I know this video is a bit US but there are parallels to NZ. First of all we dads experience parental alienation.
One of the things the NZ court does and continues to do is ignore alienation or not place a higher priority or importance on alienation. The US seems now to openly call alenation child abuse.
In minute 8:39 parental alienation is not commonly taught, it requires certain types of thinking.
The thinking in NZ is if a mother can successfully alienate the child, then the mother is awarded custody of the child and the family home, everything in that home. It’s a massive prize and reward. Rather than calling it child abuse in NZ we call it an abusive dad and the dad must be booted from the child’s life and have his home and stuff taken from him.
In minute 2:20 the alienator is assaulting the child’s memory, feeling, thinking, relationship with a parent.
In minute 9:37, the alienating parent is recognised as having one of three types of personality orders, or a commination.
Why Do Men and Boys Turn To Gangs? – For some, would it be their families were ruined by Government policy? By law?
In the news today I read gang numbers have gone from 2000 to 4000 members in 5 years. Extreme violent crimes from broken men who’s families were wrecked from unfair treatment of dad. Unfairly destroying fathers in the family court. Taking dad out of the family home while mum brings her new man home. Mum missing from the family home for the night. Children wondering why their once loving dad hasn’t bothered to ring. Wondering why he hasn’t been seen. Children who didn’t know he had a phoney protection order against him. Mum too busy in courtship. What does that do to a child’s mind? And what does that do to a child’s mind when dad makes contact secretly, boy says to mum, i saw dad today, then learns he was thrown in jail because mum had him arrested?
Woman back to work as soon as the child is born? How is that working for the kids? I recall my mother being within ear shot as she spent each day with us, playing with us. Caring and taking an interest in me and my siblings. Getting us dressed in the mornings, feeding us, taking us to the park to play or grandmas place to play there. Mothers saying they love their kids, but really love their career and money more.
Gangs seem to be the only home the once cared for male children turn to. Who thinks gangs will continue to grow unless policies change?
I don’t want this to be seen as political. Rather a woman, as usual, doing what she dam well pleases without a mandate, any debate or your approval.
Ever find a woman you let into your life who at the beginning of a relationship turns bad when that woman agrees to something then goes back on her word? Her agender was not what she said it would be? You turn around and find your stuff is taken, and your life is turned upside down.
Put that on a grand scale. Take a peek at what this woman is doing to the assets your fathers, your grand and great, great grandfathers built. The men, and it was near 100% men paying taxes to build just to be given away by this woman, redistributed so you can pay retail for the use of them.
I’ve written previously about the significance of identity. I’d like to think that we don’t dispute the importance of what we describe in so many different ways. Self respect, personal growth, birthright, credibility, social standing … how many more ways could you describe that?
If you want to broaden your thinking broaden your reading and not just about history but the history of individual subjects. Anyone being more familiar with the history of media has a much better insight into our current events. Media history within countries, the history of say Pravda in Russia as an example is quite different to US media or British media history. Our early New Zealand media is iconic in leading development in the final frontier country but our current media is more reflective of periods of history in other countries.
Its all about a woman who is about to lose her job to a man. The course this woman has decided to take is to attempt to ruin a mans future over an allegation alone.
Judith Collings, a woman who has the lowest political polling’s for a National leader I can recall, clearly feeling threatened by Simon Bridges for the leadership, decides to demote Bridges for an allegation of a historical sexual comment made to a female MP Jacqui Dean 5 years ago.
Collings says she had unanimous support from the board to demote Bridges but other National party sources say there was no vote.
Collings says Bridges alleged comments to Dean has caused ongoing distress.
Is Collings trying to oust Bridges for no other reason she is about to be rolled?
Is Jacqui Dean playing along with Collings for her own political future?
Has Collings held the allegation over Bridges for 5 years if he challenges?
Is Judith Collings a blackmailer and a liar?
Is Jacqui Dean a woman who is seeking to secure her future by throwing a man under a bus with an aligation of a historical single comment?
Margaret Gardener helps men, boys and their families with the psychological impact of false accusations of sexual abuse. She deals with male suicides, the families, children that are left to deal with that.
Talks about a tweak to the UK’s law requiring bad character evidence can’t be given against the accuser, but it’s OK to be given against the accused. How that alone is convicting men who were falsely accused. Our politicians (more…)
When MENZ started out it was ‘new media’ based on new technology, back in the day. Looking back by comparison that was not long after the somewhat radical “Scoop News” had launched in 1999, but that’s another story.
