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Tue 10th July 2018

Men Make Better Teachers

Filed under: Boys / Youth / Education — mama @ 8:41 pm

Recently I remembered back to my school years and recalled how much I enjoyed my male teachers and one nun!
Anyway I decided to scan the net to see what people thought of the differences between men and women as teachers and came up over numerous articles that men were resoundingly said to better.

More open minded, funny, witty, engaging, diciplinery where necessary to hold attention and better academic results , all according to students, both male and female.

You bet they make great parents.

No Basis for a 50/50 partnership…

Filed under: General — mama @ 8:11 pm

I have to say I have not seen any basis for a 50/50 partnership, if up to women , with immediacy, on the running of our planet.
In any case how would this be possible, maybe communism could get in vogue and we could start new schools rolling out 50/50 engineers, airline pilots, car mechanics, all manor of trades people.

Or maybe women just want to pick and choose the jobs they wish to partake in, if we all do this then who will do the jobs no one wants to do.

So far any basis for major change seems to be largely sexually and monetarily.

Mon 9th July 2018

A Hero – The Glorious Click-bait

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:28 pm

In a land far far away a man steps out of his daily life into international limelight and heroism, as he attempts to rescue 12 boys and their unfortunate coach.

Doctor, Diver, Risk-taker, Survivor.

The story is enlarged, and highlighted as with other big stories on (more…)

Sun 8th July 2018

Disrespect for Free Speech

Filed under: Gender Politics,General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 12:41 pm

Free speech, a prerequisite for democracy, is under attack by the self-proclaimed ‘social justice’ warriors. In this last week we have seen two appalling examples of disrespect for free speech. (more…)

Fri 6th July 2018

Social Intimidation of Young Men

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 1:33 pm

Boys, you look at each one as they come along and question how well they are making the step up to young man.

Given the numbers that would now rely on a mother whose primary concern is how he might treat a future partner rather than how he might survive in the world and the workforce, there has to be 000’s of young males who are open to varying degrees of intimidation.

The political gender-neutral buzz word is (more…)

Google Custom Search

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 9:35 am

As a frequent user of this site function I am noticing a change in the results returned.

Simply put, it is returning a scrambled bunch of results avoiding the search criteria.

I can use Google independently and that search will produce what I know is there as the first match.

Tue 3rd July 2018

Principal Family Court Judge Retires

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 3:50 pm

The country’s principal family court judge will retire next month after 22 years on the bench.
(more…)

Mon 2nd July 2018

Domestic Violence Workplace Policy

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 4:28 pm

Haven’t they been working hard on this.

Jan Logie’s Bill is just the legal trimmings. Behind the scenes the Human Rights Commission has been busy producing a major media platform to launch with it.

The loop includes known Feminists groups such as Shine and Women’s Refuge.

There is also a link into a Government data base at the Ministry of Business.

Unless you’re part of that then you’re out in the cold but you already knew that.

Sun 1st July 2018

The Modern Addictions

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:30 pm

Sitting quietly in the suburbs is a retired 60 something woman who calls herself a gamer. Perhaps a little unusual to see a woman of that age with such a high degree of familiarity with technology and the net, and she is retired, so is it an addiction and does it matter?

For her (and I suppose it could equally be a guy, I don’t know) (more…)

Sat 30th June 2018

Jarrod Ramos and the Capital Gazette Newspaper

Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 1:22 pm

It’s unbelievably terrible and totally unacceptable for someone to commit murder, or indeed to ‘take the law into his own hands’ through violent retribution of any kind. Our compassionate thoughts go out to the families, associates and communities of the murdered employees of the Capital Gazette in Maryland, U.S. and to those injured and terrorized by Jarrod Ramos. (more…)

Wed 27th June 2018

Cannabis prohibition is mostly anti-male

Filed under: Law & Courts — Vman @ 7:06 pm

Hopefully the readers of this website are mostly well informed about the problems of prohibition of cannabis versus the advantages of legalization and regulation of this plant. If not I’ll be happy to outline them for you.

