a drivers seat of car with her bottle of bourbon to frame her, bashed her, smashed her phone when she started to video me, pepper sprayed her, handcuffed her, stripped her, ripped her panties off, rubbed her vagina. – Where would I be now? That police person needs to face a criminal trial.

These actions are not a breach of the Police code of conduct, they are a breach of the crimes act. Where are the charges?

All credit to Mr Matt Burrows, an Auckland based reporter for Newshub.

Trust is the key.
I told you many years ago
But you couldn’t see
Trust is the key
It’s what binds humanity
But you wouldn’t listen to me
Are you listening now.
It’s the doorway to division
But do you see?

The next Men’s Summit 1-day conference will be held on April 29, 2022 at the RSA meeting room, 544 Maunganui Road, Mt Maunganui.

We are excited to announce that we have secured the attendance via internet of Warren Farrell as keynote speaker. You will be able to see and hear his presentation, ask him questions and discuss matters, and he will also provide an interactive experience with those attending.
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Probably the shortest and frankest video explaining how the world treats boys and the guaranteed outcome.

Scott Adams says when boys are treated like pieces of shit that don’t matter whatsoever, don’t be surprised if they act like the way they are treated.
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I really do think some people think this group never existed.

That’s about a third of the original team from around New Zealand with regional representatives from both North and South Islands that met in Wellington for the formal launch 20 years ago now in September 2001.

Most of the original members came from another existing fathers group somewhere around New Zealand.

This picture includes guest speaker Michael Green Australian QC and author of ‘Fathers After Divorce’.

This story highlights the male-blaming assumptions commonly held by police, in this case, an ex-policeman. He saw a car come to a screeching halt outside his place, saw a woman get out of the car ‘quickly’, then said “Doors were slamming open and shut and they were obviously having quite a heated domestic”.
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Ms Schow is doing a great job exposing misandry in US educational institutions and Bettina Arndt continues her great job of interviewing significant people. Can feminism and its supporters hold back the tide of reason and truth?
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A Labour of Love as they say:

That’s the way it’s been for most people passing this way – you don’t get paid for being here … you’re more likely trying to save the remnants of your financial integrity.

That aside who is making progress in the remnants of what we used to call the Men’s Movement?

There never really was a Men’s Movement rather than a loose connection of groups with similar interests who struggled to coordinate any great resistance to the Feminist juggernaut.

Some of these groups have faded into the past others I assume have taken on a different direction to suit their funding.

Are there any real shakers and movers out there making progress?

Given the recent events in Timaru, I am posting this news article in an effort to show what other nations do when mothers murder their children.
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I’m used to seeing anti-men memes … the flood washes over but this one was more like the dawn of reality.

Thought it was worth putting here for comments.

Do the many men who have visited this site and told of their plight, feel like they were hostage to something, but they didn’t know what?

Did you not feel like a hostage just that you had lost a degree of freedom and independence?

Apparently there is a freedom protest at parliament today.

The first thing that caught my eye watching the video that’s circulating was the number of women at the protest!

Maybe history doesn’t always repeat itself.

But it does at least rhyme.

Mark Twain.

There came a point in the past where an entitled women gave up her position and accepted a humble life because she realised what the man knew was worth more than what she had.

So, where in history has that story been told before and do we think it will happen now?

It’s convenient to separate sex from reproduction and this is an argument that blossomed under the Clark Administration,

Just a thought but what do you think?

That’s what they say, sometimes;

“I’m too blokey.,”

Someone has to do it, right?

You can’t have every male-bashed remnant riding off over the horizon on a horse of defeat.

FFS – as soon as he get’s that opinion going we better get it under control.

I need to be controlled?

God forbid … I might actually be able to think for myself, but I don’t qualify as a legitimate opinion … because that might offend someone?

That makes me representative, right?

Of what you don’t want to deal with?

A new report by the Coalition to End Domestic Violence (CEDV) shows that men are not the most common perpetrators Domestic Violence but are targeted in service of feminist and socialistic agendas.

CEDV Report: Thirty Years of Domestic Violence Half-Truths, Falsehoods, and Lies [485KB PDF]
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Some call them ‘Pastors of Muppets’

In small out of the way places men and in some cases women too running small independent church type organisations.

This one in particular came to light when the lockdown was announced for Northland otherwise it would likely have escaped the world’s attention.
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A mother’s story

The appeal into sexual abuse convictions arising from the Christchurch Creche case has begun in the Supreme Court. The defence will focus on four issues:

1. the children’s evidence was contaminated, and obtained using improper techniques.
2. expert testimony by psychiatrists mislead the jury.
3. an expert witness gave evidence about symptoms of sexual abuse which had no scientific validity.
4. the prosecution failed to “tell the whole truth”. The evidence was cherry-picked then ‘sanitised’.

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This I thought was interesting.

I see there are some fixed beliefs surfacing in many of our current conversations. It’s always good to see other points of view.

It is hard to keep up with the politics these days but it’s annual suicide statistics time again and a few more people have died

Opinion Credit – Australia

There is a short space of time between the male suffrage (12 years from memory) and one person one vote. Not to rehash our history – most of us know that bit.

There was a long discussion on this site in 2017 and what that might mean if Ardern became New Zealand’s prime minister.

Two elections later and if only men voted would Ardern still get the popular vote?

Complaints about NZ court Judges are not rare. Complaints proceeding to a hearing are extremely uncommon.

Last season there were 162 complaints. This year, 363 complaints.

Statistics show that complaints about the Family Court have doubled.

The Judge is entitled to have name suppression.

Judicial Conduct Commissioner’s Alan Richie on his said “On my assessment, the conduct, if established, would fall well short of accepted judicial standards.”

News story here

This is what separates the men from the women and the boys from the men – if you care about your country, you don’t have a choice but to understand and discuss these issues when politics fails to function. 

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