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Archive of Domestic Violence

Women’s refuge and boys

Mon 15th September 2008:

I found this article while trolling (gosh I like that word) some men sites which had me questioning how NZ works. BTW, Glenn Sacks is a wonderful advocate for men’s rights. The article was written to describe a DV conference and this is part of the article.

Evidence is easily swept away by Sympathy

Tue 2nd September 2008:

This should never happen, in a court that takes justice seriously. This is so fundamental to successfully delivering justice, that the judicial oath was written to cover this issue. (see Oaths and Declarations Act www.legislation.co.nz) In the [human]-animal, decisions leading to action, are made in the emotional part of the brain. This enables a fast […]

NZ Studies identify father absence as factor in youth suicide

Sun 13th July 2008:

NZ Government funded research has identified total loss of father contact as being a common factor in suicides of youths, who have applied for Independant Youth Benefit. (This does not prove that it is causal, this is more difficult to prove.) The same researcher asks people to be willing to look at all research and […]

Police Safety Orders

Sat 28th June 2008:

Judge Paul von Dadelszen was interviewed on National Radio Nine to Noon on Wednesday 11 June 2008 in his role as Acting Principal Family Court Judge. His confident, resonant voice made him an ideal replacement for his slick ad-man boss in progressing dangerous abuse by the state as if it were beneficial. I thought it […]

Time for a boycott?

Tue 13th May 2008:

I am still finding the Family Court is very much tilted in favour of the woman. Consider protection orders. In Australia they expire after a year or two depending on type. Here they last forever unless you can persuade a judge to discharge it. I am making my third attempt in 5 years to get […]

Self Representation in familycaught

Thu 20th March 2008:

Should we be encouraging men and women to represent themselves in the familycaught? Surely, if we trusted the values and integrity of the “judges”, then legal workers wouldn’t be required at all? By emphasising their unpredictability and unreliability, “judges” put massive pressure on to parents, to be fleeced by their junour brethren, the legal workers […]

Mayor refuses to swear in chairman over Domestic Violence

Tue 18th March 2008:

Mayor Bob Harvey is refusing to swear in the winner of the New Lynn Community Board by-election because of the candidate’s previous conviction for domestic violence. Wayne Davis won the seat by being elected by the people. But Bob Harvey says “This city is running a campaign that says domestic violence is not Okay. So […]

Jail for texting

Mon 17th March 2008:

I’m a 45 year old, white male, well educated and (my opinion only and reading on, I have no doubt many of you will question this claim) of above average intelligence. I run my own custom audio/visual integration business (TV’s, stereos, etc), I’m far too busy and incredibly dis-organised as a result. My wife of […]

Review of the Domestic Violence Act 1995

Tue 18th December 2007:

The Ministry of Justice is carrying out a review of the Domestic Violence Act 1995 Somehow I don’t think we should expect substantial reform: Recently we have consulted government agencies, the judiciary and some representative interest groups to obtain an up-to-date picture of how the legislation is working. Most people we have consulted support the […]

Mother’s privacy more important than child safety

Wed 12th December 2007:

Dads not happy with mum’s violence challenge By JOHN HENZELL – The Press | Wednesday, 05 December 2007 A fathers’ group is outraged Christchurch police have been challenged for informing a dad that his children had been present during a domestic-violence incident between their mother and her new partner. The father learnt of the incident […]

Justifiable Anger Management – Five Ways Forward

Wed 28th November 2007:

J.A.M has been developed by Jim Bagnall during and through his support for over 10,000 Fathers and a few Mothers going through the Family Court. The word justifiable applies to the context of the anger and its source and does not glorify anger in anyway. Justifiable is a word for an acceptance of that person’s […]

Automatic Protection Orders.

Thu 1st November 2007:

Link : What National is saying is that they are going to give our Police the same authority of a Judge to issue an interim injunction. This is an injunction that will automatically stop one party from associating with any children in that relationship.

NZ in overseas media

Wed 17th October 2007:

This rises by association with the “Terror Raids” http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/6309791.stm By Heather Sharp in Hamilton, New Zealand And in the most recent national survey of victims of crime, 42% of Maori women said a partner had abused them physically, compared to only 20% of white women. and We’re in many ways still a settler society, and […]

In every New Zealand classroom.