What I’d like to focus on in this post is how the current cannabis prohibition laws disproportionately criminalise men for doing something that causes no harm to others.

One of the problems with prohibition (more…)

IRD System in Crisis

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 6:01 am

Accountants have gone to the media to highlight the failing computer system at IRD.

They do not mention child support as a specific issue and it may not be part of the same computer system.

Is anyone experiencing online issues trying to sort out child support?

Tue 26th June 2018

Men & Children DV shelters…..how many….if any?

Filed under: Domestic Violence — Jonathan @ 8:16 pm

Does anyone know how many mens DV shelters there are in NZ…say compared to womens DV shelters?
I realise they are grossly under represented but would like to find out exactly what the figures are, and where the information can be sourced.
Additionally would be useful to have an idea of what kind of comparative funding each get.
Any information welcome and would likely be of use when putting forward reasoned arguments, in conjunction with DV stats, to those who may suggest male shelters are not necessary.

Thanks
Jonathan

MeToo Hysteria hits New Zealand

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 10:40 am

New Zealand may never be the same again.

No, it’s not an update on the Prime Minister’s baby.

The breaking news this morning; (more…)

Labour Youth Camp

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 9:11 am

The breaking news this morning;

A 20 year old man is facing charges in relation to a Labour Youth Camp at Waihi.

As the matter is now before the courts I’ll keep this post brief but it is available for comments.

Copied from Stuff News:

The arrest came after allegations the man sexually assaulted four teenagers, all aged 16, including putting his hands down the pants of at least three of them during the Waihi camp in February.

The Young Labour supporter was ejected the morning after the alleged incidents took place and barred from future events. There was alcohol at the summer camp despite some people in attendance being underage.

Copied from Radio New Zealand

Four teenagers reported being harassed at a Young Labour camp in Waihi in February.

Police said a man has been arrested and and bailed to appear in court on four charges of indecent assault, following an investigation into allegations relating to the summer camp.

The man is due to appear in the Auckland District Court on 5 July.

Copied from the Newsroom:

The young victim said: “It’s been such an unnerving time. To know that four months after the assaults occurred, that some action is finally being taken is fantastic. It feels like there’s some closure. After months of backtracks, lack of support and media coverage, its all coming to a head.

“[…] now the arrest…. and the release of the independent report in the next few weeks is really going to put the assaults and response to the assaults seriously in the spotlight.

“I’m hoping that some good will come out of it and the [man] begins to realise the seriousness of his actions and the awful position it has put not only me in, but the other three victims and the Labour Party too.

“This whole ordeal has detailed perfectly the party’s failings regarding sexual assault as a whole, yet somehow I am confident and remain hopeful that the party will not let something like this happen in the future”

Mon 25th June 2018

Ministry for Boys and Men

Filed under: General — JustCurious @ 8:59 am

There is a ministry for every thing and everyone in this country.
Even for sheep, cows and manure.
I want to setup a party for men and boys.
Or at least a ministry for men.
How can we achieve that?

Fri 22nd June 2018

Propensity Evidence

Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 2:03 pm

In what seems to be a recent development to increase the rate of conviction for men accused of sexual crimes, prosecutions are allowed to use innovative forms of ‘propensity evidence’. A couple of recent cases, ‘Auckland builder jailed for rape…’ and ‘West Auckland man jailed for sexual assault…’ have allowed complainants from previous acquittals to tell their unproven allegations again to the current jury, and unsurprisingly this resulted in convictions for currently alleged offending even though the evidence for that particular current offending may have been inadequate. (more…)

Wed 20th June 2018

Men and Relationships in 2018

Filed under: General — allan harvey @ 6:27 pm

You are warmly invited to join us at Kidz Need Dadz Conference 2018.

We are discussing a subject that touches many in our community – Men and Relationships in 2018 – Te tangata me te whanaungatanga i roto i te 2018.

