Building further on my past 2 posts. One mans fight to see his son. It has taken 14 years so far and counting. He claims the mother lied. He calls out Judge Timothy Hindmarsh Druce for perjury and acting legally. He further calls out Judge David Burns and how has his verdicts have been overturned […]

Archive of General
Request 4 your ‘time’, ‘support’ & ‘wisdom’
It’s been a while since I posted here …. or anywhere, for that matter. And I need to overcome this hurdle quickly, because I’m venturing into an online magazine dedicated to ‘Empowering Single Parents & their Families’, both dads and mums. (btw, your input is valued and desired) Something is blocking my willingness to expose […]
Family lawyer exposes the domestic violence racket corrupting our courts
Ex Senior Police Officer Exposes Domestic Violence Order Racket
A system which gives women the right to make allegations of violence with absolutely no evidence which is then used to destroy men’s lives. I agree with the importance of protecting women from violent men. However without notice orders has become is now corrupting our judicial system every week. Bettina Arndt hears from people who […]
Did you experience no access to your children during Covid 19 even though you should have?
Courts right to decide paternity
As per the current family court policies it can be decided by the court to place paternal responsibilities on a father without proving paternity in many situations. Studies also show that as many as 1 in 10 fathers are not biologically the fathers of their children and can end up raising and paying child support […]
Mans Lawyer Ordered To Pay Ex Wife Half A Million + Costs When Trust Failed To Protect His Assets
The new ‘F’ word in Town…
I have already heard it said by the new National Party Leader Todd Muller,,, it is the word FAMILY. There is a strength in that word alone. I was just watching old footage of the 1978 Election campaign, it was kinda pleasing seeing the senses of humour and the banter between the leaders of parties […]
Sexual assault at NZ universities
I’ve recently come across this Australian study of sexual harassment and assault on Aussie campuses: https://humanrights.gov.au/our-work/sex-discrimination/publications/change-course-national-report-sexual-assault-and-sexual?_ga=2.229810588.1021617999.1590021521-1687158381.1589180855 Though it’s been reported under headlines claiming it shows ‘widespread’ harassment and assault, it’s worth noting two things. One is that the definition of harassment is very broad, including ‘inappropriate leering or staring, sexually suggestive comments or jokes, and […]
NZ Menz Summit 2020
The 2020 Men’s Summit is planned to be held on Friday 3rd July in Hamilton at the Glenview Club, 211 Peacocks Road, Hamilton, NZ. It had been planned for April but organizers don’t want to contribute to any possible spreading of the SARS-CoV-2 virus that causes COVID 19 disease. Also, international speakers would be unable […]
how to proceed with my case ?
this started off with a without notice application based on violence and drug use also citing child neglect and untidy living conditions (majorly played up for maximum effect) i held onto my daughter for a week over our informal arrangements due to being threatened to never see her again, police did an uplift after an […]
Family Trusts to protect your house against gold diggers
Back to the Future
I spied an advertisement I am not sure as to what exactly it meant a job vacancy for support/caregiver work but implying that Women need only apply I supposed that possibly their clients were mainly women..?? Do they not need strength to lift and support, to sing, to charm, kindness and great knowledge and interests […]
Self Representation Workshop – February 29
This workshop is designed for parents who have been left with no other option but to self-represent in family court. About this Event Family court is not for the faint of heart. Whether you are applying for custody or defending an application, this is the workshop for you. Knowledge of the unknown makes the process […]
Important petition closing soon
G’day Menz! We started a petition on the NZ parliament website in November 2018. “Sanctions on parents who misuse Family Court procedures” We have 800+ signatures so far. But we know that there are thousands of people are going through the same process. Could you please sign and share the petition if you agree. The […]
False MAF charge aftermath
Having spent 3 years in a relationship with someone (and having a child together) only to find that you have been accused of assault after separation can be rough. Having met my ex-partner while working as a teacher, we fell in love very quickly. The relationship was a wirlwind of ups and downs but that’s […]
Is male suicide genocide?
Men as victims of Intimate Partner Violence – Masters research – can you help?
Hello I am currently writing a dissertation for a Master of Health Science – Violence and Trauma. My topic of research is: Men’s experiences of help seeking as victims of intimate partner violence; is there a need for change in community agency responses and/or family friends as first responders A rather long convoluted title at […]
FORD VS FERRARI
EMPLOYMENT and MEN
The tables have turned for sure. The figures for Public Service workers, Ministry for Social development and now even general employment have women overtaken Men, though in the case of the first two mentioned sectors the percentage difference is in the extremes, public sector being around high sixtys to Mens high twenty percentages and similar […]
Getting Care Right For All Children UN
Getting Care Right for All Children: Implementing the UN Guidelines for the Alternative Care of Children Ensure that alternative care is a necessary, suitable and positive experience for children, with this free online course. Taking the UN Guidelines as a framework, this free online course will help you gain insight into how the unnecessary placement […]
Another poor bloke
Meeting with Paul Hunt NZ Human Rights Commissioner
I am meeting with Paul Hunt the New Zealand Human Rights Commissioner on 16 September. I plan to discuss with him the gender politics of the NZHRC which appears to me to be ideological driven rather than rights driven. I will address a number of issues that disproportionately affect men or where men are neglected […]