Fri 28th September 2007:

Scoop Release The stark reality behind New Zealand’s family violence statistics has seen the emergence of a new profession – that of Child Victim Advocate practitioner. Child Advocates from around New Zealand will gather on 4 October 2007 for a Hui sponsored by the Family Safety Team (FST) initiative and supported by the Ministry of […]

Latest DV response

Thu 27th September 2007:

The police shooting and killing of a man in Christchurch last night appears to be another tragic example of the DVA’s principles in action. The police were called to a domestic indicent and no doubt followed their current guidelines as demanded by feminist groups including Wimmin’s Refuge. They will have treated him immediately as a […]

Pumpkin

Wed 19th September 2007:

We don’t yet know all the details about the case of “Pumpkin”, the little Chinese girl whose father abandoned her in Melbourne on his way to the US. However, the case stands already as another dramatic failure of the Domestic Violence Act (DVA) because a protection order was in place that failed to protect and […]

More Double Standards

Fri 14th September 2007:

An article in the Herald yesterday entitled “Teen, 16, in violent tiff with lover, 42” highlighted the gender double standards and female privilege applied by police, Courts and the media. Police treated the case as one of domestic violence by a male and charged him accordingly. If the young person had been female and the […]

Smell the Campaign.

Tue 4th September 2007:

Spotlight on New Zealand Relationships 04 September 2007 12:43pm | Relationship Services Deaths and Violence Must Stop 04 September 2007 1:04pm | National Collective of Independent Women’s Refuges Call for public to be clear family violence not OK 04 September 2007 12:16pm | Families Commission New Zealanders Urged to End Violence 04 September 2007 1:29pm […]

No picnic for Fathers in NZ.

Fri 31st August 2007:

In a Fathers Day Statement Republican Leader Kerry Bevin puts family devastation clearly at the feet of the feminist agenda, and its moderate face, NZ Prime Minister Helen Clark. By allowing this Government to continue unchallenged in the implementation of its pink policy we leave unaddressed the underlying causes of family devastation. “Family discipline is […]

Protection Orders – The Quantitative Figures

Tue 28th August 2007:

The data used to create these charts is sourced from the Family Court Website. I have published them in order to assist in critiquing the social marketing disguised as qualitative research of Waikato University Academics. This shows a continuing decline over-time of applications filed and final orders made since the 1998-1999 year.

The ways of certain women

Fri 10th August 2007:

A woman who killed her lover’s baby convinced him of her innocence for two years after the act, a Sydney judge has been told. Even after admitting the crime to police, the woman tried to implicate a stranger she met by chance in prison, according to a statement of agreed facts tendered in the NSW […]

The link between child abuse and father absence

Even someone who was with CYFS is aware of what the key problem is: “In a 20-year career mostly with Child, Youth and Family Services (CYFS), Mr Waru sees that the key problem in most troubled families is an absent father – either physically separated or “present but absent” because he simply doesn’t know how […]

Dr Vivian Roberts on child abuse and Court bias against fathers

Thu 9th August 2007:

I’ve just listened to a [sorry, this item is no longer available from radionz – Admin] http://podcast.radionz.co.nz/aft/aft-20070807-1607-The_Panel_part_1-064.mpx podcast of Dr Vivian Roberts talking about child abuse to Jim Moira on ‘The Panel’, broadcast on National Radio, Wednesday 8th August. Viv is a general practitioner in Hawkes Bay and a Fathers Coalition representative. He claims, very […]

Our cheap labour government.

Tue 31st July 2007:

All women to be questioned about abuse when go to hospital http://www.nzherald.co.nz/topic/index.cfm?c_id=146 Whilst in hospital women will be asked these three questions to see if she may have been abused: * Has anybody hurt or threatened you? * Have you ever felt controlled or always criticised? * Have you been asked to do anything sexual […]

Domestic Violence – a man’s side

Thu 12th July 2007:

This was an interesting tale on another MRA site that i couldn’t resist. Once again I will share my story of what happens in the Ventura county jail system: Once arrested you are given a 8 day top (I served 9 and droped community service). During this time the male will be on suicide watch […]

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