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Archive of Domestic Violence

The father must not criticise the mother

Sun 26th September 2010:

When familycaught personnel utter these words, they are really refusing to look at the parental competence of the mother. Although perhaps well meaning, for many cases where both parents are sufficiently competent in parental skills and mental health, their do-gooder approach completely fails to address the job entrusted to them by Parliament, for a significant […]

Police claim earthquake increased domestic violence

Wed 8th September 2010:

This piece of propaganda today deserves mention. It’s typical of domestic violence claims: vague, unaccountable and misleading. Vague, because the article gives no indication of what the claimed “increase of 53% in family violence offences since Saturday morning” was based on, how this figure was measured, exactly what it was measuring, or what the number […]

Womens Refuge defends violent murderer

Tue 31st August 2010:

From the Dompost : A woman who fatally stabbed her partner in the chest with a kitchen knife has been sentenced to just eight years in jail. Jacqueline Elaine Wihongi, 33, “self-medicated” with alcohol after a tragic “history of victimhood”, a court was told yesterday. She is believed to be just the second person to […]

Mothers in the news today.

Wed 14th July 2010:

Mother jailed for ‘cruel, horrible’ abuse


Mother rammed police officer with 5 year old daughter in car.

Aimee L. Sword gets prison for sex with her son

Home alone.


Mum gets 10 months jail.

Disabled Woman Left in 100 Degree Room Dies; Mother, Sister Charged

In Western Australia a mother failed to negotiate a bend and drove her car into a tree.


Mother, 19, charged with assault of former spouse.


Pregnant women who drink alcohol may reduce the sperm count of sons

Men’s rights issues and videos

Thu 8th July 2010:

I came across a couple of interesting short videos on the net that echo the message men give through writing on this site and thought “Hey, cool”. This one (below) is about men choosing surrogacy to become fathers rather than risk losing their children when a mother is involved.

What rights do men and women have to murder?

Mon 28th June 2010:

There’s an article in the NZHerald about killer Gay Oakes finding a new love and planning to marry. She was convicted of murdering her husband and sentenced to life imprisonment after lacing her de facto partner Doug Gardner’s coffee with sleeping pills and burying his body in the back yard of their home in Sydenham, […]

Car bonnet murder case appeal backed

Fri 18th June 2010:

Car bonnet murder case appeal backed A Taranaki woman who killed her ex-partner by crashing her car while he was clinging to the bonnet has been given a last chance to appeal against her murder conviction. What is the appeal based on?

New laws affecting men and other social moves

Sun 28th February 2010:

French men who seem likely to be violent towards their wives and female partners will be tagged and monitored under new feminist law. The proposed measure means men who have received court orders to stay away from their partners will wear an electronic bracelet and if they break the order, police are alerted. Parliament is […]

Angry that her ex-husband had won an order to have the children for the first half of the holidays

Thu 25th February 2010:

A Queensland mother has been sentenced to life behind bars for the gassing murders of her two children and the attempted murder of her teenage son. The woman, who cannot be named, was found guilty in the Brisbane Supreme Court on Friday night of two counts of murder and one count of attempted murder after […]

Men’s Health Australia takes on Minister for Status of Women

Sun 21st February 2010:

A leading men’s health organisation in Australia claims that the Minister for the Status of Women, Hon Gail Gago MLC, misled Parliament by maintaining that false statistics on the Government’s Don’t Cross the Line anti-violence campaign website are accurate, back in October 2009. The Minister defended the misleading statistics in Parliament, claiming that “the data […]

Jamaican Men’s Movement

Fri 19th February 2010:

I think it is appalling when men who study men’s issues under ‘gender studies’ at university condemn father’s and men’s groups who stand up for fathers and men to have equal rights. Women have come a long way changing society for females while men are still stuck in the past. Up until 2004, when a […]

Shared parenting – Do you think children have a right to a relationship with both mum and dad?

Fri 12th February 2010:

Lately I have been receiving e-mails from mothers introducing themselves as being in a shared parenting arrangement. It is nice for me to hear this because after 2/3 generations not very good at sharing, we have a new generation mediating between each other well. I am worried though, because I have been to a radical […]

Should Men’s Advocates Work as Access Supervisors?

