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Off topic, but thanx.

Tue 20th June 2006:

I have gained so much information and insight from males on this site and I want to tell you as many other people may do or forget to do, “Thank-you.” From having the opportunity to sit with the North Shore mens group, I can see you really help not just a father and child but […]

Judge speaks up on Family Court criticisms

Mon 19th June 2006:

Judge speaks up on Family Court criticisms Saturday June 10, 2006 By Chris Barton Graeme MacCormick retired as Family Court judge in December after serving 15 years on the bench. Here are his views on men’s groups’ protests. Will judges be intimidated by the men’s groups’ protests? I do not perceive the judges of the […]

The Kahui Twins

Sun 18th June 2006:

What level of inhumanity must a person descend to that enables him/her to in any way just upset or deprive a child? But what level of disgusting inhuman descent must one reach before seriously hitting a child is acceptable? What level of inhumanity could enable any person to hit, with such ferocity as to kill […]

Instant Dislocation

And now the Police want the power to issue ‘instant’ DVOs. It seems to me that this is yet another smoke-screen the police are using to ‘ease’ their work-load. The concept being, Herbert The Violent (that’s the Herbert who has just beaten the tripes out his spouse or children) can be slung out on his […]

I’ll say it again.

Fri 16th June 2006:

I have said it before and I will say it again. The government is pooling the funding. This means that for groups to receive funding they have to work together to get more funding. Maybe Jim’s opinion on this, just maybe will back me up. (But then maybe he doesn’t see how I see things) […]

Eureka, I have solved the problem!

Thu 15th June 2006:

Women have spent the last 20 years trying to solve this problem and it is only getting worse they say. Common sense needs to prevail. OK, so we know that biologically males and females are different but we don’t want to listen to that or take it into account, do we? So let’s combine the […]

Big News: Bradford & Kiro Disagree On Smacking

Tue 13th June 2006:

Opinion: Dave Crampton Big News with Dave Crampton Bradford & Kiro Disagree On Smacking Green MP Sue Bradford and Children’s Commissioner Cindy Kiro are in sharp disagreement over Bradfords bill which aims to remove reasonable force as a defence for child discipline from the Crimes Act. Such is the disagreement that Kiro refuses to comment […]

Interesting Snippet

From an actual case…..BTW, not my particular case. This is CYFS-V-J. CYFS apply for a S78 nd are intent on removing a boy with serious mental and physical issues which require specialist knowledge to manage and treat. The s78 is stayed. Later CYFS assert to the Court that a s78 was the wrong mechanisim to […]

Ex-Husbands Still Not Good Enough, Even When the Wife is Declared Abusive

Dateline: Boston Mass.US In a new report of children removed from abusive mothers in the US (Mass.) finds that when ex-husbands ask for guardianship they are turned down in numbers that are astonishing, as reported in the Boston Globe shows so clearly. (6/8/06). The report contains a shocking finding: when fathers inform child welfare officials […]

Solve this problem

Mon 12th June 2006:

This was 2 different situations for 2 similar 15 year old boys. I cannot keep it as it was because it could have an impack on the boys. But I have kept the comments. I leave this decision up to webmaster.

Anger over female violence claims

Sun 11th June 2006:

New Zealand domestic violence experts are dismissing claims men are more likely to be the victims of violence among young couples as irresponsible and damaging. The University of New Hampshire study shows women carry out more unreciprocated physical attacks on men while dating, than than men do on women. But domestic violence experts in New […]

Jury told to use common sense in domestic stabbing trial

An Auckland District Court jury in the trial of a woman charged with stabbing her husband heard closing arguments yesterday. The 34-year-old woman has pleaded not guilty to one charge of wounding with intent to cause grievous bodily harm. Police said her injured husband, 49, called them on February 20 last year about 3.30am, saying […]

Are we becoming equal?

Fri 9th June 2006:

It looks that there is a change happening in male and female relationships. According to a Match.com poll, 48 percent of men (and an equal percentage of women) reported dating partners who drew the same income as they did. Twenty percent of men reported dating women who earned more. There is a want and need […]

Power and Powerlessness

Wed 7th June 2006:

I see, like others, the effect the mens coalition is making on our country at the moment. Even Good Morning NZ has shown a part of the media’s coverage. But the time Good Morning has spent is about a book and once again it is stated that most parents sort it out without having problems […]

Arrested Mother, Suspected to have Killed 2 Kids, Blames Man

Mon 5th June 2006:

Dateline: June 5th, 2006 Japan (Intrepid) A mother, whose daughter drowned just over a month ago in a river, is now under arrested in the murder of a neighbour’s boy, while police are now reopening the investigation into the daughter death. After the police shied away from arresting another very suspicious mother again for the […]

The Supervised Access Industry.

I am a parent who has been “forced” to do supervised access as this is the only way I can see my child at present. The Interim custody order was granted under section 59 of the COCA.which relates back to section 29, which states “an order depriving a parent of a child must not be […]

Fathers and Children – website and refuge, Wellington

I have been in the FC system battling a co-op of Lawyer for Child, a Judge Wellington, an access supervisor and the system between CYFs and the family court law. Its been the most emotionally draining, un-reasonable, illogical and un-remitting series of events that I have faced. I have now seen my children taken out […]

Fathers v Family Court

Sun 4th June 2006:

Some dads say they’re not getting a fair go in the Family Court. Kate Monahan finds out why they are so disgruntled, and sits in on some cases being heard We’ve had a gutsful of the Family Court, their discrimination against fathers,” says Jack Gielen, a spokesman for the Hamilton branch of the coalition, which […]

Child Support Act and Child Support Issues

Parents for Children and Auckland Single Parents Trust are holding meetings around Auckland on the Child Support Act and child support issues that affect parents. The meeting is open to the public and free to receive information on what the child support act is about and how to deal with it by speaker Mark Shipman […]

The Silence of the Damned

Sat 3rd June 2006:

The Silence of the Damned by John F. Smith, Founder, World Fathers Union Just a fortnight from now I, like so many other fathers around the world, will exercise my right to think about my son thinking of me, while each of us sits estranged from the other on Father’s Day. Thinking is the one […]

THE WAR ON FATHERS

HOME: It’s well known that roughly half of America’s marriages end in divorce, but not nearly as well known that two out of three of those divorces are initiated by the wives. Moreover, America’s family court system is scandalously biased in favor of the mother in child custody disputes. Fathers get custody of children in […]

Dutch Courage

The results are in from the Netherlands and they are telling. With birth rates falling in general across Europe there is one booming group that aren’t Moslem families, and you may not wish to cheer just yet. The numbers for 2003 have been tabulated and they show a devastating problem coming soon (to a place […]

Stuff from Jim Bailey’s e-mail

Fri 2nd June 2006:

After nearly 10 years of operation, some in the profession believe aspects of the implementation of the Domestic Violence Act 1995 (DVA) are ripe for review. Calls for change as Domestic Violence Act turns 10 A 2004 UK study confirmed that children who have contact with their fathers following a family break-up suffer fewer behavioral […]

Feminist News Reporting

Thu 1st June 2006:

FYI, my email to Radio NZ news desk this morning, regarding the story below. To the News desk, Radio New Zealand I note that in your story about a group of pre-schoolers being walked through a dangerous tunnel, you referred only to “two adults” as the culprits. Was this because they were women? If so, […]

Onerous Protection Orders

Over recent days I have been involved as expert witness in an interesting District Court trial by jury. My client has given me permission to report on it and I will avoid using names and identifying details. The man was accused on two counts of breaching a protection order, and the judge ended up offering […]

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