Key Note Speakers:

Chris Bowden Victoria University; Male Suicide, Risk, Relationships and Responses

Children’s Commissioner Judge Andrew Becroft; Men, their children and the importance of this relationship

Minister of Children The Honourable Tracey Martin; Governments policy approach to the interconnectivity between children and their fathers

Oranga Tamariki/Ministry for Children Deputy Chief Executive Hoani Lambert; Ministry’s approach to the environment that exists between children and their fathers.

Philip Chapman Male Survivors Aotearoa ; How Men Survive Sexual Abuse

We look forward to you joining us at this critical event – Titiro matou atu ki a koutou hono tatou i tenei hui tino.

After you have registered we will be in touch via email to capture dietary requirements and any other additional information.

Foetal Drug Issues

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 3:16 pm

Foetal Alcohol Syndrome became a recognisable problem and while this remains an issue for pregnant women we may be on the cusp of a much larger problem.

These are issues that I don’t have any great understanding of so I’m writing generally about recently expressed concerns that prompt this post as I can see the need to be concerned.

Meths may be the first drug to significantly impact our education system by complicating learning difficulties and even creating new ones.

I understand that the relationship between meths (more…)

Mon 18th June 2018

The Male Crisis

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 7:18 am

Is that possible?

Could we reach a point where the anti-male hysteria drives a society, a whole country, especially a small country like New Zealand into the crisis zone?

How many years ago did we start to raise issues like,

Fatherlessness
The possible effects on children

How many issues saw no acknowledgement because (more…)

Fri 15th June 2018

Male Post Natal Depression

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 9:08 pm

Dad does a runner

This is a far more complicated story than what first appeared.

I thought it was worth posting as it appears to include a blended family situation, parental leave issues, but also support issues for fathers.

How would you have coped in this situation?

Depressed women in my experience do the same thing – abandon the baby when they can’t cope.

Dad does a runner? Emotive head line?

Another male in difficult circumstances but the media story is straight for the jugular?

Should men now be considered being at risk of post natal depression?

Victims’ Protection Bill

Filed under: Domestic Violence — Jonathan @ 7:11 am

New Bill put forward by the Greens (Jan Logie MP), and it’s passing appears to be imminent:
Jan Logie states “The bill would extend leave provisions to include domestic violence leave as when women leave a violent situation it can be very hard for them to juggle court, counselling, housing and the needs of their children without extra leave. “, which isn’t too encouraging. However, on perusal of the draft it does appear to be inclusive of male victims also, as it refers to “his or her employers” when referring to victims.
Draft can be found at https://www.greens.org.nz/policy/fairer-society/domestic-violence-victims-protection-bill

Wed 13th June 2018

Rose McGowan leaves birthday wishes for Harvey Weinstein

Filed under: General — Lukenz @ 1:42 pm

Hard to tell if she is acting or not.

Anyway. Just wondered how on earth can Harvey get a fair trial with all shows and media interviews before a trial even begins.

Rose Weinstein said at the end of the view. “We Win”. That part I agree she has won already. No need for a proper trial. No need to listen to facts or anything else. No need to look at the photos and video of Rose with Harvey after the alleged offences. No need to take into account the understood casting couch swap for fame. No need to take into account Rose McGowan arrest drug possession.

The Analysis

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 12:02 pm

Correct me if I’m wrong but I think it was JP who announced late last year that,

“Some of us are getting a bit long in the tooth.”

And there’re veterans here, 20-25 years that I can see – any 30 year voices still out there?

Yesterday, somehow I found myself in the MENZ archives back in 1998 looking at a commentary which mentioned (more…)

Tue 12th June 2018

Prostate Cancer Saliva Test

Filed under: General — Downunder @ 9:59 am

I’m seeing the odd news flash on this but nothing substantial.

It appears to be only in the trial stage but hey, having a spit in a jar has got to be less stressful than the fear of a hand on each shoulder … let’s pray for sucess on this one.

Jokes aside, if you see any developments on this thread, help keep us up to date in the comments.

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