Mon 1st February 2010:

Over recent weeks there has been heated (and often abusive) debate about Union of Fathers’ president Alan Harvey working as an access supervisor. He is not the first men’s advocate to have done so – Craig Davis from Shore Fathers has also been employed in this position, and likewise faced a torrent of abuse and […]

Battered husband who snapped

Sat 21st November 2009:

Journalist AN MUNRO over at stuff.co.nz has written an very sad and detailed article about Anthony Sherna killing his partner after suffering years of abuse and being sentenced to 14 years in jail. For almost 20 years he submitted in order to keep the peace. When she demanded he change his surname to prove he […]

Judge Boshier links suicides to family break-ups

Thu 19th November 2009:

By Simon Collins 4:00 AM Thursday Nov 19, 2009 NZ Herald A top judge has called for more mental health support for people involved in Family Court cases after finding 18 suspected suicides by people involved in the court in the 13 months to June. Principal Family Court Judge Peter Boshier, in a speech to […]

No rules of evidence for sexual violence allegations

Fri 23rd October 2009:

A proposal from the two-year taskforce for action on sexual violence, issued yesterday, would reverse the usual rules of evidence for sex cases. Note that many of the proposals are things like redefining the definition of consent so that the male is presumed guilty unless he can prove positive that an explict “yes” was given […]

Father’s suicides or parental suicides?

Wed 14th October 2009:

Dear Wendy, I read your article about father’s suicides, with quite a bit of pain. While men’s suicide shows up grossly and obviously in national suicide statistics, I suspect that women’s suicides due to court traumatisation from removal of relationships with children is a faster growing problem. The feeling of traumatisation due to injustice does […]

Call for Suicide Ideation Experiences – from Australia

> From: Suicide Prevention Australia > > Date: 14 October 2009 8:01:45 AM > To: greg @ dadsontheair.net > Subject: Senate Inquiry into Suicide in Australia: Have your say. > Together, we can make a difference… > Reply-To: [email protected] > > > Suicide and self-harm remain unacceptably high in the Australian > community with death […]

How women’s refuges work

Sun 11th October 2009:

Even Canada is challenging the corrupt business of feminism. Robert Franklin, Esq. from Glenn Sack’s has given a good description of what is going on in this video. Setting the scene Robert explains that Toronto Criminal defence lawyer Mr. Walter Fox describes in the video above how originally, the office of the Attorney General was […]

Domestic Violence month has given something for males to celebrate

Sat 10th October 2009:

October is Domestic Violence month and one court case alone in West Virginia, USA, has given a shimmer of hope for men in this terrible time of gender discrimination against them. A group of men and women against discrimination (MAWAD) have taken the state’s family service board to court over discrimination laws. Not only are […]

Lundy Bancroft Seminar – re: Shaping our Radical Feminist Future

Wed 5th August 2009:

I was fortunate enough to receive free entrance to the workshop on Domestic Violence by Hamilton Abuse Intervention Project. My day started with a map showing directions to the venue. OK, so all who know me well know I always get lost and some of you know how I end up far away and asking […]

re Shaping our Radical Feminist Future

Tue 14th July 2009:

I’ve just been sent a flier advertising a series of workshops about to be run throughout the country by the Hamilton Abuse Intervention Project. Anyone who knows the history of the 1995 Domestic Violence Act will have alarm bells going off at this point I’m sure. The workshops are called: re Shaping our Future – […]

Where is the Legal Help??

Mon 6th July 2009:

Hi there, About 6 months ago I applied for day-to-day care of my 16 month year old daughter. We eventually done counseling and came to an agreement. My ex and I were still trying to be friends and we still having a sexual relationship, and everything looked fine. Then in the space of bout twenty […]

Men’s refuge proposed in Tauranga

Denise Rewi, Tauranga Women’s Refuge advocate wants more responsibility put on male perpetrators of domestic violence. She says a men’s refuge for perpetrators of men’s violence would put the focus in the right place. Hmm, I had to ponder on this and make a few phone calls to see if this was something the collective […]

Bank of New Zealand v Bad Dad

Sat 4th July 2009:

Media release from the Political Busker. On Tuesday July 7th the Bank of New Zealand has filed proceedings against Wellington’s Political Busker, Benjamin Easton. The Bank is responding to proceedings of judicial review filed against them by Mr Easton. Easton claims that in June 2008 the Bank funded an advertisement that was gender offensive and […]

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