In the last two decades, media has seen phenomenal changes through the rapid development of technology and very much so in the last few years.
Through that entire time ‘men issues’ and the non-woke-bloke have (more…)
This is not a commercial video with all the gleam a newsroom presenter adds to a short 60 second story.
It is unscripted.
Just 2 men who want to tell other men why you can’t get involved in a live-in relationship with a woman anymore.
Yes, it is from the US, but there is virtually no difference in NZ.
Perjury is not only acceptable in the family court, it is engineered, encouraged and endorsed because there is no penalty. Only vast rewards and near endless sums of money and or someone else’s land, home and all the items in that home.
The children remain the victims in their wellbeing, relationships with their dad and financial future.
The men are victims, and that’s a major compoenent of your four to one male suicide rate.
State-sponsored human rights abuse. The New Zealand Government knows it. The New Zealand Government hides it. But the money is just too good to give up.
The Australian Government closed their family court for this very reason. The New Zealand Government, now running low on credit, is holding on.
Seems the independent Police Complaints Authority are not so independent after all. It appears to be just a front to avoid criminal charges.
The length of time to investigate one(s) of their own on physical and sexual assault has taken far too long.
And why does the media print his name and not the offending sworn police officers?
Imagine the police bashing a woman, forcing her to take her underwear off in front of camera’s. And what were the police expecting to find down there anyway?
Imagine if a woman said to police she was sexually assaulted by police and the police told her “Well, you are a good-looking woman”. What is the name of this police sergeant? And why is that called banter if it was a man?
Where are the criminal charges Supt Naila Hassan? And why do you get to keep your job if you won’t charge your own with assault, sexual assault?
If I was in a gang, and we took a drunk woman from the street, made her sit in a drivers seat of car with her bottle of bourbon to frame her, bashed her, smashed her phone when she started to video me, pepper sprayed her, handcuffed her, stripped her, ripped her panties off, rubbed her vagina. – Where would I be now? That police person needs to face a criminal trial.
These actions are not a breach of the Police code of conduct, they are a breach of the crimes act. Where are the charges?
All credit to Mr Matt Burrows, an Auckland based reporter for Newshub.
Trust is the key.
I told you many years ago
But you couldn’t see
Trust is the key
It’s what binds humanity
But you wouldn’t listen to me
Are you listening now.
It’s the doorway to division
But do you see?
Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 4:48 pm
The next Men’s Summit 1-day conference will be held on April 29, 2022 at the RSA meeting room, 544 Maunganui Road, Mt Maunganui.
We are excited to announce that we have secured the attendance via internet of Warren Farrell as keynote speaker. You will be able to see and hear his presentation, ask him questions and discuss matters, and he will also provide an interactive experience with those attending. (more…)
Probably the shortest and frankest video explaining how the world treats boys and the guaranteed outcome.
Scott Adams says when boys are treated like pieces of shit that don’t matter whatsoever, don’t be surprised if they act like the way they are treated. (more…)
I really do think some people think this group never existed.
That’s about a third of the original team from around New Zealand with regional representatives from both North and South Islands that met in Wellington for the formal launch 20 years ago now in September 2001.
Most of the original members came from another existing fathers group somewhere around New Zealand.
This picture includes guest speaker Michael Green Australian QC and author of ‘Fathers After Divorce’.
Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 10:00 am
This story highlights the male-blaming assumptions commonly held by police, in this case, an ex-policeman. He saw a car come to a screeching halt outside his place, saw a woman get out of the car ‘quickly’, then said “Doors were slamming open and shut and they were obviously having quite a heated domestic”. (more…)
Filed under: General — Ministry of Men's Affairs @ 9:08 am
Ms Schow is doing a great job exposing misandry in US educational institutions and Bettina Arndt continues her great job of interviewing significant people. Can feminism and its supporters hold back the tide of reason and truth? (more…)
NZ teacher Peter Joyce’s settled life was disrupted when a woman he had never met accused him of historic rape. With a unique brand of angry humour, his diary plots the stages of his despair and traces his attempts to find justice in the face of the current insistence that we must “believe the victim”.
Dry Ice is a compelling memoir, but much more. The accusation made the writer a reluctant expert on similar cases from all over the world. He throws light on everything that limits public knowledge of false sexual allegations, from dangerous counselling to flawed statistics, and he exposes police investigation methods as blinkered, inefficient and insensitive.